I'm still having sex with my ex?! We're not seeing anyone else yet and we're still very attracted to each other. We only broke up cuz we cannot handle a relationship and constantly hurt each other... I'm confused about the whole thing. What should I do?!
2007-09-28 05:09:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi hon...
sometimes we love someone who just isnt good for us... you didn't say what the problem is, but if you can't come to terms, agree to disagree, compromise and respect each other, then i suppose it's time to move on.
you are just prolonging your "agony" by continuing the sexual relationship.
maybe it's time to make a clean break, go through the grieving process, readjust to live and start fresh.
i wish you all the best.
2007-09-28 05:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You're only making things harder in the long run. I was in the same situation with my ex for months and it just made it so hard and confusing when he moved on. I think you should just try to make it as simple as possible. Either get back together 100% or don't see him at all.
If you guys can't handle a relationship, what would happen if you were to get preg.? Not a nice situation.
It may come off crass, but get a vibrator until you've found someone who'll give you 100%!
2007-09-28 12:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by chaychayolei 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough call. If you both are happy enough with the arrangement, there should be no need to change. some people are better as friends than in a relationship. If it is making you uncomfortable and you don't feel right about it, then now is the best time to end it.
2007-09-28 12:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by massivemeat0u812 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you must be confuse sleeping with your ex seems to me you don't know what you want so your taking the sucurity blanket.. you know like charly brown!
Nothing wrong with it but i would sit down alone and figure out what you want in each role in your life!
there is nothing wrong with haveing a sleeping partner with no strings... but most women i know have issues doing this! so don't go hurt yourself!
becareful and remember it's only sex not relationship
if you want to be the person who is not involved then continute with this action if you want a partner then cut your strings and get some batteries if you know what i mean!
2007-09-28 12:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help who you're attracted to,so don't stop doing what you're doing,But in time,just see if you can develop more of an understanding for one another.If both of you can do that,I think you'll have a great relationship!
2007-09-28 12:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Luck 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my brother and his girlfriend went through the same thing for something like 7 years. on again off again type of thing.. they got engaged a year ago.
maybe one day you guys will end up as happy as they are. enjoy it while it lasts, dont ask questions cuz that will just ruin it, and see what happens..
good luck.
2007-09-28 12:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by beb27 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to your ex or u will end up friends with benefits talk to him about what u want out of the relationship.
2007-09-28 12:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by LINDSEY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stop having sex w/ him cuz he is using you...tell him either a relationship...or atleast say you both won't see any one else or nothing
2007-09-28 12:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that u and ur ex need to start all over agin.
maybe it work this time.
Good Luck
2007-09-28 12:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by INDI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're both ok with it and aren't in a relationship with anyone then it isn't wrong at all.
2007-09-28 12:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by Celestial 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋