I dated this guy for two years and recently we broke up because we go to different schools. Plus, his parents said he needs to date other people. I love him so much and when I found out he had another girlfriend it crushed me. So I forgot about him and moved on with my even though it was really hard at first. Then he calls me out of the blue and says he loves me and wants to be with me and that I was his true love. But he is STILL with this other girl. Not only is it unfair to her but it is unfair to me too. I don't know whether to trust him or not. I don't want to get hurt again. I was just moving on with my life and he came back in it again. What should I do? Should I believe him or is he just saying this stuff? I'm so stressed please any help will be great!!!
2007-10-12 09:07:11 · 12 answers · asked by Gracefully Lost 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's great that he wants you back so why is the other girl still in the picture?
Don't compromise on what you believe in your gut...you don't want to share him with someone so don't. To be with you, he has to be all in.
Believe him when he says the other girl is out of his life and he only wants you. Don't settle for any less than you deserve.
2007-10-12 09:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by slash.hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the somewhat same position as you where we hadent dated but it had kinda been almost a friends thing and actually he started to make out with me and i said you know what if you really wanted me then you wouldnt be with the other girl. He is probably having troubles with his girlfriend!
2007-10-12 09:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful Disaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had someone like that move on it's only for the better. I didn't and we were on and off for 12 years til finally I wised up. Please don't make the mistake I did. I wasted 12 years of my life for nothing!
2007-10-12 09:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wanted to be with you he would have broke it off with her first. He kept her there so if and when you'd say no he would still have someone.
I'd keep going but you may want to clue her in as well.
2007-10-12 09:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by Amy E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already know "Not only is it unfair to her but it is unfair to me too." i think you are just looking for some confirmation that you should keep moving on -- and you should. quiet your mind and listen to your heart speak -- you already know the answer -- it's unfair.
2007-10-12 09:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by Faerie Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he isnt married and there is no children involved he is free game honey if you are old enough to know you love him and he is a good guy latch on and dont let go love tried and true is hard to find good luck and god bless
2007-10-12 09:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you he wouldn't be with someone else...i think he is confused. Or, he's a prick, either way, now is definetly not the time to be in a relationship with him.
2007-10-12 09:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by Teha4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep moving on with your life and don't look back!!!
2007-10-12 09:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him when hes free to call you again. that your going on with your life and if he calls and your not taken ,then maybe you can start dating again.
2007-10-12 09:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he left and now wants to come back trust me he is going to leave again cause he thinks he can come back and that you will take him back.
2007-10-12 09:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋