Ex bf and I broke up about 2 months ago. I do still love him and he says he does too. So dont know if I should do this. I really need sex but I dont want to do it with just anyone. And hes really good. WOuld you?
2007-10-12 15:44:22 · 17 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, If I felt that way about him I'd probably still be with him,
You are headed for heart ache if you're broke up. still having sex and open to other partners, it won't work, You'll only get hurt.
2007-10-12 15:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4get those other 2 answerers.If u really need it,and u know he's good,do it.But u have to understand that u have 2 b strong because it cant go any further than that if u dont want it to.My ex and i broke up 2 years ago,and we still have sex,but we've known each other 4 11 yrs.,so we have history.but we've been thru the other girls,and the other guys,so u just have 2 b strong and dont let him think ur jealous if he gets w/ another girl.joke w/ him and laugh about it,cause that'll tell him that maybe you've moved on,and you'll stay on his mind more.
2007-10-12 23:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this has nothing to do with love. This is more about having sex with someone you're comfortable with and whom you have some emotional attachment to. So all you need to do is ask: Do I want sex or not.
I'm guessing "yes"
2007-10-12 22:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know of course men do not associate sex with love
sex for a man is a physical thing
so if you go back to him for sex it not because you need sex
it's because you want a 2nd chance for love
as you can get great sex anywhere
but know they if you do he will be in control and can easily manipulate you as he sees fit, even as he has sex with other girls ( and he will )
2007-10-12 22:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is very an emotional thing, and you cant turn back time, and there are regrets. But if you feel like hes the ONE, are feel like youre ready then its up to you
2007-10-12 22:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not do it ... it's your EX boyfriend. You should decide if you wanna be with him or not. If you just want sex then you should get somebody else.
2007-10-12 22:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you have needs
do it
a little emotional cost , but what is teh alternative ? picking up guys for a one night stand?
its good you like you know each other
it is a mature adult relationship
2007-10-12 22:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by bdsmslavegirly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every time you want to have sex with him, remind yourself why you broke up.
if you still have feelings, sex will just confuse things even more.
2007-10-12 22:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by jealous elf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead as long you can dettach your heart from your body. That's the secret. If you can't (I can't) then I would suggest learning to live past being horny!
2007-10-12 22:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it would only bring back more feelings & make you hurt later
2007-10-12 22:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by Death Girl Am 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋