If you go on a first date with a woman, and you're really having a great time, you like her, she's smart, funny, sexy... and at the end of the night she "gives it up" does that make you think less of her? Are you going to ask her out again? Or has she been reduced to a booty call?
2007-09-28 05:39:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's funny, smart, sexy, and I like her, it wouldn't make me think any less of her if she put out on the first date. Booty calls don't normally involve a "date" but only a chance encounter....good question.
2007-09-28 12:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sofagrrl. If I was to go out with a female and she put out on the first date, I would certainly not want to have her hanging off of my arm as anything other than a f***buddy. I would certainly give her a call now and again knowing that she has loose morals and if I wanted to get lucky. But to believe that I was the only fella that she has done so with would be a complete mistake and I would question how often she has done this in the past. Therefore I suppose my answer would be she would be viewed as a booty call.
2007-09-28 05:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, it's a myth and misconception that men think like that.
A man, who is worth anything, is probably more likely to call you again, but it depends on how it was. If he didn't enjoy it, that's the ultimate test for him. So, if he doesnt call you that means he didn't like your skills or there wasnt enough chemistry for him.
But, it's not about classifying you as a booty call or anything. I don't think many men do that. If he had a good time, he'll call you. If it wasn't good for some reason or another, he won't.
Good luck.
2007-09-28 05:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ken 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all im a virgin so no sex till marriage for me. If a girl even thinks of putting out after a date, im gone and ill never be back. Real long term relationships arent built on a foundationg of first night screwing. They are built on true romantic feelings, getting to know each other deeply and committing yourselves to each other.A real woman would never do that and a real man would never take advantage of that situation.
2007-09-29 07:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't try to get her to "give it up" on a first date, but I would think less of her for offering. That's just too soon.
The guys I know that look for it on a first date are just looking for booty calls, period. Relationships are just prolonged booty calls to them, and that's why they get sick of the issues and leave. Particularly when they're stilll acting that way at 30+.
Sorry.
2007-09-28 05:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would think less of her if she gave it up so quick. It makes you think that she does it with LOTS of guys....
It really would become just a booty call at that point...
2007-09-28 05:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHEN YOU'RE OVER 30 YOU PRETTY MUCH KNOW HOW TO MAKE DECISIONS AND IF THE FEELING WAS MUTUAL YOU WOULD ENJOY IT AND IT DOESN'T MAKE YOU LESS IT MAKES YOU INTERESTED.WHAT HAPPENS AFTER THAT ALL DEPENDS ON MUTUAL FEELINGS.
2007-09-28 05:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Mex_tech78 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋