Family & Relationships - 12 October 2007

since this boy that ive become really close with in these past 2 years has gained my trust so much like no other and he tells me that he wont tell anyone the serects we had or what we even told one another, and he goes if u know me rly u wud know i wouldnt do anything without telling you first.
and says he wont because he doesnt wanna backstab me.
but then he goes and tells one of my best friends that i sed all this stuff about her when its not even true.
i have a reason to be mad rite?
isntt that messed up or am i wrong?
i deff. think i have a good reason not to trust him anymore, or even talk to him.

2007-10-12 16:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by hannah 2 in Singles & Dating

Since i was 14 years old i found out that i get more attracted 2 girls more than boys & am glad with that BUT the problem is that am Arabic and am living in an Arab country which is really difficult for me, cuz here they dont tolerate with a girl\guy being gay, they will always treat her bad and call her names, there's alot like me but we never show or say anyhing about it, Guys in my college r crazy about me & chasin me, BUT i hate them, and the problem is that eventually i'll have 2 marry one cause i cant stay single 4ever since it's like a shame on a girl if she was an old single women in here,
am sad & heart broken :( still waitin for my soulmate, my true love,THE ONE,
but seems am loosin the hope each day, should i keep on fightin or sould i just surrender & go with the flow ?! :(
BTW 4give my english, cuz i've never been in the states or any english country be4, am tryin my best in here lolz :p

P.s http://myspace.com/lil_tanya00
my webpage with all my pic's if u care ...

2007-10-12 15:59:29 · 2 answers · asked by ~ T a n y a ~ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

GUYS!!!!! (or gals, if it's your thing... :?)
Would you rather have a girl with no boobs (totally flat) and a round, toned curvacious bubble butt and an "itty-bitty" waist
or...

A girl with a huge, real, bouncy lucious 5 star rack but a flat washboard butt? (Also with an "itty, bitty" waist?)

Only ONE choice! What's your preference and what tends to "get you off" more?

2007-10-12 15:59:20 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you have kids or nieces, nephews you know how it feels when they say something as only a child can say it. Sometimes it cute. Sometimes its embarrassing. Whats the cutest or most memorable thing one of them has said. It may have been 30 years ago or 30 minutes ago.

One of my favorites was when my daughter was about 4 and she was watching tv with her little brother. I think the show was Bozo or something and they brought an orangatan on the stage. My son pointed and squeeled "monkey!" and my know-it-all daughter exasperately told him "Thats not a monkey, it a meringue-a-tang!" (I always picture a fluffy white ape when I think of that)

2007-10-12 15:58:57 · 10 answers · asked by Jade 2 in Family

Its a hard decision because we have 2 young children, boys, 2 and 5, also because my husband has never done those things that alot of women complain about, he never cheated for the 9 yrs we've been together, he doesn't drink, take drugs, he hang out all night, he basically keeps to himself. No problems with inlaws, they live in another country. My husband
generally is very affectionate with the boys and takes care of them well when I work(parttime). He's a hardworker. Athough he doesn't usually volunteer to it, he helps out with house chores. However we fight like cats and dogs & can't seem to get along. We seem to be fighting 90% of the time. We've said alot of hurtful things to each other & are just not happy. He doesn't want to admit or accept that we should divorce. He's in denial. I just feel as if he never really loved me or else he would never have caused all the problems that he always has caused. We tried couselling but never stuck with it, I don't know if its worth it.

2007-10-12 15:58:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 15:58:37 · 6 answers · asked by Cheryl S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

UM when mE and my bf startd going out hE used to txt mE heaps in a day but after a month and a half hE doesnt txt mE much nemorE. well he still txts mE everydae but just not as much, is it normal? I mean does he still like mE as much as hE used t0? and How aM I gona kno if he still likes mE as much as hE used t0?

2007-10-12 15:56:14 · 1 answers · asked by Ldea_27 2 in Singles & Dating

I usually let her sleep in on Saturday and she lets me sleep in on Sunday. I usually get up early and make her coffee for her and make breakfast. I am thinking tomorrow maybe I will take them somewhere for breakfast or brunch after she gets up, depending on how late she sleeps. I can't decide where to take my family to for breakfast. Maybe I will do the usual coffee and breakfast, and then do a picnic for lunch and feed the ducks at the lake while we are there. I also need to get her a card. One of those cards that say I love you and the kids... just because. I love my wife. Sorry I don't need advice on how to tell my family I don't love them anymore just because I found someone younger and prettier. Just the food... where should I take them? Any ideas?

2007-10-12 15:53:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 15:49:23 · 9 answers · asked by kkaroub 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't understand..My ex husband (before we got married) encouraged me to have a career etc..but when we said "I do" He changed and wanted me to be at home....

Why does it seem that men want a career woman type to be a housewife after marriage?? Is it a challenge to change her or something..or an ego boost????

2007-10-12 15:48:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A while back at work I was looking and checking out other girls and then came home and told my girl about it and how I felt about it...and then right after my last relationship before I met her I told her that when I first met her I was just using her to get over my ex too...is my being too honest with her and almost telling her everything a bad thing?

2007-10-12 15:47:47 · 12 answers · asked by NoLongerHere 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 15:47:26 · 16 answers · asked by Summer 1 in Family

2007-10-12 15:47:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

um if theres a promblem and you can't talk about it what can i do??

2007-10-12 15:46:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ex bf and I broke up about 2 months ago. I do still love him and he says he does too. So dont know if I should do this. I really need sex but I dont want to do it with just anyone. And hes really good. WOuld you?

2007-10-12 15:44:22 · 17 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is married ten years. She is 35 yrs. old with three kids. I am 26 yrs. old and made 30,000 last year but recently got a raise to 5,000 dollars. Big raise, thank G-d. Our parents both died; father in Sept. 03' and mother in Feb. '05. I stayed in the same apt. I grew up in because the price is cheaper than anywhere else. Between my sister and her husband, they probably make around 90,000. However, she claims they hardly have any savings and their account was down to 100 dollars. That they have to pay off all kinds of credit cards and schools for the kids. Supposedly, my nephew goes to a special school for a neurological problem for 20,000 per year. So, we had to buy a double stone ($2,800) which needed to be bought in three months. I had to almost go broke to pay this out and buy it. I am still recovering. She claimed they couldn't split it that I HAD to pay it so that we can have the unveiling of it before our relatives go back to Florida for the year. Now, my brother in law,

2007-10-12 15:43:29 · 7 answers · asked by justellemJimsaidhello 1 in Family

we went out for 2 yrs and the i lost interest in the kid so ya know i broke up with him

2007-10-12 15:42:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

dang i just cant help but ook and admire at a nices behind.

2007-10-12 15:40:52 · 19 answers · asked by Ray 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok... so my new boyfriend (of almost a month) is in the Military. He is a Marine. I have only seen him 2 times. He was on a 2 week leave and just got back. His grandmother just died... he's not the same anymore. He wont answer my calls, my texts, and wont call me. (I've called him 2 times and texted him 2 times so it isnt every 2 mins). I'm starting to wonder if he is my boyfriend anymore... What should I do? I care about him, and he's going to be at home on leave for another 3 weeks! Hes leaving to Iraq for 7 months soon too... PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-10-12 15:40:22 · 10 answers · asked by Kayla_Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-12 15:39:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We broke up 3 weeks ago, I have been having a lot of difficulties with it. The break up wasnt bad but it hurts bc i am in love with him. 3 days ago we got into an argument and decided we both need space and time. I know he probaly expects me to text him upset, but im letting go as much as it hurts. He said he cares but we shall see in time. My birthday is sunday and if he cares, he will call. I have just decided that I cant wait around for a guy who may or may not come around. I know ill see him around seeing as we have mutual friends. If we ever decided to be together again, we both have some changes to make. Am I doing the right thing?

2007-10-12 15:39:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So...Last night I had an older women over that gave me her number last Friday(She's 35-I'm 22) She was here for about an hour and a half, just talking. BUT I DID'NT MAKE A MOVE. We were talking about porn and wet dreams that she has had..but I didn't want to go for a kiss and have her look at me funny. What if she doesn't want se?. Did I blow my chances with her? or does she think I'm a gentemen or a wussy? ADVICE PLEASE WHAT WOULD YOU DO???????!!!?!?!??!?

2007-10-12 15:39:09 · 10 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1 in Singles & Dating

In June my cousin got married. My sister and I were supposed to be bridesmaids, but 2 wks before the wedding my cousin and sister had a falling out. My aunt called me and said that they were kicking my sis out of the wedding and they wanted me to tell her and get the dress back. They said I could still be in, but they'd understand if I didn't. Well, for obvious reasons I didn't attend, but I am very upset and hurt by the whole situation. To this day the only communication has been an email to me saying they were sorry I was hurt in all this. No apology, no admitting of wrongdoing, and still neither my aunt or cousin has called my sister to make amends. I refuse to speak to them and it has torn the family apart. Help! Am I wrong to feel this way? I can't get over the fact that they excluded us from a major life event and don't seem to feel all that bad about it. How do I get over this, or should I even try?

2007-10-12 15:37:05 · 18 answers · asked by IamDiDi 2 in Weddings

I am curious, how do men act or carry themselves while having a secret bisexual lifestyle while married? What our some signs, anyone know?

2007-10-12 15:35:52 · 16 answers · asked by curiousme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like yesterday, I took my dad's credit card and bought a few things for $6.00 on it and i threw the recipt under a couch, and then my mom was cleaning and found it. She was really mad but I didn't get to talk to her cuz she's at work, and I don't want her to be mad but its just 6.00! Can u like help me I dont want her to be mad =(

2007-10-12 15:35:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

me and my ex boyfriend got back together and he doesn't want nobody to know just yet but i'am getting confused on what to say or do so what should i do

2007-10-12 15:30:56 · 12 answers · asked by charchar 1 in Singles & Dating

Wat is this ? My ex, who I love very much, has this other guy, inwhich she has left me for....well, she broke up with me(stress), and met another guy. Off and on she and I have been seeing eachother, then finally broke up about a month ago. She's still with this guy, and she NOW calls him her boyfriend!!!! Anyway, my ex knows how I feel about her. She know that I love her very much, and that I havent gotten over her. Even though Ive made my share of mistakes, I love her. She has called the cops on about 2-3times, because she wanted me to leave her alone.....now about 4 days ago I send her a boucet of roses with a poem, a letter, and a CD with certain songs. Her "boyfriend" obviously didnt like the idea, but she did....anyway, she and I are now and have been for 4 days seeing eachother secretly. We spend time together, secretly, and have sex. But yet she wants to be with this other guy. She knows my intentions. But she says she still loves me. HELP please!!! wat going on????

2007-10-12 15:30:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-12 15:27:54 · 25 answers · asked by abdelilah b 1 in Singles & Dating

i was about to tell my dad about my PE teacher who squezzed our balls when he get mad, im just looking for the right time...i will tell my dad because of the advises i got form your responses...i like to thank you..but the other day my classmate Peter was rush to the hospital bacause his balls in pain and kind of swollen. his balls was squezzed early in the day by our PE teacher Pete had smaller penis but bigger balls so i think his ball was hit pretty hard. Pete did not tell his dad but he was force to tell the doctor for the real reason and the doctor tell our principal and our PE teacher had resign. i was spared of telling my dad about this incedent with my PE teacher squizzing my balls and i think i wil just pass it on anyway we will have a new PE teacher. if he will just transfer to other school he will still continue squizzing balls of 16 years old student like us? he will not be punish for the well...you said wrong thing he done already?

2007-10-12 15:23:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I need to cut myself and my kids off from my parents. My dad has dementia and I am sick of being treated like the person he's confused me with or have bad things happen because he goes around saying stuff that isn't true. What are some suggestions on getting this done? I didn't want to move until next May but suddenly feel uneast with the fact that have my current home address. Anyone else go through something similar?

2007-10-12 15:23:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family