2007-09-28 05:06:03 · 14 answers · asked by breezy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The standard Cosmopolitan or Sex in the City response is at least wait three dates or more. Me personally, I do whatever I feel is right at the moment. If he seems like a sketchy or inexperienced guy, I wait because I figure he is more likely to get freaked out and run. If he seems secure, confident and you guys are just out for a good time, I go for it. I had sex w/ my boyfriend that I'm with now the 4th time we went out and we've been together for 3 months now. My best friend had sex with her boyfriend on the first date and they've been together 2 years. I think counting numbers is stressful and distracts you from relying on your gut feeling.
2007-09-28 05:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by Alaina's Mumma! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breezy, it is acceptable to lie down with your significant other when both are fully committed to the relationship. When you are mature enough to make the decision and not just a kid wanting to make love because you think this is the guy you will be with forever. My step-daughter is very open and honest with her mother. A couple of years ago, when she was 16 she ended up giving herself to a male because she was young, foolish and believed that they would be together forever. Today she admits quite openly that she wishes that she had not done the deed with this fella and wishes that she could have her virginity back to give to someone else who might come along and be her forever mate. At the time they were both drinking and so that played a little part in this occurring also. Young people often have the false belief that by having sex with someone that this will cement the relationship and they will be together forever. But life doesn't usually work out like that and many end up with bad reputations and easy prey for males who hear that she is willing to do it with anyone. So she ends up being alone with only sleeping partners but no long lasting partner. Do what you think is right but try and have some morals and remember to always practice safe sex, both male and female contraceptives. Good luck in your decision.
2007-09-28 05:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you've run out of sexual positions and you're both exhausted, it's time to sleep. Otherwise, you're not dating; you're just having dinner and watching movies; That's not dating, you do that when you're by yourself!!!
2007-09-28 05:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're both concenting adults it's OK whenever you both make the mutual decision to do that - there is no set rule for what an adult can do in the privacy of their own home.
2007-09-28 05:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by lunasage 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2007-09-28 05:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.K33p !t R3@l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the both of you really feel like you LOVE each other, and there's this special feeling. When you guys develop emotionally, and both agree to it. Then that would be the right time.
2007-09-28 05:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no set time frame, it should be when you both feel the need to be closer. Sex isnt about getting off, sex is supposed to be about love and showing each other your true feelings and emotions!
2007-09-28 05:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready. Just not to soon after you start dating.
2007-09-28 05:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by SW_GURL19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first night.
2007-09-28 05:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just whenever you feel comfortable enough to do it.
2007-09-28 05:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by bushnana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋