So...Last night I had an older women over that gave me her number last Friday(She's 35-I'm 22) She was here for about an hour and a half, just talking. BUT I DID'NT MAKE A MOVE. We were talking about porn and wet dreams that she has had..but I didn't want to go for a kiss and have her look at me funny. What if she doesn't want se?. Did I blow my chances with her? or does she think I'm a gentemen or a wussy? ADVICE PLEASE WHAT WOULD YOU DO???????!!!?!?!??!?
2007-10-12 15:39:09 · 10 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't say you're a wussy... But a woman at 35 is in her sexual peak. You wasted an opportunity. And now she probably thinks you're a gentleman, meaning you aren't going to get anywhere with her sexually unless she actually falls for you emotionally.
2007-10-12 15:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Crypt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was telling you that she wanted to have sex with you by engaging in conversation with you about porn and wet dreams. I like older women, they're very straightforward and don't like to bullsh*t. Look, gentlemen never get the girl that they want, so don't be one. BE A MAN--- now if its not too late, call her up for part 2 of your sex chat and go for a kiss and some touching this time, but be laidback and natural when you do this.
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2007-10-12 22:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by Glenn Johnson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman of 35 doesn't go to a 22 year old stranger's apartment to talk.
2007-10-12 22:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think, regarless of what she might of thought, the world needs more guys like you. Making a move doesnt make a guy more or less of a wussy, it just makes him turn into a horny typical guy. I think it was very smart of you not to make a move. If that kind of thing blew your chances with this women, then she doesnt deserve a gentleman liek you!
good luck!
2007-10-12 22:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you blew it
at 35 she has the sex drive of a 18 year old guy
and the porn talk was your sign to do something
she is not looking for a gentleman at 22
she can find mature gentlemen easier at her age group
she is a "cougar" looking to defrock a "tadpole"
next time
tap that a s s
you wuss
2007-10-12 22:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds too good to be true. but ill give you the benefit of the doubt and go with...STOP BEING A WUSSY! invite her over nest time, pour some drink, make it nice, pop in a movie, bust out the lube and bam your in...illierally.
try it. she'll love it.
2007-10-12 22:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by adioposer63 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You blew it buddy! A 35 year old woman knows exactly what she wants, she is no rookie in that area. You had an open invitation to hit it and you blew it.......try to redeem yourself and call her back.
2007-10-12 22:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by A. Powers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she was openly talking about that kind of stuff i would say she wanted to do more than talk. you were a gentleman. and if she likes you she will call.
2007-10-12 22:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, i think you're gentlemen because you're taking the time to get to know her, and not going to fast.. there's not many guys liek u out there..
2007-10-12 22:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by nutashuh. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what you should do , If she digs you let her come and find you .
2007-10-12 22:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by lmndrp44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋