i thought i can trust this guy,but then he did something which upset me this time and i don't know why,he kind of betray me like taking my stuff from me even i helped him,but why he does this?when i confronted him he said that stuff was someone s one....but why he does that?he is also my co worker.he sometimes gets me puzzled
2007-09-28 05:36:50 · 13 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
but he is my coworker what ca n i do?
2007-09-28 05:49:45 · update #1
I think you know what to do already.
But we have no clue what you are trying to ask without proper details.
Those that answered without knowing any details are just 'going thru the motions' of YA.
2007-09-28 05:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the puzzle means he's fragmented...he sounds like a luney....run away from this nut....quickly!
But first here's my two cents....
He has issues...taking things from you and claiming that they weren't yours in the first place is just plain crazy...A co-worker???oooo the politics are dancing...Girl, you will never have peace....your not dating him are you??? You need to set firm rules down starting now and one of the rules to stop helping weak men.....
2007-09-28 12:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships should be based on TRUST. If you can not trust him then get away from him and get on with life. If he will take your stuff and blame others, then he has no resect for you. And he is not trustworthy. You deserve better. Good luck.
2007-09-28 12:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lioness 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like he is playing a game of charades with you. In other words he is pretending to be something he isn't with you so he can use you. I would distance myself of someone who was willing to take from you and try to pretend like it didn't happen. He isn't what you were thinking. I say cut him off as someone close and you will avoid alot of future pain.
Good Luck!
2007-09-28 12:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sound like the why is not the important part. Rather, the question should be, How fast can you drop this guy. He obviously is using you on several levels
RED FLAG
2007-09-28 12:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by JOHN 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi...
When you are with a guy,, don't do things to "help" them...!!! Adults need to help themselves, and if you come across a guy who needs help and/or is irresponsible, DO NOT go out with him or enter into a relationship....
Find someone who is responsible and who can take care of themselves. You don't need to date or be with a leech.
2007-09-28 12:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look , if i were you , i would run asap ! I was in a relationship
with a man who was not responsible , and he used me just
to get an apt because he was homeless, so i left him ! and
i don't look back .. stay away from that assh@le
2007-09-28 13:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by rodriguez m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Check out your eye.
2007-09-28 12:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by diamond_kursed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is a controll freak you dont want to be with him he may also be mentally insaine
2007-09-28 12:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jimmy P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Becuase he has serious issues...You don't need that mess. Leave him behind.
2007-09-28 12:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋