I have been day dreaming of other guys, not like sex ,but what would it be like if i was in a relation ship with them is that normal? i mean i already know im not happy where im at in my own relation ship, But what do i do and is it bad to think of other guys in that kind of way? I used to be the one who would always be single and now im not i miss thouse day's.
2007-10-12 14:52:05 · 27 answers · asked by nellie s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are drowning in misery...trying to find a happy place.
Move on, life's too short!
2007-10-12 14:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by BossLady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting...
I've been there many times especially when I'm in a so-so relationship.
I usually end up quitting the current one (I don't know if it was always right but it seemed that way even after)
Spend some time trying to understand yourself (and even more time) and try to understand where you truly are with all your intimate relationships.
Use a journal to keep theings straight if you have to. Try it a week with the notes and see if it helps. Be honest.
2007-10-12 14:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by true_value5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally normal. we all dream of the opposite sex.
if you're impatient for a boyfriend, don't be. life is actually better as a single person. you spend less time stressing over what to wear, makeup, and you get to eat onion rings without worrying about your breath. your perfect guy will come along soon. so just keep dreaming. it's normal.
2007-10-12 14:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by Meg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats normal and you should be glad that you realize it now. because the guy your with apparently isnt for you, this is a perfect calling for you. its tellin u to drop your guy and just have fun and enjoy being single for a while and then worry about finding the right guy he just might come to you when your least expectin it. go out with some friends and have an awesome time
best wishes
2007-10-12 15:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by bballbabe725 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, considering the fact you spelled relationship as two words, you must be young. this is good! stay single or in just dating terms for a long time, their will always be some other man more interesting... you should keep yourself available to talk with them. I have been married for four years and all I have been able to think about lately is how increadably SEXY my History teacher is,and wounder what it would be like to be with him
2007-10-12 15:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by kristin p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay if you are not happy where you are by all means get out of that relationship for every 60 seconds you are unhappy you loose a minute of happiness that is your life. Don't waste your time on someone who you are not crazy about. And daydreaming about other guys in absolutely fine I think it is healthy you shouldn't be too attached to one guy. i daydream about guys probably every couple minutes but i'm not dating anyone
2007-10-12 14:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you mean. The only thing is that it's not fair to the relationship you're in. If you have become disenchanted, for some reason, then you need to break off your present relationship BEFORE you meet someone else! Good luck!
2007-10-12 14:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by Chris B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so honestly.. i think EVERYBODY boy and girl goes through what it would be like with another boy/girl. Its normal i mean i have a boyfriend and i kinda wonder sometimes how it would to be single.. but honestly.. its just a stage.
Unless you start thinking about another guy A LOT maybe you need to rethink who you really want to be with.
2007-10-12 14:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by katiebugs00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal to day dream about other people regardless of your relationship status. If you miss being single, why not be single?
2007-10-12 14:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by wdstraube 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean other guys besides your boyfriend? Because your avatar is female. When I read this I thought a guy wrote it and was looking at other guys.
If you are involved with someone and interested in being with someone else, you should end your current relationship.
2007-10-12 14:55:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in a bad relationship get out.The reason your day dreaming about other guys somuch is because you are unhappy.It isnt fair to you or the guy youre with.
2007-10-12 14:56:52 · answer #11 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋