this girl in my school who everybody thinks is bi put me on this hot list.......... should i be really creeped out, and she always trys to be friends with me... help!
2007-10-12 09:24:41 · 36 answers · asked by tiaragirl9912 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Accept the flattery.
2007-10-12 09:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by K B 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to be bi or gay or anything to think someone else of the same sex is hot.
If you think about this for just a second think of female singers, actresses and so on that maybe you and other females try to copy, hairstyles, clothes etc. Why do women do that.........cause they know there HOT that's why!
There's probably alot of girls at your school that think the same thing about you and aren't bi, but don't say anything to you. Just because this girl know's your attractive and has the guts to speak up you have a problem with it, when I think in a way you should be flattered by the attention!
2007-10-12 09:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by MLJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not weird at all. It's perfect natural and normal. However, your reaction is somewhat weird. You seem unable to figure out how you feel about her interest. Do you find her attractive, or interesting? If so, perhaps there is some potential for something between you. If not, you should be flattered but unconcerned. Believe me, you won't wake up and somehow find that a bi girl has materialized next to you in bed against your wishes. So reflect on your own motivations, but please know and believe that there is nothing weird about her at all.
2007-10-12 09:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by snowbaal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will reach a point in your life (probably after you have kids and are in your late 20s) that you won't care who thinks you're hot, so long as someone does. If the girl isn't hitting on you, don't worry about it, she thinks you're hot, be flattered. If she does hit on you, respond to her the same way you would a guy who asked you out but you didn't like. Tell her you aren't interested in her, or you have a bf, tell her you're straight. But be mature about it.
2007-10-12 09:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be friends with everyone, who wants an enemy? But still, if you're not bi, which I pray you're not, try not to hang around her as MUCh. But, I do have a couple of bi friends, and it is VERY flattering to be called pretty/hot by them, becuase they only hit on the best looking people they find.
2007-10-12 09:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it's not wierd at all, and just let her know that you are 'straight' and be friends. Some time, later on, if you find you would like to try something with her... VIDEO EVERYTHING!!!
AHAHAHAH just kidding.
Hey it is your life. You have to live in your own skin. The decisions you make today will haunt you tomorrow. blah blah There now, the obligatory guidance is out of the way. You most definitely infor her that you are a heterosexual and that is that. enjoy.
2007-10-12 09:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by Tominator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i mean its the same as a guy putting u on their hot list or whatever i mean take the compliment i would be friends with her unless she just make u uncomfortable but i mean its not like she going to strip u n rape you lol she just thinks your hot, i have had several bi friends that like me, they are really good friends and are helpful when your feeling down with all good comments and telling u how u deserve to be treated, but definitely don't be freaked out, just be happy with the compliment.
2007-10-12 09:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Jessica♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, many of my female friends think I'm hot. Don't you think other girls are hot? Or at least beautiful? Or what have you...? Just accept it as a compliment. Even if she was bi or gay, does it really matter? A compliment is a compliment no matter where it comes from.
2007-10-12 09:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its flattering when the other sex thinks that you are hot! That means that you are...you shouldn't be creeped out or scared! Its a good thing!
2007-10-12 09:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by Simply Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. If it creeps you out, do you think that you have s doubt about your orientation? Thank her for putting you on the list. It will make you feel better.
2007-10-12 09:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by BirdogsID 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it´s not weird but it seriously means that she likes you
if you are not a lesbian or bi then diss her and tell her to go **** herself,or if you don´t wanna be that rude, then you can either stay away from her or become her friend without any kind of dykes stuff
if you are a bi then just let that kind of love into your life,or if u haven´t discovered it, well then wait and decide
2007-10-12 09:32:10 · answer #11 · answered by david w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋