I never got attention from men when I was younger. I was very shy. I got married at age 22 and I am now 37. One guy starting paying attention to me about a year ago. I came out of my shell and am not shy anymore. Is it wrong to enjoy him paying attention to me or am I just normal. Also I notice myself being more social and getting noticed more by others.
2007-10-12 14:18:00 · 10 answers · asked by h 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go ahead and enjoy the attention and admiration of men but remain faithful to the great guy who is your husband because ultimately "his" is the attention and admiration that really matters most.
2007-10-12 14:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds really normal to me, I think anyone from the opposite sex no matter what would feel the same way... Even if they got lots of attention... As long as you know where the boundaries are as far as being married... Nothing wrong there...
2007-10-12 21:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by My Hubby's Be Be`♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I was the same way..It took that one guy to bring me too life.. There is nothing wrong with wanting attention so long as its done in good taste and with respect. Its how you feel about yourself on the inside that matters.
(I married at 21 and I am now 35)
2007-10-12 21:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK Normal "but! Remember who you came with!" The Man you Married , Because you Love Him, Right?
2007-10-12 21:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by sidecar0 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal. Well, maybe not the initial shyness, but the fact that you enjoy the attention certainly is.
2007-10-12 21:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with that but if you are still married you have to remember that. If you are more social now, it can perhaps lead to an even closer relationship with your husband.
2007-10-12 21:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by Al B 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter if your a man or a woman, everyone likes attention from the oppisite sex.
2007-10-12 21:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think its totally normal!!!
i think you feel that way because you were so used to being anti-social.
i m glad you are out of your shell!!!!
good luck with this guy :)
2007-10-12 21:22:56 · answer #8 · answered by kk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no it's totally normal!! me and people I know were the same way :)
2007-10-12 21:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's normal...as long as you are flattered but don't do anything about it.
2007-10-12 22:23:39 · answer #10 · answered by Jax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋