i fell for my cousin who is 3 yrs younger to me.i want her to know that i love her.but then she see's me as a brother and i feel very difficult to express my love to her..and i dont want to risk her by approaching directly.somebody please help.I feel very miserable when she writes "ur sweet lil sis" in her mails.It makes me feels like crap.Somebody please help me.
2007-09-28 06:04:36 · 15 answers · asked by anish g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look she is my distant cousin....that is,my dad's cousin's daughter...so a distant cousin to me...in simple language i would say...but sorry that i mentioned it very late but please help!!
2007-09-28 18:08:37 · update #1
getting with your cousin is still incest...
if i were you i'd take a cold shower and set your sights elsewhere.
2007-09-28 06:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Liberty Belle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are for real ... I know a couple who are cousins. They married & had a daughter how is mentally retarded & doesn't know how to talk. They've been married for YEARS. It worked for them. I'm not sure how they got together, b/c it was before my time, but they did.
I don't know how you would go about telling someone you are related to that you love them more than a releative ... That's kind of difficult. If I were you, I'd take a cold shower & set my sights on someone who isn't related. It'll really be better.
Probably not a lot of help, but ....
If you're just kidding about this, that's not nice.
2007-09-28 13:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by ayflau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you are a female and in love with your female cousin.
Well it seems that this is all she feels for you, is love you like a sister. If you take it any further you may lose what ever relationship you do have with her. Dont wreck a perfectly good family relationship over feeling you should not be having about a family member to begin with. be careful of your feelings. it may get you hurt in the long run.
2007-09-28 13:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by ask me again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool! They've finally gotten the Internet installed in Appalachia!
2007-09-28 13:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relatives are not for *******. Or your children will turn out deformed. Please just let it go. Treat it as a break up and move on, even if you never really "had" her. There are plenty of non-relative fish in the sea. I hope to not see you on Jerry Springer anytime soon.
2007-09-28 13:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by Alaina's Mumma! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should join the Seventh day adventist, become a polygamist, and your dreams will come true. Your allowed to love your cousin with them!
2007-09-28 13:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by tangerine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is she your first or second cousin? In Texas (and other states) you can marry your second cousin. If she's your first cousin, forget about it and move on, there are more fish in the sea.
2007-09-28 13:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by David B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please reconsider your position in your relationship with her. You are her relative.... she's not going to want anything to do with a relationship with you other than being your family member. It is not your fault you feel this way, but you need to reexamine the question you are asking. Did you read it out loud to yourself???? I'm not trying to hurt you, but you're going to end up getting hurt if you say something.
2007-09-28 13:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by ShoeGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Paris or Vancouver or someplace free of hillbillies. Maybe then you'll understand inbreeding is wrong.
2007-09-28 13:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about that.if she sending mail ur sweet lit sis if ur reaplying to her u write.ur loving friend and then if ur sending a nother mail explain ur love by ur words
2007-09-28 13:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋