so i met this guy, he seemed really nice and asked me out i said yes. But then he started texting my best mate quite dirty texts, very flirty. Me and my friend got into an argument about what she was texting him and she told me, and she felt really guitly about it i forgave her cos shes my mate and she did wish she hadnt responded to him. then another mate (a lad pretending to be a girl) started texting him and i felt sorry for him cos he dint know what was happening but he started flirting with her/him too! i dont know what to do about him though he keeps telling me he loves and saying hes sorry but i cant him now even though i like him alot, i dont know what to do, should i dump him or give it another go with him cos i like him so much
2007-10-12 09:40:33 · 19 answers · asked by Nobody Knows 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my niece says he sounds like a wierdo
i wouldnt date him or her if they acted like that
2007-10-12 09:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by mobile auto repair (mr fix it) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes flirted with two people- has he done "flirty texts" with you.
if so then maybe give it a go
if not lose him.
there are plenty more fish in the sea.
hes just the one you found at the moment and you never know you may find someone alot better who will not go texting your mate!
also thats great that ur friend n u r mates again. NEVER fall out over a guy. trust me it has happened to me and its awful. the bitterness that never goes and you find over time u just cant stand your best mate anymore either because she tries to rub it in your face that ur man chose her or because she wants your man she'll do anything!!!
that randomes abit but... yeah just what i said at the start...
2007-10-12 09:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by Emma McCune 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone is truly sorry, it means that they will whole-heartily try to not do what they did again. Your partner, if I understand correctly, was NOT truly sorry. Usually, most people will never become sorry when given another chance to redeem themselves in such a case. It is, unfortunately, what I believe to be a sad fact for most of the world. I suggest that you depart from him. However, if you truly believe that he is one of those rare people who can change,give him ONE more chance. If he does it again, you should separate from him as soon as possible, before he does something that will perpetually hurt you in the long run. Don't be swayed by his declarations of love for you. Even if he truly loves,so many people use the words "I love you." lightly or in their favor. In the end, the decision is up to you, and I hope you make the right decision.
2007-10-12 09:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by Rozu-chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch!
It's hard but I'd stop it now before you're heart isn't too deeply affected, it isn't the best basis to start a relationship form is it??
...Much better find someone who just adores you, and not the idea of being adored by anyone!
Sorry mate, but It's what I really think!
2007-10-12 10:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by Toots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but hes really not worth it, if he was to go out clubbing have a few beers and a pretty girl came on to him would you trust him not to do anything? ive been there before and it hurts cos you will always be checking up on him, there are so many nice men out there who will treat you right, you deserve to find someone who will put you on a pedal stool we all do
2007-10-12 09:47:42 · answer #5 · answered by jerrylee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it!! Obviously, before the relationship you have even has the chance to get serious, he's out looking for something more... or different... I'd say save yourself the heartache and find someone who will treat you like a princess! :D Good Luck!
2007-10-12 09:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he disrepected you once he is going to do it agian the best thing to do is let him go and tell him that you are going o break up with becuase of his attitude that he is with you or he is going to be without. And that is that.
2007-10-12 09:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably go out with someone else. People like that usually end up cheating.
2007-10-12 09:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like this guy a lot, nothing can pull u away, but if something in your heart doesn't feel right, than you should just dump him
2007-10-12 09:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by SSASSAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u gave him plenty of tries!If I were u I wouldnt give him another chance.
2007-10-12 09:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him he keep it up and tell all the girl he love them it not your friend it him he don't love u or he stop there more girl
2007-10-12 09:46:54 · answer #11 · answered by rnd1938 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋