Family & Relationships - 28 September 2007

Well first off we have been living with eachother for over a year and living with each other. She moved here from several states away and dosn't have many friends. We live with my dad which makes it ackward. She first mentioned taking a break a few weeks ago but we decided agaisnt it. Last week she said she needed this break(on her birthday). She said she feels stressed out with the realtionship and needs to hang out with friends and not have to worry(since im the jealous type)She said im a great guy and we have been through alot and she dosn't want to experience that with anyone else and she really wants "us" to work out. we still sleep in the same bed, we woke up in the middle of the night the other day to find ourselfs doing things to one another, we have went on dates, kissed, and so fourth. im not to sure what to do. I can provide more info if anyone wants but im limited in space on here. She said that she isn't ready to come back yet(its only been a week). what should i do?

2007-09-28 02:26:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think it is good thing that bachelors live with their parents?
Adventages are saving money, taking care of parents,,,etc.
Disadvantages are dependence or something....
Let me know your ideas.

2007-09-28 02:26:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I recently asked a question about sex andsome one called "BeVeryCareful" responded claiming that her husband bangs her for 5-6 straight every night. When I politely doubted these claims, she sent me this crazy e-mail about how hey use X every night to last that long? I think she is full of sh it? What do you think?

2007-09-28 02:23:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met him when I was 27 & we got married when I was 29. I'm almost 35 now. We have a great relationship, I know he loves & cares for me. When I was 21 I was stupid & I got arrested for shoplifting. Im not even going to go into the circumstances b/c I knew it was wrong & there is no excuse. I feel so terrible about this. I feel like a horrible person. No one found out about it except the people i was with which I don't talk to anymore. My family doesn't know & my husband doesn't know. I want to tell him b/c It bothers me but I don't want him to know b/c I am so ashamed. I know God has forgiven me but I haven't forgiven myself & I feel like such a horrible person. What would you do?

2007-09-28 02:22:56 · 40 answers · asked by jon jon's girl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

she wrote bad things about u and posted it in public domain, even she just uses initial for names.

2007-09-28 02:22:11 · 14 answers · asked by me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She gets so mad over the stupidest stuff
like last night i called my dad and asked if i could go to homcomeing and he said yea so i said id call him when i needed a ride home
I could hear my step mom in the background sayin
She dont neeed to do what ever she F wants
She gets to go do what ever she wants
My dad was trying to settle her down but she wouldnt stop
shes gone crazy and i dont know why shes not even resonsible for me i only say that because she treates me like crap like my mom and step dad did thats why i moved in with my dad
she yells at me for the stupidest reasons like one day
she was talkin to my grandma and said that my brother was gonna come live with me and i didnt know that
so i asked and she was like
First of all its none of your buisness
that got me so mad so i wouldnt talk to her at all the rest of the day that may seem childish but she gets on my nerves...

what do u think i should do i mean if i talk to her shell go even more crazy

2007-09-28 02:21:45 · 6 answers · asked by kmuentener 1 in Family

willbe very gratefull for any infoyou can give me.xx

2007-09-28 02:18:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-28 02:16:19 · 16 answers · asked by Muslimah S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ABOUT ME:im 5'11" light brown skin(half black) hazel eyes, burgundy and yellow hair(looks great-not ugly like u'd think) im attracted to tall white boys a lot and luv motorcycles.

i started my 1st yr in college in Aug. and saw this guy occasionally who carries a motorcycle helmet w/ him.Once, when i was walking to the gym i stared b/c #1the helmet caught my attention as usual#2he was cute and tall(taller than me!)i noticed he stared back and i assumed just as i was looking b/c of his helmet maybe he was looking b/c of my bright hair

One day last week iwas in the library on one of the MANY computers and sum1 kneels on my left and days"excuse me, the open computers dont have "microsoft word"and i need to print something out so-" i cut him off and said "no problem"(b/c im very nice and the guy sounded like it was improtant) i looked and it was the motorcycle guy! and he said "UR A LIFE SAVER!"He then stood up, introduced himself as Zach,smiled alot, [WAIT 1 MOMENT-IM ADDING DETAILS]

2007-09-28 02:14:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it completely wrong to date a 36 yr old guy or just hook up with him if your 17 yrs old?

2007-09-28 02:14:06 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is an overweight person and is never interested in sex though after 2 or 3 days he bcomes ready for sex but is never able to make me enjoy. I m not at all sexually satisfied if i say him to visit the doctor he alwayz says that he is allright. He does never care for my body requirement . I m so confused it was our love marriage and he does love me but why does he not understand my urge to enjoy sex. I have passed many nights crying. Since the day i married him i am not at all happy.
What shall i do plz help me ??

2007-09-28 02:13:36 · 31 answers · asked by honey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently, I discovered a side of myself I never knew existed, submission. My husband and I have begun to live a dominant-submissive lifestyle. We have educated ourselves on the topic and are very respectful to one another. This is voluntary submission on my part and should not in any way be confused with domestic violence.

I am a professional businesswoman, have been married 10 years, and have three children. But as far as submission goes, I find satisfaction waiting on my husband, whom I do consider my Master. I enjoy being punished (not violently) and serving him. I have never felt more "normal" in my life. But I am extremely aware of society's views about "kinky" relationships. Am I weird because I live and enjoy a lifestyle that most people would probably find repulsive?

2007-09-28 02:08:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone been in a situation where you are a man's "other women" and gotten pregnant by him in this affair? What happend, what are your views of the situation if so? Thank you.

2007-09-28 02:02:33 · 11 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Marriage & Divorce

sometimes she dosent want me to kiss her or caress her and after the whole sex act is over she complains that i was selfish. how do you get aound this happening?

2007-09-28 02:00:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why would a woman tell me "I hope I find someone just like you" and then go out with someone nothing like me? Can someone please explain why girls say they want a nice guy, when it is clear to the rest of the world that is not what they want?

2007-09-28 01:59:20 · 14 answers · asked by Brian T 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I split accrimoniously, after months of him treating me badly but insisting his behaviour was normal and I was the one with the problem (shouting, swearing, pushing, humiliating, controlling, intimidating, telling me I was f*cked up in the head, pathetic etc).

I asked him back a couple of times, in low points... For which I am really annoyed at myself for. He emotionally abused me for months on end, and it's only taken me a while to get over him.

I have to, regrettably, remain in contact with him as we have many mutual friends and there are a couple of birthday's coming up with parties and then going back to his house afterwards.

I e-mailed him to say I would like to be there, but would only come to the bar bits, not back to his house. He said I had to get over him, and that he wants to be friends.

I sent him a very detailed e-mail listing all the things he had done to me in our relationship that had hurt me and said that if he apologised for them, then I would

2007-09-28 01:58:40 · 18 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3 in Singles & Dating

iwant arabic or forighn women to see her and love

2007-09-28 01:58:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think i want out in my marriage,coz i feel unloved,and we always jus argue.on and off for 16 years.id like to be civilise and not messy devorce coz of the kids.

2007-09-28 01:56:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

pls.....answer

2007-09-28 01:56:10 · 2 answers · asked by dong ai rui 2 in Friends

2007-09-28 01:55:48 · 17 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my brother grew up very close. all we had was each other. our dad was very strict, I went to drugs and alcohol, my brother stayed and kissed ***. later on we stayed close with our wives and kids, but a lot of crappy times happened along the way. there were a lot of fights, and flirting, and partying. now all of a sudden my brother and his kids want nothing to do with me. I know I've done a lot of dumb things in my drunken past, that I deeply regret, but I want to know from my brother what exactly, and why he won't talk to me anymore, he's the only brother I got, any suggestions??????????????

2007-09-28 01:53:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He has had heart surgery and has the beginning stages of emphzemya. Doctors tell him to stop smoking, he says he wants to but doesn't. I told him I would not buy him any more cigerrettes & he got so hateful with me that when he finally had me in tears I got them. He gets mad at me for buying a book or a brand name shampoo I like (less than $10) but he spends more than this a day on his bad habit. I asked to go to a family outing that is a couple of hours away and he complained about the cost of driving up there and the expense of eating out, etc. The entire cost of one day of family fun is less than what he spends all week on cigerettes. He smokes between 2 & 3 packs a day. He will yell & cuss if he doesn't have his cigerettes & gets mad at anyone who tells him he needs to stop (unless you are a doctor or nurse). I asked him if he cared enough about our family to try to improve his health to live longer. He didn't answer. I know it is a habit but he won't try to stop. Help!

2007-09-28 01:50:57 · 15 answers · asked by Love being a Mom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm going on a date to the cinama 2 night has anyone got any tips dos an donts i have no idea lol pleassssssssssssse help!!!!

2007-09-28 01:49:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... and mmm. keep it "clean" please.

2007-09-28 01:45:46 · 7 answers · asked by Chrissy 3 in Friends

I'm shy & was placed in different classes than ALL of my friends, including my closest: Val. My other friends are together. I was able to make friends with this girl, Lu. Lu has been at my school for years but this is the first time we've ever had classes with her.

Now, out of the blue, Val is aggressively pursuing my new friend Lu. Val has never been interested in a friendship with Lu until *I* became friends with her.

Val has a ton of other friends but Val runs up to Lu like they're long lost best friends & Val barely notices me. Val announced that she invited Lu to her house. Val tries to sit next to Lu on the bus so I can't. I feel like Val is trying to compete w/ me for this other girl's friendship. Val can't stand to see me have a friend NOT connected to her. What would you do in this situation?

2007-09-28 01:44:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Answer this question in any kind of way personal, social, friendship, family, work, etc.

2007-09-28 01:43:05 · 29 answers · asked by Charmed_Lady 2 in Singles & Dating

if i can i make him sleep onthe couch or i will....but i dontlike sleeping alone....he says he has to be the one toget sleep because he works....but i have to take care of 4kids....like i dont need sleep....even on the couch the snoring is just as loud...tried noise.....he blows right thru it....earplugs are a joke....anyone?

2007-09-28 01:42:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had someone tell me that the answer I had was probably BS and that I'm trying to impress people... Why is it so HARD to believe that there are people out there that have an awesome sex life?? Is it jealousy cuz that person doesn't have 1??

2007-09-28 01:39:54 · 9 answers · asked by NONAME 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Just had a baby and MIL has shown her true colors. Thankfully she is 8 hours away, and is jealous of my mom who's nearby. Last time MIL visited, she was rude and selfish to me and my mom, and told my mom my nursing plans weren't going to last long (doing well thank you, planning for at least 1 yr - she failed herself), was trying to run my household (not happening again), and still expects for y husband to fill her in all the details of everyday with our baby which seems so fake (did you go on a stroll today? what about with other moms? still nursing? starting solids at 3 mos?! how much is he weighing? She peppers him with so many Qs about me and baby! She didn't even say goodbye to the baby last time b/c she run out annoyed. She seems to have also brainwashed my brother-in-law who used to be so nice, and was very different last time he visited. They plan to visit in a week and it's stressful thinking about it. I don't get it. Why can't she act normal? What would you do?

2007-09-28 01:38:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the father of my daughter once said that i would never get another partner because i am used goods(because i have a child) and nobody wants somebody elses kid.
what do you think to this attitude towards mum's.
i am no longer with him but the comment hurt.
i am not ugly but would this matter.

2007-09-28 01:37:37 · 17 answers · asked by bummble bee 2 in Singles & Dating