Family & Relationships - 28 September 2007

If so, what did you do? Are you proud of your decision today?

2007-09-28 04:17:31 · 6 answers · asked by Andre 7 in Singles & Dating

my mom is a really hard worker i mean a REALLY hard worker she owns 2 places and workes in a hospital my dad just lays there all day on the couch and watches TV i want to help my mom out but i dont know how can you help me

2007-09-28 04:16:51 · 7 answers · asked by anie 1 in Family

2007-09-28 04:14:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you do hate divorce...why do you?

2007-09-28 04:11:20 · 17 answers · asked by BLI 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, story. I really like this guy, but he gets into these wacky crazy situations. He's a trouble maker, and he's always getting into sh**. Now, I am kind of a party girl. But I'm a virgin. I have never tried drugs, but drink alcohol all the time. He said he's tried drugs but didnt like it. But, I'm still worried if I get into a relationship how much sh** im gonna get into. So, do you think I shoudl date him even if he is a trouble maker?

2007-09-28 04:08:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They have a 4 years old son and they live in two different countries. They both love him and want him. If you were this child, who would you prefer to be with? Or do you know any story like this? Father or mother?

2007-09-28 04:07:46 · 16 answers · asked by ilke 3 in Marriage & Divorce

in my old school there were 2 girls who i used to hang out with. they always used ro say that we three were best friends, but then i noticed that they started going off to the cafeteria or the library without me. i even heard them making fun of me once.i really wanted to shove their so-called friendship into their faces and make new friends, but i don't know why i still tagged along with them. I've moved to a new country, and all of my classmates except those two send me emails and chat online. all my classmates tell me how those 2 talk about me in a rude way and make fun of me.can someone plz tell me what i should have done at the time, in case the same thing happens in my new school?

2007-09-28 04:03:28 · 13 answers · asked by confuzzled 2 in Friends

I have 50/50 custody and last night she actually spoke to me for the first time in about a year. Our daughter is not in school yet but will start soon and 50/50 will not work at that time. So, since I had her on the phone, and since this is a once a year opportunity because she does not speak to me, I decided to ask her if she would like to come to some sort of agreement rather than let the custody situation drag on and cost us both more money. As usual, she beat around the bush and did not address any of the important issues relating to custody of our daughter and instead told me that she thinks I am dangerous and I cannot be trusted with my daughter. I think that she is setting the stage for some kind of accusation, perhaps that I am abusive to my daughter in some way, but I don’t see how such an allegation could hold merit. She never speaks to me and we have not had a conversation in over two years about anything really.

2007-09-28 03:45:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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Enjoy

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2007-09-28 03:36:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

DRAGON 2008
"I BELIEVE IN U.S."

2007-09-28 03:36:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I grew up in a house that there was no fighting. There was a dad that knocked us around if he got angry so nothing was ever really solved.
Im over that but Im still learning that arguements are ok and healthy sometimes. So when I argue with my boyfriend i get flustered sometimes. We only have small arguements and they are not hurtful or malicious, but how does a good arguement go?
Do we move it away from the 3 yr old? Or let her see how things get solved?

2007-09-28 03:34:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my step daughter is only 13 years old and well she was talking to this boy she met at the movies. well she told me how old he was which is 16. well she told me can i trust you, but i feel like i should tell her dad because everyone knows how some teenage boys are , they only think about 1 thing most of the time , well anyways she will not talk to me .i dont think i did the wrong thing, please tell me opinion is she too young to talk to a 16 yr old boy?? also he doesnt even know her that well and he told her that he loves her.

2007-09-28 03:33:17 · 22 answers · asked by JENN-JENN 2 in Family

ok my wife and I live alone and once in a while my wife will invite her friends over for a movie and snacks it usually around 11:00 pm when they all start to show up(usually all females). Sometimes after the movie she will feel like going shopping for groceries and she takes her friends with her except sometimes not all of them go and one or 2 stay home with me becaus they don't want to go, by this time it is like 12:30 or 1:00 am...this makes me very uncomfortable ...My question is how can i tell her not to leave her friends home alone with me this late without sounding lustful or capable of cheating?

2007-09-28 03:29:41 · 42 answers · asked by Tx Guy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I got engage with my boyfriend almost 5 months . my dad doesn't know about my engagement . but he dosen't agree with me being with someone out of my race . what do i do . I love my husband to be so much . but i also love my dad . help .

2007-09-28 03:29:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Seriously, they tend to lie about anything that has to do with relationships...

I mean if they want to dump someone they lie...
If they want to get someone they lie...
If they want to tell someone, "Sorry I don't like you", they lie...
The only time that seems to be truth it's when they say yes I want to be with you... but even then they'll say it as a lie... and dump you after with an even worst lie...

Don't you realize that it's the worst thing to do?... I mean it only hurts us more in the end...

I'm asking this because you end up telling the worst excuses, and after that you end up doing the exact same thing you said as excuse...

Why you girls do that?...
Why you lie so much?...

2007-09-28 03:28:03 · 19 answers · asked by Jarb2104 2 in Singles & Dating

even if they are the one who gave it to you just 2 days ago and it was supposed to be your birthday presant from them???

2007-09-28 03:27:56 · 3 answers · asked by nanna 5 in Singles & Dating

Last month at the shoe store, I was surprised by the way a salesman flirted with my wife and the way she reacted to it. She actually seemed comfortable with his flirting and allowed him to hold her foot in his hand for long moments as he helped her try different shoes. At other times he kept his hand on her knees or putting his hand on her waist when she would try the shoes in front of the mirror. My reaction to that is I got immensely aroused and I have not stopped fantasizing about this guy actually making it with my wife. I was really taken aback by my reacion and these images keep playing in my mind. I would like other people to help me understand my reaction. Why would I want this guy to have his way with my wife and successful bed her? It is also worth mentioning that the salesman was really good looking. I am also interested in knowing what goes in a woman's mind in moments like this. Would anything more have happened if I was not around on that day? Would my wife try to go to the store again on her own to try more shoes, and try to meet with the guy in my absence?

2007-09-28 03:27:34 · 15 answers · asked by Rick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-28 03:26:45 · 11 answers · asked by The Sexytary 3 in Singles & Dating

THEY ARE 15yrs. AND IN HIGH SCHOOL .

2007-09-28 03:26:29 · 14 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Family

2007-09-28 03:22:17 · 30 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know how we can find ladies who might be interested?Locally of course. We live in Lake county IN.

2007-09-28 03:20:54 · 25 answers · asked by loki4975 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but your work life might be suffering from a lack of energy?

2007-09-28 03:18:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a cook n a cleaner,but still i cant cope up with the demands of motherhood,it is also straining my relationship wid my husband............my younger daughter is too clingy n doesnt leave me at all.....i feel i have no time for myself at all........this part of the world its difficult to get a nanny or a part time maid at home which wud have given me relief..........also me n my husband disagree wid the idea of leaving our small kids outside wid a babysitter.........i need help in making my small kid independent and less clingy......also help required in planning my time such tat i can spend some quality time wid my husband..................................please help.because of stress me n y husband r alwaz fighting n cursing each othr..........dono wat todo

2007-09-28 03:14:32 · 12 answers · asked by eeta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and I have been together for 4. i have a child from a previous relationship (he was a baby, now he's 4 1/2). my husband has a child from a previous relationship and she is now 15. she moved in with us about 2 1/2 yrs ago. we have loads of problems with her. she is promiscuous, talks like a contruction worker, is already failing 3 classes (school started AUG 22). she got left back last yr. but my hubby found a way to get her promoted. no matter what she does there are never any consequenses, however, let the 4 yr. old try to talk back and he's yelled at and punished. yesterday the 15 yr old slapped my 4 yr old in the face because he told her to "shhh". my first reaction is to slap her back but she's not my kid so I went to her father..who did nothing, as always. should i continue to work at this relationship or just move on?

2007-09-28 03:14:26 · 30 answers · asked by Melissa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When my husband writes or sends her emails she quickly responds to him? The weird part about it is she was the wife of a pastor and speaks about God/Jesus/being a good Christian. I am confused?

2007-09-28 03:14:03 · 8 answers · asked by Shells 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The love of my life decided to end our relationship after I did something which was totally unacceptable to her, in her book whatever I did was worse than adultery, but according to me it was an error. I pleaded with her for forgiveness to no avail , she humiliated me twice in front of all our friends, and I went through a very traumatic phase in my life after all this.After a while she wanted me back but I was in revenge mode (and I don't want to live the rest of my life with a women who left me over such a trivial issue..What If she would do the same in future ?)and gave her an eye for an eye and humiliated her in public.She suffered a Nervous breakdown and is today under Psychiatrist care. Does this make me a Coward, Bad person, Loser ,Wimp ?

2007-09-28 03:11:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there a way to punish an Emotionally Abusive Man?
This is my personal experience. One day I am going to tell in detail.
This man played a safe legal game with me. He abused me so much so that I must refuse to marry him and then he will marry another woman ( which he did).So he can blame me for saying NO and he will come out as an honest man.

2007-09-28 03:10:35 · 13 answers · asked by Amina L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my best friend will date my bf's almost istantly after i break up with them. how can i tell her that i dont think that shes being a good friend to me when this has happened with every guy i have dated in the past 3 or so years.

thanks for your help!!

2007-09-28 03:09:57 · 12 answers · asked by nickerz305 1 in Friends

2007-09-28 03:08:49 · 23 answers · asked by The Sexytary 3 in Singles & Dating

My brother drives me crazy by being over analytical. I just feel like smacking him. He thinks about everything too much; even when it's something as simple as carrying a cd player in a store.

2007-09-28 03:07:16 · 4 answers · asked by Animediva 2 in Other - Family & Relationships