2007-10-12 09:10:25 · 58 answers · asked by peanutmunchkin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not really, but if you said "I do" then you should.
2007-10-12 09:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by BirdogsID 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are many situations where you love someone and things did not work out and you ended up with another. That doesn't mean that you can't love the other person as well. It will just be in a different way and a different situation than the previous love. There are many different type of love. So don't be afraid to move on with another if you feel the love is not strong.
2007-10-12 09:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by dr. phillian here.. 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Maybe. For example, let's say that you have made a commitment to the person you are with. For example, let's say you made a sincere vow before witnesses that you would stay with the person until one of you died. Honoring commitments is certainly a right thing to do, a moral thing to do, an honorable thing to do. Now, would that situation suck? Well, sure, but if anyone ever tells you that life is fair, he's trying to sell you something.
2007-10-12 09:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: NO
Long answer: No it isnt fair to the other person or yourself. It isnt fair to the other person because you may never love them back. It isnt fair to you because you long for this other person and probably will not ever love the person you are with as much as you love this other person. It is not right because they you are leading one person on while you are in love with another. If you dont love the person you are with then you should let them go and find someone that will love them. If there isnt love then what is there?
2007-10-12 09:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by sparkles_0604 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not right... this is what we call an "affair." You may keep it up if you are already doing so. But, your future is not so bright. The people you love will eventually break up witth you. So you end up losing. Keep one, tell the other its over. I know, I seen to much relationships break up because this one person had two lovers. Ofcourse the other one got angry, and so did the other and your right in the middle.
2007-10-12 09:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by grfisgd 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it's not right but can you really control LOVE or feelings at all,,, maybe you should ask yourself how much you love that person and make a way to fully be with the one you love,,,,
2007-10-12 09:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends. I think it is. I mean if your not flurting around with with the other person while u have a lover then its alright. If u love someone u can't change that. But thats only if u really truely luv them. I mean Sometimes crazy things like that happen
2007-10-12 09:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it happens everyday.
Right - Yes
Fair to the person you are with- Probably Not
Fair to you - Probably doesn't feel like it.
The question is - is there a future with the person you love. Love doesn't put food on the table or pay the mortgage.
2007-10-12 09:14:43 · answer #8 · answered by smsm223 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not right because both of them are only getting half of you. To really love someone you have to be all there and there is no inbetween. No one is whole here in the relationship and your heart cannot be in two places at one time and be totally commited to one or the other including yourself.
2007-10-12 09:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course. We love many people in our lives, in additional to our partner. Now, the question is do you love the person you are with? If you do, then you can love other people too. Now, if you are asking if you can be sexual with others outside your primary relationship, the answer to that is obvious.
2007-10-12 09:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. If you marry the one you love and lay with another you insult and trash the one you love. You would have no concept of what love really is. It's just a word with little meaning.
2007-10-12 09:14:03 · answer #11 · answered by Panama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋