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i've been living with my boyfriend for 3 years (together for 4) . we love eachother and stuff. we're atheists and so we don't find marriage necessary part of life....but tax breaks, saving on insurance, and other legal rights are important. ok so my question is have any of you been in the situation (being perfectly happy shacked up) and finally married your partner only to be cursed by the negative stigma of marriage?

2007-09-28 06:14:15 · 18 answers · asked by .. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we had long distance relationship since our early teens... and I trust him with all of my heart... he is very giving, loving, caring, fun to be around... and he always makes me smile even if he is very far from me... we always talk on msn from evening to early morning and he never misses it no matter how tired he is... it been 3 yrs he been asking for me to marry him... but he live very far and it meant I had to leave my home town to be with him... so we broke up for a yr and I meet someone else which he did not approve and he was very hurt by my action.... and it been a month he has come to my home town to fix things between us... I broke up with this other guy I met and I don’t want to have any thing to do with him... he is a 100% loser... and he is happy living like one too.
how do I choose someone who truly loves me or my family... he says we will visit my home town as much as I like but sooner or later u have to leave ur parents home? It is true but not an easy thing to do. He has his business and house in London and I live in NY... which he hates... I am not so much fun of NY life too. But we are both 21 yrs old with a few family and family friends there... I feel I need my family every single day

2007-09-28 06:12:14 · 26 answers · asked by . 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After my wife cheated on me.

2007-09-28 06:10:56 · 34 answers · asked by jonnyAirborne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like my high school math teacher because he listens to me and helps me when I need it. Not just about math obviously but even when my best friend of 7 years past away he was there to help me get through it. A part of me knows I will never have a chance with him, but another part of me keeps trying.

2007-09-28 06:06:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i fell for my cousin who is 3 yrs younger to me.i want her to know that i love her.but then she see's me as a brother and i feel very difficult to express my love to her..and i dont want to risk her by approaching directly.somebody please help.I feel very miserable when she writes "ur sweet lil sis" in her mails.It makes me feels like crap.Somebody please help me.

2007-09-28 06:04:36 · 15 answers · asked by anish g 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this guy and like every day he looks at me and i look at him. At lunch he like just stairs at me and i always catch him looking at my butt lol so idk i like him but idk if he would go with me and also one of his friends said hey wuts up shorty and the boy i like was like laughing idk if he told tht person to say tht to me or wut im confused and so we were outside for a fire drill and i happened to look bac and he wuz looking at me uh wut do i do.Btw hes in the 12th grade and im in 9th ?

2007-09-28 06:00:27 · 4 answers · asked by valeri ann 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a big nose which is out of proportion to my face,bcos of this people just stare at me and gosip so much aba me whenever i go out.I raelly need a psychologist to advice me counsel me and tell me what to do

2007-09-28 05:58:37 · 15 answers · asked by mariam z 1 in Friends

I personally like black guys, and im white. Alot of my friends think its gross and make comments about it. but i don't know why they can't accept it.

2007-09-28 05:58:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is the short version: Last year, hubby did not invite his sister and bro-in-law to the kids b'day parties because of a huge fight. Fight being about how if we wouldnt let them babysit the kids, they didnt feel they should "have" to come to the parties. So, it was like fine, dont come. SOO, a year goes by, everyone seems to be getting along as in there are no fights( still dont allow them to babysit the kids) . Do we assume that they still feel the same and not invite them or just go ahead and invite them like nothing ever happened?

2007-09-28 05:57:28 · 16 answers · asked by undone 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing him for almost 2 years now. We used to get along so well. But now everything is my fault from him failing his exams, to having financial troubles. He never texts or calls me during the whole day. When i do text or call, he says im irritating him. He thinks i sit at home jobless everyday, and call him to while away my time. But i do have classes, and truck loads of work (same as him) We meet only during the weekends. This too he considers an utter waste of his time. A lunch, movie or bowling are worthless he says. Then what the hell are we suppossed to do when we go out? He never says a kind word or compliments me, while am floored by his every move and say so too. And, i do happen to be much better at academics than him, which he is jealous of, and says hurtful words to put me down. Now that we are at the end of our college life, and he hasnt done well with his masters exam (GRE) and stuff, blames me for all his misfortunes. What do i do?? Am i to take all this crap?

2007-09-28 05:55:49 · 33 answers · asked by Meow 3 in Singles & Dating

Iwas asked by a female friend why is it right for men to live by double standards,such as sleep around but expect there mate to be faithfull to them & understanding if there found out. Or be paid less for doing the same job or more, but get paid less .

2007-09-28 05:54:37 · 14 answers · asked by travling-man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am so mad right now, my husband never wants sex and when he does its so one sided, he doesnt care about me at all, I never say anything because thats hard for me to talk about but finally i talked to him about how i felt and was nice about it because I know men think we are attacking them and all he said was" you look too far into things" and " we'll talk when you're not being stupid" he couldnt care less that I feel rejected and had nothing to justify why he never wants to have sex! Im sooo mad...am I being stupid or is he being an ***???

2007-09-28 05:54:17 · 17 answers · asked by must<3dogs 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to hurt his feelings. He's not going to be working here after today, but will still be coming in every once in a while to do some small jobs. What should I tell him? He knows I'm married (he's also married) and that doesn't seem to stop him. I don't want this to turn into stalking! Should I just be rude and honest & tell him that he's just a friend/brother. Please help!! Don't respond if you're just going to say something stupid! This is serious for me.

2007-09-28 05:52:13 · 27 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

five years, and no proposal. we talk about getting married a lot. he talks about it a lot. i don't nag him about it b/c i think that would just become annoying and push him away. is five years a pretty long time to be together and not get engaged?

2007-09-28 05:48:06 · 26 answers · asked by Ella 3 in Weddings

ok I entered into my fiance's facebook mail. and i saw this message he sent to his ex which I didn't like at all. they broke up bc she was kinda indecisive and she played on him with her use to be boyfriend. so my nowadays fiance asked her to do not be friends anymore. that happened in 2005. now i found this message where it got me really jealous. he was asking her how she was and asked if she still was agree with the idea of not being friends bc he didn't want that bc he hated the fact of being a strange with her and he couldn't help but asking her how was everything in her life. I dont know if i am being cheesily JELAOUS or was he just being friendly?

somebody help me

2007-09-28 05:47:20 · 15 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Singles & Dating

you love someone someone and you know what he is capable of doing,do you listen to people`s gossip or you follow your heart

2007-09-28 05:45:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(I know this doesn't apply to everyone, but i've seen a lot of people like this and I never knew the in's and out's and it) Why, when guys get married, they figure their life is over. Why'd they get married in the first place? Girls seem to be more easy going about this but still. I'm not trying to be sexist or anything, I was just wondering from married point of views.

2007-09-28 05:45:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If so, how is it possible? If the couple can agree to "terms" themselves and don't have the money to hire divorce attorneys is it possible for them to do the petitioning, filing, etc. on their own. Where may they get their hands on these forms? What about if they are expecting a child? Is it possible for them to do it on their own if they agree to custody arrangements?

2007-09-28 05:43:55 · 12 answers · asked by seriously2sweet4u 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What can i do to make him interested in me? He is a collegue at work.

2007-09-28 05:41:57 · 7 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Singles & Dating

at first few days we talk good we were okay,and suddenly next few days this person change the attitude..doesnt talk like before and i m wondering why but as far as i know i didnt do anything wrong when ask her question she keot quiet?but why?sometimes she approach me like in a distance doing things but not talking id dont understand...what does she wants..but she talks to others...why this person is doing this?

2007-09-28 05:41:33 · 9 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 20 years old and live with my parents. I have other problems at home but my main problem is i don't have any relationship with my dad. I live home with him and he hasn't spoken to me for over 5 months. I tried to talk to him, but he just give me a straight answer and say no more after that. He doesn't say anything at all to me. I know one of his problems with me is that i have a boyfriend, and he does not approve of that. The main thing is that i can no longer take living home with my dad and their is no communication between us. He doesn't even look at me. I have being wanting to leave the house and go live with my boyfriend since he is the only men right now that i get love and support from. But i havent' left because of my mom. She is very sensitive, she doesn't believe on living with a man before marriage. I have one more year of college, i wanted to leave after graduation, but i just can't take living here with my dad. I just want to find peace in my heart. do i leave or stay

2007-09-28 05:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by nedjine05 1 in Singles & Dating

If you go on a first date with a woman, and you're really having a great time, you like her, she's smart, funny, sexy... and at the end of the night she "gives it up" does that make you think less of her? Are you going to ask her out again? Or has she been reduced to a booty call?

2007-09-28 05:39:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So yeah thats what i told him and immedietely after i said it he replied "Nice" Was that the wrong time to say this? Did i freak him out? Idk im just confused now!

2007-09-28 05:39:08 · 28 answers · asked by Ritaaa 1 in Singles & Dating

The neglect and physical abuse was too much for me I left when I was 15, it was hard at first ... I actually lived in a Salvation Army Box for a few months. I finished school got my degree and work in Compliance which I enjoy. There must be a God because the -1- child we do have is well adjusted. My parents have not changed ... but I still pray for them. Is it just me or are all families like this? Lately I've been hearing parents swearing at their babies, telling the to shut the f-ck up.

2007-09-28 05:38:08 · 10 answers · asked by Shells 4 in Family

i thought i can trust this guy,but then he did something which upset me this time and i don't know why,he kind of betray me like taking my stuff from me even i helped him,but why he does this?when i confronted him he said that stuff was someone s one....but why he does that?he is also my co worker.he sometimes gets me puzzled

2007-09-28 05:36:50 · 13 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the love is the name of sex or a friendship

2007-09-28 05:36:18 · 5 answers · asked by u_r_my_best007 1 in Friends

Its so different when you are just dating, you just don't recognize certain things about a person. My husband and I,
lived together 3 years before getting married, today we've been together 9 yr, married 6 with 2 boys, 1 and 5. I've considered going to marriage counselling, even went together a few times alone or with him, didn't stick with it for long though, I just quickly pick up on when they don't know what they are talking about. I tried for a while to get along with my husband and although he's not a cheat, we do everything equally, taking care of the boys, housework, he doesn't drink or hang out, just work & back home, I just don't like his personality, he's disorganized, quickly angered and negative about people, he's not easygoing & everything gets to him. He's like a child at times, I have to get at him sometimes so he can get important things done, with good intentions though. Sometimes if he gets stressed out he gets hysterical or have tantrums like a baby.

2007-09-28 05:36:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If Mr. Blacksmith<(example) has treated you like a dog or beat the hell out of you, Why would you want to be called Ms. Blacksmith after you've divorced him?

2007-09-28 05:35:32 · 35 answers · asked by spankster 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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