Ok... so my new boyfriend (of almost a month) is in the Military. He is a Marine. I have only seen him 2 times. He was on a 2 week leave and just got back. His grandmother just died... he's not the same anymore. He wont answer my calls, my texts, and wont call me. (I've called him 2 times and texted him 2 times so it isnt every 2 mins). I'm starting to wonder if he is my boyfriend anymore... What should I do? I care about him, and he's going to be at home on leave for another 3 weeks! Hes leaving to Iraq for 7 months soon too... PLEASE HELP!!!
2007-10-12 15:40:22 · 10 answers · asked by Kayla_Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have officially declared boyfriend/ grilfriend status, and both want the same things out of life as well... I'm willing to wait for him when he's in Iraq. He also said last night that I could visit him after I had to work, he cancelled 1 hour later saying he was heading to his fam first thing in the morning "family first"
2007-10-12 15:48:47 · update #1
give the girl a break, shes asking for some advice.
Hey, I think he's just coping the loss of his nan by himself or with his family, I wouldn't worry to much, just let him know you;re thinking of him and he can see you when ever he needs to :)
2007-10-12 15:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by harryarmy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not returning your calls and messages is an example that he's got too much on his plate and probably doesn't have any room for a relationship. If it's only been two months, you need to let go, end the relationship and focus on someone who's going to actually give you their attention. Good Luck.
2007-10-12 22:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would try to forget about him as 1 month is a very short time since you 2 have been together. I think if he was really interested he would respons to your call or texts!
Just assume he is no longer interested & try to move on; once you ignore him he may start calling you again.
2007-10-12 22:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Michl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi
you and he may not be boyfriend and girlfriend any more.
he is going through some things and he may be trying to distance his self from not only you but the world. losing a family member is heard and can be very stressful for some people and he may be one of them. then there is the idea that he is going to Iraq,that in it self is stressful.
2007-10-12 22:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would txt him saying something along the lines of if you need to talk about anything ill be here...he might not feel comfortable after only a month discussing death of a family member with you...if you have any relations with his family, try asking them to see whats up with him
2007-10-12 22:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by jammerlammy08 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly he has to much on his plate and a relationship is something he cant deal with. He's in Iraq and who really wants a relationship that they really cant contribute to. If he wants to be with you he will realize it eventually being way in Iraq. Good Luck.
2007-10-12 22:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by rodnic12 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like a 13 year old. This "boyfriend" is not a boyfriend. 2 dates does not a boyfriend make. Unless you've had the talk, which includes him saying he loves you and only wants to be with you, he is not your boyfriend. He's not answering you because he's busy. Get over it , find a boy closer to your emotional immaturity.
2007-10-12 22:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think this guy is just playing you. You only went out twice so I believe you are seeing more into this relationship than he is. You need to move on.
2007-10-12 22:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by sumfin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to really talk to him and tell him what he wants! because you never know until you ask and find out for yourself, so sit down with him and tell him what up.....don't be shy to tell him ow you feel about him not answering your calls, that's wrong!!!!
2007-10-12 22:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by In love! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm sorry
i think he's not as serious as you are about the relationship
2007-10-12 22:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋