2007-10-12 04:57:30 · 17 answers · asked by hello 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no he shouidnt.
2007-10-12 05:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by thehottestbradpitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fiance' should not keep in touch with his ex-girlfriend. Why would anyone want to stay in touch with an ex when they were not even married? The only time a couple should have anything to do with each other is when they were married and divorced and have children then they would most likely be seeing each other for the sake of their children.
2007-10-12 05:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would he be comfortable with you keeping in touch with your ex? Personally, if my fiance insisted on keeping in touch with his ex, I would question his intentions of marrying me. You don't want to find out later that you were his security blanket in case the relationship that probably broke them up doesn't work out. Sounds like maybe there is some unresolved business between the two.
Question for you is, Do you want to marry him or the both of them. Talk to him. Tell him that you are uncomfortable with it.
2007-10-12 05:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by peaceful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-08 02:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he want to?? Ex's are ex's for a reason. I think that it's probably best that he shouldn't just for the fact that it could cause lots of problems. Because there are still feelings there I am sure. You can't just walk away from someone and just be "friends" with them still. Maybe later on in life if he happens to see her on the street or something then I would be okay with him saying hello but I wouldn't be okay with him having a friendship with his ex. but that's just me.
2007-10-12 05:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by Kassie D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is really a matter of preference. I am still close with my ex-GF, and in fact she once hung out with me and my wife. Its all about maturity.... My ex and I are just friends, she's married with kids as am I. But before we were BF/GF we were friends. You can't really stop being friends with someone just because you broke up. But the question that you have to ask yourself is are YOU mature enough to handle they're friendship? And also not be so blind that you can't see if he's having more than just a friendship with her.
2007-10-12 05:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to know our bf still close to his ex. Sometimes it makes you worried what if his feeling for her grows back. But how often he meets her? or calls her? or how close the two of them?
But he is your fiance now. It's important to trust your partner. And if it's bugging you, you should talk to him that you don't like it. Tell him what your feeling about that. I'm sure he will understand.
2007-10-12 05:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by Tatya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they have children together? Otherwise, i have 2 words for you...hell no. If my fiance contacted his EX I'd have a pretty big problem with that.
2007-10-12 05:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by HereIAm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the situation. I am still in touch with an old flame, and we have become better friends than we were when we were together.
2007-10-12 06:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't see the reason why, but evidently there is a reason. I would find out why he needs to stay in contact and put yourself in his place, then ask him to put himself in your place, and you having contact with your ex. Maybe then he could understand how you feel, and get it all resolved with out any more problems.
2007-10-12 05:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends does he still have feelings for her. if he does dont get superbly jeolus. it could draw him away from her. maybe he is just good friends with her. try and get to know her before you make too many assumptions. if you feel there is no connection between those two then you should be fine
2007-10-12 05:03:58 · answer #11 · answered by logical believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋