me and my ex boyfriend got back together and he doesn't want nobody to know just yet but i'am getting confused on what to say or do so what should i do
2007-10-12 15:30:56 · 12 answers · asked by charchar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he does not want to be embarresed gettin back together with his ex????
2007-10-12 15:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by Katie214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have reason not only to be confused but concerned.While you did not indicate why you guys broke up and then decided to get back together,you must find out why he wants to keep your renewal secret unless he wants to hide that knowledge from another girl.Why get back with you if all he wants to do is hide that fact from the world; is he going to complain if another guy hits on you.Ask your self the question I posed above , then answer it.If you like the answer you came up with then stay with him. But if you don't like the answer, you will know immediately what you should do.
2007-10-12 23:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wasn't seeing anyone else was he? May be he needs to dump the other person. That's all I can think of. Just give it time and see how it goes. But keep your guard up.
2007-10-12 22:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by ????? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
if he doesn't want to tell your friends or others about you getting back together with each other then you are not together. he wants to have his cake and eat it to. your are covenant when he want sex but a inconvenience when he want to hang out with the boys or just to be a single man from time to time. think about what your are allowing to happen if you get back together with him your independents but he keeps his freedom. he gets to be one of the boys while you think that you are with him while you think that he and you are a couple.
2007-10-12 22:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if hes not proud to be with you and wanting to tell everyone ,i would find out why.there is no reason not to let anyone know unless he is hiding it from some one ,like another girl.
2007-10-12 22:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds kinda shady-if hes ashamed of you or doesnt seem to b 100% committedt then i cant see it working
2007-10-12 22:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why does he want to keep it a secret? thats what i would want to find out
2007-10-12 22:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Erika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just lay low and relax
2007-10-12 22:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Brian A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep low for now, you wouldn't want other people to talk.
2007-10-12 22:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by snapplecrunch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit back it will do it self
2007-10-12 22:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by kid 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋