Im in 9th grade and the guy I like is in 8th grade and all I know is his name and that he plays football but I think he is really cute and the only time I see him is in the mornings on the bus but a County fair is coming and I really want to go with him and I dont know what to do because I am afraid that he will say no and then I will look like a fool...Im tired of playing the game with guys I want a guy to stay with for awhile and REALLY love each other so plz help me with everything...TELL ME EVERYTHING TO DO AND SAY SO I DONT MESS UP...(My name is Melanie and his name is Nick)
PLZ HELP ME and if you have alot to tell me tell me to add you so you can help me out and guys PLZ let me add you because you can tell me what you like and dont like
Thax
love always
Melanie
2007-10-12 09:37:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go ahead girl!! Go ask him & see what he says. Most eighth graders will go out with ninth graders to make them look cool.
But on a ride like the ferris wheel (if he says yes to your question) ask him if he really likes you. Add me & I will tell you what to say to him & how to ask him.
2007-10-12 09:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by boo-boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see him on the bus start a conversation with him. Then bring up the county fair. The more you talk about it the more he will think of going. If he doens't ask you if you should go with him then just say, " Maybe we should hang out at the fair to have fun," or something like that. If he says no; hes only an 8th grader so it doesn't really matter right??
Good Luck! :)
2007-10-12 16:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of you need to breath relax and second you need to start talking to him go up to him and be like hey how are you I see you all the time on the bus but I never had had the time to ask you how are you doing. Start making conversation like hey are you going to the county fair that is coming I migh but I am not sure lie a little tell him that you friends don't want to go and that you relaly want to go. Ask him if he is going to. But remember oplease don't seem to deperate you need to start conversation before you go out with someone. And also be careful some young can still be a little immature. I know becuase my brother is in the 8th grade.
2007-10-12 16:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should introduce yourself well before the fair gets started. I know, you have "fears" associated with that approach, but you have more of an advantage than you may realize. From his perspective you're an older woman, and that by itself is an enormous ego-boost to a young man of his age. So let him know who you are and begin talking as regularly as you can manage. (This will help you feel more comfortable with him before attempting to ask him out.) Then at a strategic moment of your own choosing, you can mention the fair to him to see how he feels about it. Going after anything worthwhile involves some risk....risking feeling stupid, risking rejection; the lists go on and on. But if you focus on the potential rewards it'll be easier to take decisive action when the time comes (and in this way, it has a better chance of working out). The turtle only makes forward progress when he sticks his neck out. Maybe it's turtle time. Good luck.
2007-10-12 16:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, your in 9th grade you don't NEED anyone i swear! but i know the feeling so.... have you ever talked to the guy before? if not just start talking to him on the bus and see where that goes. if you have talked before, ask him if he is planning on going to the fair and say that you should meet up there.
2007-10-12 16:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being overly dramatic. You don't need help from strangers. If you like him but are afraid to tell him so, let him know by paying attention to him and trying to be around him a lot. We cant tell you what to do or say because then it's NOT YOU who's doing it, it's US. Be yourself, go with your feelings and stop stressing. This happens to EVERYONE, you're not the first, and you DONT NEED HELP.
2007-10-12 16:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to like a 7th grader when i was in 8th grade lol. the most important thing is, don't listen to what other people say about you and a 8th grader. if you end up going out, don't listen to them.
2007-10-12 16:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree w/ m...-2nd answer-thats good stuff. dont wear a mini shirt or explicitly explicit clothing, just a cute top and some tight jeans. you don't wanna come of slutty-cuz those relationships don't last. but to the same effect dont wear a penguin suit(like the nuns). hair style is up to guy, along w/ color, don't over think it. 8thgraders are happy to date older chicks
btw don't overestimate the attractiveness of a plain white t-shirt.
2007-10-12 16:51:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im guessing u lik this guy alot n i would go with him. Try seeing if his single nd if he is out might lik uuu but dont abuse the answer. 2 teel u 4 real i go wit sumone 13 when im turning 14 but lik i said i lik him so im going 2 try 2 stay wit him
2007-10-12 16:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by QUEEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say "Hey Nick, are you going to the fair?"
if he says no, then you say, "That's too bad. I was hoping to see you there."
if he says yes, then you say "Great, maybe I will see you there."
That way he can't turn you down and you don't have to be embarrassed. Maybe he will then say, "Hey, let's meet at the ____ or hey, let's go together"
2007-10-12 16:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋