is wrong if I married my ex wifes best friend?

Question

After my wife cheated on me.

Answer 1

Once again they answer without proper details.


'What is your reason for marrying her' ?

An answer to that question would get you more relevent answers !!


Just so you know...

Answer 2

It is wrong only because two wrongs don't make a right and your wife's so called best friend leaves you to know you can't trust her either. If she can betray a so called best friend then she will betray you too.

Answer 3

Yes it is....because if your ex wives best friend would even think to be with you she was never her best friend in the first place! Her loyalty should be with your ex through all the bad and the good and not taking advantage of a sad situation for her own benifit. There are lines you do not cross in life and back stabbing your best friend is one of them! I look at it this way .... a man or woman can come and go in our lives but a true best friend is there for us even if we are not right. Women are very emotional in the bond of a best friendship with another female and we share things about our life that we often say to them that we don't say to anyone else ...not even our husbands. We reflect ourselves like a mirror through them to tell us when we are ok with ourselves and when we are not! We trust a part of ourseves with them and count on them to always be there and love us and accept us for who we are and never betray that trust. A true friend of the heart will understand you even if they disagree in the things you say and do......They would never take the opportunity to act selfish against us and would avoid it at every cost. I am very sorry that your ex wife cheated on you.....but your ex wives best friend is a cheater to.......this woman being with you now really shows her true character on how she values any friendship in her life and I would be cautious on the friendship she has with you now.

Answer 4

wrong?...nah, coincidental?...maybe. To each their own. You only live once and base that on self happiness, why be miserable. If you two work out and are together for the right reasons, then I say who's business is it? Besides, if she cheated on you, you have the right to move on, why should she care, she obviously was done when she made those actions to cheat. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 5

that's no longer incorrect, through fact needless to say your chum divorced her for a reason. yet however, your chum would grow to be jealous. And jealousy can convey approximately some nasty issues. it would desire to even end your friendship, mate. :/ i could in my view wait yet another three hundred and sixty 5 days so which you 2 can get to nicely known one yet another greater useful formerly you marry; through fact marriage is a huge and extreme dedication. Plus, she's gotten divorced formerly, so she would desire to unquestionably get divorced with you too. superb to play it secure now, and shop the bigger stuff later.

Answer 6

Not fundamentally- I mean, your marriage ended because your wife cheated, right? You had never been unfaithful to her with her friend behind her back, but then after you got divorced, perhaps her best friend tried to comfort you and listen to your problems, etc. and you two fell in love. Well, even though your ex's friend obviously doesn't understand the Friend Code (NEVER date an ex of your BFF), your ex still has no say over who you go out with, marry, etc. now. It might end their friendship (or you might end up having to have your ex as your Matron of Honor, LOL), but that's about it.

Answer 7

There's nothing illegal or morally wrong with this. Your ex might interpret this as an act of revenge. If so you have to decide how much that matters to you. Also, if your motive is revenge, that's not a good reason to get married. Give yourself some time to let the anger settle down before you make a big decision.

Answer 8

Only if you did it out of spite and really don't love the one you married. I mean , yes it can be made to look bad cause they were good friends and if you had something to do with the change in their friendship, that could be considered to be horrible.If the reason they are no longer friends had nothing to do with you and something all on its own, than I would say its not that big of a deal. After all its not very likely we can control who we fall in love with.We can avoid it if we think its immoral but if its strong and both feel it to be, than sometimes its beyond opinion.
Good Luck!

Answer 9

Welll......yes. Why her of all the billions of women in this world? Yes your ex-wife cheated but why do her that dirty too?? If you really love her then i say go ahead b/c i feel that it's her "best friend" that has to deal with this more than you. She's the one whose conscience should be nagging her

Answer 10

The one question you need to answer is... are you happy??? If you say yes to that, then I feel you should marry her. You do need to consider the connection that you might have with your ex if they are still friends. You may need to make your new wife understand how you feel and let her know you might not want to hang out with your ex.

Answer 11

I don't think so. You were set free, not in the best of ways either, you deserve happiness. Your exes best friend probably will never do that to you, she was there for the aftermath of your bad marriage. Good luck, i wish you the best.