Being dramatic or do I have a right to be angry?

Question

Today I was on the phone with my long distance boyfriend and I made a comment that went something like "let's be honest, no man could stay married to a woman without be able to have sex". He goes, well your dad does. Then starts going off on how my parents can't possibly have sex. I don't want to hear it so I hold the phone away from my ear and start going lalalalal. I put the phone back and here "fat bellies". I yelled his name at him, started lala-ing again and when I put the phone back to my ear I hear him going off on fata$$ bellies smacking together! So I hung up on him because I have asked him before not to make insentive comments about my mother or her weight. He keeps calling me and trying to talk to me but i'm ignoring him. He thinks i'm overreacting and doesn't even seem to get that it hurts my feelings. He hasn't even come close to an apology. So, am I overreating in how i'm treating this or am I justified?

He's also trying to pass it off as a general comment about old people having sex...not my mother specifically.

Answer 1

no you are not overreacting --- he is being insensitive to you and your mother ---- he needs to both apologise and never do that again ---- best wishes

Answer 2

You are in NO way overreacting.

I am 15, and me and my girlfriend talk about stuff like that all the time; but if I ever said something like that I would have hell to pay. I think the fact that he never came close to an apology makes him insensitive. Don't get me wrong a lot of guys talk like that, but they usually apologize.
I'm not saying that you need to let him go; but maybe a good talk into how it affects your feelings, and just sit down with him and tell him straight, if he wants this relationship to continue he needs to respect your family and your feelings.

Best wishes <3

Answer 3

ha ha haaa.... you are hilarious!