Recently, I discovered a side of myself I never knew existed, submission. My husband and I have begun to live a dominant-submissive lifestyle. We have educated ourselves on the topic and are very respectful to one another. This is voluntary submission on my part and should not in any way be confused with domestic violence.
I am a professional businesswoman, have been married 10 years, and have three children. But as far as submission goes, I find satisfaction waiting on my husband, whom I do consider my Master. I enjoy being punished (not violently) and serving him. I have never felt more "normal" in my life. But I am extremely aware of society's views about "kinky" relationships. Am I weird because I live and enjoy a lifestyle that most people would probably find repulsive?
2007-09-28 02:08:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-09-28 02:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. It is all between you and your husband and you both enjoy it, so it is no one else's business. Being a professional businesswoman you have to be aggressive to compete in the industry. That might make you feel the need to be submissive at time, to keep life and personality balanced. Hey I say good luck, be happy and enjoy your new submissive side.
2007-09-28 02:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No u are normal!!! i think everybody should find out what it is all about. i done the same thing but in a different way. about 4-5 years ago my husband and i had a 3 some and i/we enjoyed it very much! i have always wanted to try being with another women. i thought it would be different and it sure enough was. so we did it and both enjoyed it. so i say ur normal and go and have FUN!!!!
2007-09-28 02:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are not weird at all. I would love to meet "Society" and tell them to get over it. You love your husband and the things that you and he do is your business and no one in "Society" has the right to make you feel as if you are wrong for having "kinky" sex. You enjoy it and that's what matters. Now if you didn't like it and were being forced against your will then that's when "society" could step in. Have fun and enjoy!!
2007-09-28 02:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by specialte1 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure your husband is enjoying this and if you're both happy, then good for you. You may feel extra 'normal' because it's women who have been supposed to wait on the men since the dawn of time, kinky or not. Have fun!
2007-09-28 02:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by maggieeld 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You shouldnt feel weird. "Kinky sex" is something that differs from person to person. There are more people then you think that enjoy this type of lifestyle. They just down play it, and dont show it, cause they are 'ashamed'. Dont be ashamed of who you are. And as long as you and your husband are happy, and no one is getting hurt (the kids) who cares what ever one else thinks! No one but your husband and yourself are in the house to see it!
2007-09-28 02:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by MayMay 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Actually, you choice of pleasure techniques is none of our business. If you find you get off on this thing and it gives pleasure to your husband as well, then relax and have fun. This doesn't make you any less of a woman or a hindrance to society. You just have a kinky secret you share with your husband, and that's all right.
2007-09-28 02:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by morgan j 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No, you aren't weird. You would be astonished if everyone around you was completely honest about what they did behind closed doors. It is good to hear that you and your husband are first off honest with yourselves and then honest with each other. It seems you two have opened up a line of communication, trust and understanding that is missing from many relationships. Relish this and love. How you show your love is up to you.
2007-09-28 02:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by No one 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, the fact is that one in every 10 females enjoy a kinky relationship, weather it is being punished or doing as their male master says! enjoy your husband and what he has to offer!
2007-09-28 02:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by Familia 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good for you!..I'm sure you feel like a load has been lifted off your shoulders, it always feels good when you find a truth about your self.
Your fortunate to have a partner who understands..As long as you and your husband follow the rules and maintain respect for each other I'm sure you will be happy..
2007-09-28 02:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by Bill 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Truth be told, we all are a little weird sometimes in oneway or another. If it keeps a spark in your love life, I'm all for repulsive. (married 25 years) Whose to say what your normal is anyway. It's not like you are flaunting it. ENJOY!
2007-09-28 02:15:40 · answer #11 · answered by dapperdudet 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋