ive been dating her for like 9 months and i love her to death....but she doesnt like to say i love you..or i miss you....or anything....shes away at college(in Maine) and im still in high school(in CT).....i asked her why she wont say i love or i miss u and all she said was that she doesnt like to get all sappy...How can i get her to just say I Love You....thats all i want
2007-10-12 14:41:18 · 18 answers · asked by Jon S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As much as you want to hear her say those words they will mean little if she's saying them only to please your ego.
If this was meant to be, then it will be. Start thinking about looking for other woman to date to occupy yourself while Sweet-thang is at school.
She's maturing faster than you are right now and if she will ever say those words, it will be because you gave her the 'space' she needs to grow. True love can happen when you grow together. But in life we all grow in different stages.
2007-10-12 14:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Schmo from Kokomo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
Listen if she can't say it then she most likely doesnt. Even if you have asked her if she does. If she can't say this then I really don't see a future together for you two . You cant coax somebody into saying I love you. If she truly does she will say it on her own. I'm sure your a sweet guy, you seem like it. You deserve to be told these three wonderful words, but if this girl doesn't love somebody after 9 months of being together then either she has been hurt in the past or she doesn't love you. I hope she does soon though.
2007-10-12 21:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by :] 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look it not anything that can be push on someone. Saying "I love you to someone is a strong meaning, or it's suppose to be at least. However lots of people throw the it around like it means very little. Maybe she's not in love with you. Does she show attraction for you in otherr ways? Watch for othe indications. Don't doing something dumb like asking her why doesn't she say it back and don't be pushy about it. If you do you will more than likely screw this whole thing up.
2007-10-15 01:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well remember true love is patient maybe she has been hurt before and is afraid of the same thing happening again you shouldn't rush her those 3 words are very precious and you can't just tell them to anyone but she has been with you for 9 months now so obviously she cares alot about you maybe she just wants to take it slow
2007-10-12 21:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jessy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you can't really make her say something that she doesn't want to or doesn't feel right at the moment. i mean, if you think about, if you just get her to say it, you are making her lie to just make you satisfied. what you can ask her is if there is another reason behind it? i mean, if she still admits that she cares for you and has strong feelings for you, i think that should be enough.
2007-10-12 21:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. She already told you that she doesn't like to say it. If she shows you that she loves you, that's all that matters. I know people who have been married for years and they never say I love you. It's just not part of her personality. Deal with it.
2007-10-12 21:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by cutie pie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok Try this-
SAY I LOVE YOU TO HER AND SHES LIKELY TO SAY IT BACK!
God how would any of the people on yahoo answers get along without people like me?
2007-10-12 21:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by Jkool 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love is a not a word you just throw around
it probably means something really special to her
and when its that special time for her
you two probably be in "love"
2007-10-12 21:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by hellojello 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her.. maybe shes been hurt before and she wants 2 make sure its right.. give it some time and show her that ur right for her... you cant force her to say it..
are you sure shes faithfull..
maybe she doesnt have the words to say goodbye
has she ever sed it b4?
ask about her past relationships..
2007-10-12 21:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you tell her you love her and she does not say the same to you, it may be she does not love you.
2007-10-12 21:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by jenny 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋