Family & Relationships - 12 October 2007

and he obviously has been extremely upset. I have been trying to do my best to make him feel better, but I feel like I'm not helping. I don't really know what to say to him. I have never lost anyone one that was close to me, so I don't really understand how he is feeling. Any advice on how I should help him through this? What I should say to him to help try and make him feel better?

2007-10-12 15:22:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

has anyone had to deal with their wives about them having a child that wasn't theirs? that is you married your wife two years later a baby comes along you raise it until its about 8 years old and you find out the child isnt actually yours. has anyone went through this? if so what did you do? how you react?

2007-10-12 15:20:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you get past the fact that they had sex . kissed, hugged and all that goes with sex , how do you move on and stay with that person?

2007-10-12 15:19:48 · 21 answers · asked by wildone 3 in Marriage & Divorce

bear in mind that it is a beach wedding too...

2007-10-12 15:19:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My cousin and I were driving on a road, that has very tight turns. I spun out and ended up hitting the guardrail with the side of my car. We are both fine, but my parents will freak out. How should I tell them about it?

2007-10-12 15:18:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

relationship 101

2007-10-12 15:17:59 · 37 answers · asked by neLz 1 in Singles & Dating

when you are trying to give him space to get through a rough time. but there comes a point where it is disrespectful when he's not contacting you...agree?
It's been 5 days!
(we've been dating for 4 months...he is at the end of his divorce process and claims to be completley stressed out and unhappy bc she is trying to take him for everything)
I know this is "singles and dating" but i put it in here bc i wanted more mature answers than that of a bunch of 15 year olds...

2007-10-12 15:16:09 · 11 answers · asked by Jax 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife is 31 years old and my girlfriend is 22.

2007-10-12 15:15:38 · 29 answers · asked by KhrisB 3 in Singles & Dating

You found out he/she cheated on you..with MORE THAN ONE PERSON???

2007-10-12 15:13:34 · 26 answers · asked by MaknMeCrzy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

And why?

2007-10-12 15:08:58 · 10 answers · asked by Lioness 6 in Marriage & Divorce

with someone of the opposite sex and the both of you really had a lot in common and felt a certain connection with them how long would you or should you wait before telling them that you liked them?

2007-10-12 15:07:04 · 17 answers · asked by NoLongerHere 7 in Singles & Dating

i like this dude named Julio should i hold hi hand on the forth day of going out?

2007-10-12 15:00:39 · 2 answers · asked by ♥melitza♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex's cell phone say"s call unavable or out of the severs are dose that mean he cut his cell phone off or what dose it mean he said i could call when ever i wanted to and i told him same thing he calls me and i been calling him until now now his cell say what i said it did could have cute it off cause he has befor when we were dateing cause he could not pay the bill then he got it back on when he got the money to. thanks for the help my cell is a pay card cell phone and his is on a sing up deal. again thanks.

2007-10-12 14:59:37 · 6 answers · asked by betty m 6 in Singles & Dating

As life goes on, the guys who don't/can't commit to good women- feeling bad or not feeling bad, cheating, lying, playing..

what is the best, middle, and worst case scenario? What is what typically happens? I'm just curious how these things follow a person or do they often straighten up just enough?

2007-10-12 14:59:03 · 16 answers · asked by sojourning.sarah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife swears that I have learned to tune out her voice (at a certain pitch) completely. I say it's because she's mumbling and I can't be bothered trying to puzzle together what she's communicating, so I wait until she's more exact and gets to the point (she's usually upset by then).

Seriously, do you think men start completely tuning out (versus ignoring) the voice of the woman in their life at a certain time in the realtionship?

What's your experience?

2007-10-12 14:54:57 · 20 answers · asked by whuz007 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 14:54:43 · 11 answers · asked by kedrick g 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been day dreaming of other guys, not like sex ,but what would it be like if i was in a relation ship with them is that normal? i mean i already know im not happy where im at in my own relation ship, But what do i do and is it bad to think of other guys in that kind of way? I used to be the one who would always be single and now im not i miss thouse day's.

2007-10-12 14:52:05 · 27 answers · asked by nellie s 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you say

2007-10-12 14:50:03 · 10 answers · asked by kedrick g 5 in Singles & Dating

this girl is having a party at her house tomorrow for her birthday and she invited my friend and i. my friend said that he couldn't go because he was going on vacation, then he kept telling me not to go because he doesn't like her friends and i don't really like them either. she found out that he was telling me this and now i think she is mad at me. i sent her a text message saying i was rsvping. then i asked what she would like me to get her for a gift. she hasn't replied and i sent the message about a half hour ago. do you think she is mad at me.

my friend doesn't like her friends because he went out with her best friend and things didn't work out that good. she hangs out with the water polo guys and for some reason i can't stand them. i want to go to the party though because i like her.

2007-10-12 14:47:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know my uncle thinks my aunt is a natural blonde to this day. I don't know if this has fallen out of fashion. Same thing with the age thing.

2007-10-12 14:45:49 · 12 answers · asked by Javier V 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I know this is gonna sound bad but, i kinda set my fiance up on Myspace. I pretended to be someone else to see what he would say. I sent a flirty message to him as the fake girl, to my surprised he responed. In the fake message i sent him said''I seen you profile and I like what I see, drop me a line if you are interested". He responed" I like what i see too, write back when you can spare a little time''. I was floored and so damn mad and very hurt , but i asked for right?We were planning to get married soon also, What should I do ? Tell him its me or keep pretending to see how far he would take it? Or what?
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2007-10-12 14:43:41 · 33 answers · asked by DREA K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been dating her for like 9 months and i love her to death....but she doesnt like to say i love you..or i miss you....or anything....shes away at college(in Maine) and im still in high school(in CT).....i asked her why she wont say i love or i miss u and all she said was that she doesnt like to get all sappy...How can i get her to just say I Love You....thats all i want

2007-10-12 14:41:18 · 18 answers · asked by Jon S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 14:39:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i kno this is wrong of me,but i found my ex best friends passwords and got on her email,and looked at her questions asked- and one of them said "my best friend is really wierd,and i dont wanna be seen with her,what should i do?" and yes i kno she was talkin about me.that really hurts, and i kno it was wrong of me, but i just cant believe she thought that. now i feel really bad.i mean i'm that wierd that people are emberassed to be seen with me....wow.i will not be able to stop thinking about this.

2007-10-12 14:38:37 · 13 answers · asked by nobody's kid 2 in Friends

whom should I report?

2007-10-12 14:31:15 · 14 answers · asked by Rob 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 14:29:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What reason for him to dial *67 before dialin my numba.
he kno i got his numba so why is he blockin? dont understand him sometimes

2007-10-12 14:28:49 · 7 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

And rhen gets mad because I don't trust him....

2007-10-12 14:27:43 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it's never that simple is it. I'm a church girl, yep and a good one too but i have def. found my thorn in my flesh and it's love, attention, affection and sex. I have three kids, i stay at home. I have a great husband with a great job. we've had our prob. but nothing out of the ordinary. He's a cpa so from jan-april 15th we do not see each other until after 9/10 pm. I can't take it i need more. that's how i met my lover. we were just friends that feel in love, ironically i work on him with his realtionship with God as well. We don't want to be in love but it hurts so bad to talk about breaking it off. I"m tired of being second to everyone, to his wife and to m y husbands Job. I want to work on my issues with my husband and grow old with him. we are already in couns. and taking a marriage class, we've been married 10 years. I love this other man so much it hurts. How do i fall out of love with the other man with out hurting. Prayer is my number one answer any other advice of how?

2007-10-12 14:21:10 · 30 answers · asked by adrianna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 14:20:28 · 2 answers · asked by gussie 7 in Friends