Family & Relationships - 28 September 2007

2007-09-28 05:34:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom has always had control issues with her kids (specially me). I'm 20 years old and I do live under her roof but I'm not allowed to go out during the weekends. I have to come home early or else she tells me that I wan't to kill her with the stress I give her when she knows I'm out. Seriously I hate this so much. I guess that's why I'm depressed most of the time. I first have to deal with my personal problems then I can't ever get out of my house. In december I will be turning 21, what can i do to get more freedom. Is it right that she is like this? she says that it is because she has no trust because i always lie to her, but for a reason I am doing it, she need to back off.

2007-09-28 05:34:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i married my husband in january and we have been living with his parents, he promised me he would find us somewhere to live but he still hasnt, we have a 4 month old baby, his parents have a trailer and our room feels like a closet it is so small, and the babys bout outgrew her cradle and a baby bed wont fit in here, his mom wont let me do anything like washing my own clothes or making the babys bottles i cant even take a bath after 10 and we pay all the bills my husband seems like he aint in a hurry to move i cant take it much longer i love him to death but this is just stupid what do u think i should do? be honest, oh and his parents dont help if i need someone to watch the baby i have to call my mom that lives 20 miles away

2007-09-28 05:34:14 · 13 answers · asked by Denise 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why is it so hard to find a quality man? it seems that most of then are as*holes, they cheat, or theyre just not my type. maybe im picky? idk? i just want a guy that doesnt get jealous if i have guy friends, isnt posssesive, doesnt treat me like crap, doesnt cheat and of course i have to find him attractrive.
ive tried going for the "nice" guys that i dont find totally attractive but i found them to get to clingy.

2007-09-28 05:33:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We both want a threesome...i'm way into girls. But, he wants to have a threesome with well, any girl really, but mostly with an old friend of his. He recently told me that he kinda likes her...but has no intention of breaking up with me 'cause he loves me to pieces and I'm his best friend. He said he just wants to make sure that no matter what happens in our relationship that we'll always be friends. He said that if he meets someone and they kinda "click" he would never cheat on me, but if he does break up with me he still really wants to be friends. He said he never wants me to be out of his life. I just don't know how to feel...I asked was this conversation supposed to be a precursor to separating as a couple and he said "no". "I don't want to break up with you. I just want to make sure that you're making your own happiness and not completely relying on me b/c I don't know what the furture holds."

2007-09-28 05:31:22 · 32 answers · asked by marigoldkelly95 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-28 05:30:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife keeps bringing up celebrities that have "open marriages". For those who have never heard of this, it is when both the husband and wife has the option to see other people within the marriage. I DO NOT believe in this, and I do not like when my wife keeps bringing it up. Has anyone heard of this?

2007-09-28 05:27:42 · 35 answers · asked by akbar s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we talked about alot of stuff and she asked me a whole bunch of personal questions and even about girl friends if i ever had one, if i ever had sex and she asked if I may be gay? geez , i said no way mom, but how do i ask her about if i am developing down there correctly or the right way about making sperm and when will it develop in me, and why is it that i only see clear stuff, should i just be open with her and ask these?

2007-09-28 05:26:14 · 12 answers · asked by bobby 1 in Family

We have been married for about 2 months and I can't take it anymore. I have known my husband for over 7 years and we lived together for 2 years. He recently switched jobs and is always busy at work and I recently lost my job. A lot of times he stays out late and hangs out with his friends, even though he knows I am bored and alone at home. He says it's the pressure from the job that makes him stay out late and drink with his friends.
If I do something he thinks is wrong he gives me the silent treatment for a week until I beg him to talk to me. At this point I am so fed up and can't take it anymore. We recently moved and I have no friends and no job. I really can't turn to my family because they never wanted me to marry him in the first place.

I really do not know what to do.

2007-09-28 05:26:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is the right method to wash mouth with soap of the opposite sex?
1.Should I use bar-, hand-, liquid-, or dish soap?
2. Should I soap my hand, then rub the lips (mouth) with my soaped palm? Sounds fine to me. Or should I put soap inside an open mouth? Not so good method I think.
Anyone whose mouth was washed by his/her boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife could you tell me about your experience and feelings?

2007-09-28 05:25:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left my school and i wasnt supposed to, and they had told me that i had to go straight home, and i didnt. What should i do about this?

2007-09-28 05:24:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband befriended a female 3 months ago when he asked her to be on his softball team. In the last 3 mths his texts have went ski high. And she calls him during the day, or he calls her. I have told my husband that it was getting out of hand. And it needs to cool off for a while. It got to the point he would text her when he left the house or was working over. I have read the texts and there is nothing there to say something is going on. The women is married, and I have meant her. I dont feel right about it.
Now the texts have gone down quit a bit, but more calling each other. Dont know how to deal with this. She wont text me unless I text first. She would rather talk to him all day. Her husband is fine with this but Iam not. Not sure if I should just sit back and keep my eyes and ears open? Im not a jealious person but I've never been through this before.... And advice?

2007-09-28 05:23:24 · 10 answers · asked by NERAK 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has his thing pierced at the top and he has 2 ribs implanted on each side of his penis and a ball implanted in the center. Would you freak out about this or give it a shot....


I have already slept with him and love it... just want to see what other people think of it?

2007-09-28 05:20:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for example
Walk a Little Straighter
I Love you This Much

2007-09-28 05:18:32 · 7 answers · asked by tmhangel 1 in Family

What age would you say is officially 'old'?

Also what age do you stop being young?

What age is middle aged?

And what is the best age to be?

2007-09-28 05:17:12 · 25 answers · asked by cigaro19 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive known this amazing girl for about a half a year now and she is the first girl Ive ever had deep feelings for. The other night she got into a minor car accident and was really upset she says she "ruins everything" and everyone is mad at her. I asked her if she just didn't want to be with me and she said she doesnt want me wanting to be with her and that there are plenty of other girls better than her. I was crying my eyes out (I dont normally do it that often) trying to convince her she was good enough for me and she meant everything to me but that only made it worse because that made her feel guilty about making me upset. Even though she is an honor student she thinks shes stupid and selfish and her self esteem is just so low. What should I do, I really do love her shes helped me out in so many ways and I just can't let her go.

2007-09-28 05:16:15 · 10 answers · asked by BKelly237 3 in Singles & Dating

im sorta seeing this girl long distance and her parents dont trust after a big fight we had last year when she lived here, wat do i do

2007-09-28 05:15:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do you think that will this be a good relation for a long time or its going to a short term commitment

2007-09-28 05:11:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm still having sex with my ex?! We're not seeing anyone else yet and we're still very attracted to each other. We only broke up cuz we cannot handle a relationship and constantly hurt each other... I'm confused about the whole thing. What should I do?!

2007-09-28 05:09:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he pays me the exact amount of money he is meant to, he works fulltime earning a good wage and he is with another woman who also works fulltime. i am on a disability pension and dont have another partner. it is just me and my 2 children aged 14 and 15 they both are at school fulltime and the 15 year old has just got a part time job on sataurday and thursday nights, what i want to know is would it be right for me to ask my ex to also help to pay for our kids braces for their teeth and school fees and costs and on school holidays to maybe pay for the kids to go to the movies every once in a while or some kind of entertainment for them. he never gives the kids any money for themselves or takes them anywhere or even has them for a night as his new girlfriend does not like our kids. they do not have any other kids together. before he met her he used to see the kids all the time and give them money and help me out with extra money if we needed it. but it has all stopped now so should i ask?

2007-09-28 05:08:35 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

shes being dunb and i need some good disses!

2007-09-28 05:06:13 · 10 answers · asked by mariam.missy 3 in Friends

2007-09-28 05:06:03 · 14 answers · asked by breezy 2 in Singles & Dating

im like really really attracted to white boiiz but i cant seem to find "my type" i like them rto be like emo, skater and sometimes maybe preppy but i totally love Hardcore rocker dudes and chicks, so why am i not seeing any??? Where are u sexxi white boiiz???

2007-09-28 05:05:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the right method to wash mouth with soap?
1. Should I use bar-, hand-, liquid-, or dish-soap?
2. Should I put soap to my hand, then rub the lips(mouth) with my soaped palm? Sounds kind of fine to me. Or is placing the soap indside the open mouth better?
Anyone whose mouth was washed with soap or who has washed someone´s mouth with soap, could you tell me about your experience and feelings?

2007-09-28 05:04:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i feel that he fancy her also because they seems to be together n talking about other things besides work. He's handsome n a great listener. Should I advise my friend not to take up this overseas assignment? I dont want to see anyone get hurt in future.

2007-09-28 05:03:46 · 12 answers · asked by candie 4 in Friends

My husband asked for a divorce in November 2006. He said he needs his space, and that he feels that I am not helping with the household bills. He gets paid more then I and he said he will pay 70% of the bill and I pay 30%. After 5 years know he don't like it this way. Along with this his family fills as if I am keeping him from them. Yes, they are invited to our house when we have things. They don't like me and I have been okay with it. He also said we don't have the same out look in life. However, he filed for a divorce, but that's all he has done. Now he is asking to come back after almost a year. Yes I still love him and yes I let him go. I had to show him that I could things with or without him. IT just was better with tow peolpe. My question is, "Am I a foul if I let him back or If I do let him back should I be thinking in the back of my mind that one day he's going to ask to leave again"? Any advice, tell me what you think!!

2007-09-28 05:02:57 · 13 answers · asked by babygirlvic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I have been broken up for 2 months, and just started hanging out together for the past 3 weeks. We dated for 2 years and both loved each other more than anything, but he ended the relationship because I questioned him about jealousy and paranoia issues all the time and we always fought. I'm not sure why my ex has come back around. Sometimes he seems interested and other times he seems like I am the most annoying person ever. Are these signs of interest on his part?

*Whenever I call him or text him he is immediate to respond. He'll talk on the phone for a while and the other day I was going to get off the phone with him and he was sad about it.

*He looks me in the eyes when we are having a romantic moment

*He treats me the exact same as when we were dating without the constant affection

*He usually hangs out with me when I ask him to

*He cuddles with me at night and sometimes rubs me

*He makes little comments on how attractive I am

*He baby talks me

2007-09-28 05:01:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-28 05:00:11 · 17 answers · asked by Say that Again! 2 in Singles & Dating

A year or so ago I cheated on my b/f with my 10 month old ex of 10 years. My b/f has treated me like crap and has called me names every since, saying its because I cheated a year ago. He wants to get his "even" for me cheating by he going out and doing the same. I realize my HUGE mistake, and I have tried to ease his fears that I would ever do it again, but its never enough. I'm am now at a point, from all the emotional abuse because of it that I told him to do it if it would make him quit calling me whore and treating me like sh*t all the time. What now? Should I really let him do it?

2007-09-28 04:59:52 · 11 answers · asked by SHERRY S 2 in Singles & Dating

How do I change myself???I`ve always pretended to be some one else.I don`t even know who I am,now.I`ve gone from girly,to sporty,and then to girly again.How can I find myself,and who I really am.I am tired of pretending!

2007-09-28 04:59:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships