So after everyone's response I left the pig of a boyfriend I had. And now Im extremely hurt!! with no place to live and no car but I have a great job! what do i do? I loved him so much and I want to be with him. But I don't want to be hurt by him anymore. What do I do?
2007-10-12 09:21:33 · 19 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the first thing you need to do is get some place to live, if you dont want to be with your boyfriend anymore due to him treating you badly then you've done the right thing in leaving. Now is the time to sort out your life and make things better for you
good luck
2007-10-12 09:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by donnajaneindigo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try finding a place to live that is close to your work so you can at least ge to work.
It is sad when men have to act that way and some women do the same thing. It is a choice and a bad one.
You need to get over what has happened. You have a life. When someone acts like what you have stated, chances are, they never change.
My boys father is the same as he was when I was 16 yrs old and that is bad. So focus on yourself for once. Hold your head up and get a place to live. I'm sure you had some things at his place that are YOURS.
Save up some money, get a down payment and buy your own car. It's not that hard! You are stronger than what you think!! Look up. There is someone there that watches over you every minute of every hour!!
So pick yourself up. It's not the end of the world without him! You deserve to be treated better than that of dirt from his nasty shoes!!
SMILE!! LAUGH!! Be BLESSED!!! It will get better with each breath you take!! Just time is all you need!!!
Take care and Bless you!!
2007-10-12 16:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by gone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Count your greatest blessing as your great job!!! Live through the pain of leaving the dolt, and let yourself heal. Visualize a new car, and plan your next boyfriend out, so that you don't end up with another loser.
See if you can stay (temporarily) with someone else from work, or ask your parents if you can temporarily stay with them.
A leopard doesn't change his spots, so your boyfriend that you broke off with is still the same pig you left!!!
What you are hurt about is that things didn't turn out the way you thought they would--why would anyone love a pig???
Don't dwell on the past, but work on planning your future--
Your life is full of possibilities!!!
Good luck and may God bless you.
2007-10-12 16:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by kathleen m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats good that you love your job - its a rare thing - but there is only so much you can do - move on, get your own place and your own car - if you can't be independent and love your life with just you then you are making it harder on yourself to figure out who you really love - you need to fall in love when the worst thing that could happen is he say no - not no and lose everything!! that can't feel good - well don't know if that helps - I assumed some things so I could be wrong - wither way - hope everything gets better for you
2007-10-12 16:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get a new start, it's like having a blank piece of paper and you can create on it anything you want. A great place to start is your job, at least you have one (and you seem to like it). As far as guys... there's tons of guys out there someone else will come along, be more picky and next time you won't end up with a pig. Be patient and keep working hard, good things will come to you.
Good luck.
2007-10-12 16:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anthonylikes2...☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a great job then getting a car and a place to live should be no problem?
2007-10-12 16:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by Shayna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I left the pig of a boyfriend "
This is your answer.
The solution to your hurt is to give it time.
Love is an addiction, like alcohol, drugs and cigarettes.
You are in withdrawal. Wait until a good one comes along then you can get a less porcine companion.
2007-10-12 16:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him and if he loves u tell him that he gots to change and if he does well than stay with him but if he doesn't well then leave him and go live with ine of your froiend just 4 a while until u get settled.
2007-10-12 16:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by Maria AkA Boo!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u got a great job then it wont be hard for you to find a place of your own. that's what you need to do first, then be firm and move on. hang out with your friends, stay in the office late, get night jobs if you can...anything just to get him out of your system.
2007-10-12 16:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. If he is just not your type move on. If he is hurting you dont talk. If your friends say no dont go out with him and you think that he is good then dont listen to your friends. Just say " I talked to him the other day and I think that we are perfect for each other."
Good luck!!!
2007-10-12 16:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋