my ex cheated on me and we split up he is now with the girl he cheated on me with this happened bout 3 months ago on wednesday he came to my work and kissed me full on!! and told me he loves me BUT WHY? help my head is messed up
2007-10-12 09:42:13 · 14 answers · asked by jerrylee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HORNY!
2007-10-12 09:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. If he's the only that left you, you may not be actively attempting to get him returned. watch for his flow. If he has regrets approximately it and needs to get returned with you, he will do it faster or later and is plenty extra possibly to do it in case you do not look extremely desperate approximately it. And if not, there is not something you're able to do approximately it besides and it will only make you experience worse in case you attempt. Telling him you kissed somebody else isn't susceptible to do any sturdy for the two of you, it might experience relaxing however the possibilities of unquestionably attaining something that way are fairly much nil. i don't advise to sound pessimistic, yet extremely adult adult males only are not into all that subtlety/betrayal stuff, and any guy who's very well worth having as a companion will in common terms be pushed farther removed from you in case you attempt to play ideas video games with him.
2016-10-06 14:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look the only reason this kiss sent you into turmoil is because you still have feelings for him. You have to set the standards. This is what I will put up with and this is what I wont
put up with. Dont allow him to kiss you ever again. He has lost. You are great! If you dont look like me you are batting a thousand. So busy you're self. Take a different way home somtimes. Leave earlier,leave later. Dont be confused,he made his choice. Good luck with your new project.
2007-10-12 10:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by Angel G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to P off! how dare he do that he has a very large ego. Remember how hurt you were? so he thinks your such a weak wimp that you'll fall straight into his arms again for what maybe a fling until the next pair of legs comes along. Do your self a favour & respect yourself better than he respects you. Get rid. Tell him do it again & you'll call the law. Dont trust him.
2007-10-12 09:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by sarahmac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos if he's willing to cheat on you it's obvious before long he'd cheat on her &, unfortunately, he thinks that you'd be an easy target, just turn up, turn on the charm, maybe come on a little heavy to remind you of what your heart still misses dearly & then he reckons you'll end up compromising your dignity quite easily.
DON'T DO IT DEAR!!!!
Be strong to him, if he wants to come back then make him proove he's worthy of you & take everything slowly!!!!
2007-10-15 01:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by Bubbly Blonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos he's a cheating kind of guy! He loves you so much he is with someone else, in fact he dumped you for someone else after he cheated on you. Now maybe he wants to cheat on her, and he thinks that if he says he loves you, he can get back in with you. Of course hell finish with her, eventually. I think he wants to have his cake and eat it. Wouldnt trust anyone who cheated on me ever again.
2007-10-12 09:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by jeanimus 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because he knows he messed up, but then you let him kiss you, so you must have liked it. Now you need to figure out if you want to be the other woman, and do to her what she did to you. Then decide if you can trust him, because he has now done it twice.
2007-10-12 09:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Don't feel too special..he probably did the exact same thing to the girl he cheated on you with.
Goodluck.
ashummz05@yahoo.com
2007-10-12 09:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by Oops, did I say that? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your head is OK. But your ex may be a bit confused!
2007-10-12 09:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by Phil H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he regrets what he done, be careful, if he can kiss you and you don't object, he controls your life! would dump him and that is advice from a man !
2007-10-12 09:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by naplusultra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he thinks he's a stud and wants two girls on the go, don't be the 'other woman' you have more respect for yourself then his new girlfriend who was also the 'other woman'.
DITCH, DITCH, DITCH, find your self a real man.
2007-10-12 09:50:21 · answer #11 · answered by Smoochy Poochy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋