I met this guy at my friends party who was beautiful my type ON POINT. Hes brazilian (I always end up with foreigners)& hes my style. At first he didnt seem that interested in me he was txting on his phone & not trying to talk to me that much. Soon he started loosening up, he had a beer or two&we started talking. He was trying to play footsies with me (awww ha) & then we started cuddling, &I noticed he was around me for the rest of the night We were holding holds& he tried to kiss me but I pulled away. Him & his friend got arrested that night for drinkin, so dumb. B4, he left he told me to call him. I txted him asking if he was ok,&he didnt respond. When he got out of lock up, he called me & told me what was up&asked me what i was doing & stuf. I was like we need to hang out &hes like ya definitely so he said he'd txt me later. He did that night, later I told him my myspace link so he'd find me, but he never responded& its been 4 days. What is going on? He seemed to be into me..
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PS. I'm 19, and he's 18.
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When i said he is brazilian and i always end up with foreigners, I meant I find it funny because I am always attracted to them. And no, I am not stereotyping them, most of my friends are brazilians and they've changed my life (in a positive way) My ex boyfriend is brazilian. Trust me, I am far from thinking that "brazilians" end up in jail.
I'm latin myself.
2007-10-12 14:05:35 · 13 answers · asked by Rhonda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe when he went onto myspace he got distracted?
2007-10-12 14:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all this guy is danger, when they need a beer to let loose that means they are loosers, and the fact that he is treating you the way he is IT IS NOT YOU you are not doing anything wrong, all he likes are flings and playing with peoples feelings don't fall into this category (I know), just find another brazilian YES they are goreous, and don't look back, if they don't try to impress you in the begining they never will
2007-10-12 21:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Remy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy but I don't think you are doing anything wrong. You did it all right but maybe you should call him if you think its been too long. You never know, maybe he got locked up again. Or call one of his friends, if you know any, and ask whats up with him. If you really like him, its normal. I mean, he called you once already, and said he'd hang out with you. Why would he call once .. and never call again? Just call him lol
2007-10-12 21:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the little heiatus to girls to, I do it to see if they actually care about the times we had. (which might not be a lot but its always worth it.) Just give him time, send him a message or comment on myspace, let him know you want to know about what up and stuff. Trust me I do the same.....
...or his computer broke and he can't log on. But thats worst case scenario. lol
2007-10-12 21:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
atta girl...nice update ;) that said..i still don't think YOU are the problem here :)
if he isn't smart enough to see how beautiful you are on the inside...as well as on the outside to see what he'd be missing..
his loss your gain..(even if it doesn't look like a gain at the moment)
2007-10-12 21:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't seem to be interested in you as a person. He was looking for a bootie call.
2007-10-12 21:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he cant get his head on straight, and he already went to jail once....why are you even worried about a problem like him. you know its only going to get worse...right? think with your head my dear and know right from wrong with this guy.
2007-10-12 21:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by notcatchable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try giving him a call it cant hurt
2007-10-12 21:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty obvious - he was dringing when he was "into" you. I have to also wonder who he was texting when you found him.
2007-10-12 21:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
read a book sweetheart.
2007-10-12 21:08:27 · answer #10 · answered by R H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋