Family & Relationships - 28 September 2007

what would you do? (considering killing either/both your spouse and/or the person he/she is ******* with is not an option)

2007-09-28 03:05:58 · 26 answers · asked by Moore55 4 in Marriage & Divorce

silly answers only as its the weekend yeeehaaah

2007-09-28 03:05:27 · 18 answers · asked by Bogan Outlaw 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 25-years-old and have been happily married for four years. My husband and I are quite settled, have our own house, but we weren't planning on trying to get pregnant for another two years. At that time our vehicles would be paid four, students loans would be paid off, etc... so it would be a perfect time. However, my biological clock is saying NOW!!!!!! I can't get through an HOUR without thinking of having a baby and I swear my uterus starts vibrating whenever I see a baby. I've even started having nightmares where it turns out we can't have kids or my husband dies before we can have a baby together.

Is this normal? Scratch that, I know it's not normal, but is there anyone else out there who has experienced the same sort of thing? Is this something I should talk to my doctor about or is it a phase that passes? By the way, I grew up as number 3 in a home of 10 children and have 12 nieces and nephews so I know exactly what I'm in for if we choose to have a baby :). Thoughts?

2007-09-28 03:05:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-28 03:04:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So the girl seemed very into it both times, yet I only finished once. What are your feelings on a mans performance while drunk?

2007-09-28 03:03:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was in the park having lunch with a friend and a young mother with her child ages about 2 - 3, this child comes up to me and my friend and stares at our lunch, so my friend offered him a chip, the young boy took a chip then another and never said thankyou and we never recieved one off the mother on behalf of the child, the point was that me and my friend could have been anyone, was this right of the mother to let her child accept food off strangers? or was it wrong of us to give the child a few chips?? xx

2007-09-28 03:01:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-28 02:58:15 · 29 answers · asked by Dylan D 2 in Family

wemon are always flirtting with me! how should I take this?Are they coming on to me or are they just teasing me with temtation

2007-09-28 02:57:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If yes, what type of acts would be done? What setting? Who is in it? (You, a neighbor, your husband/wife, other family members) I am open to all manners of acts, be they regular sex, or more taboo kinks of yours. Please be as descriptive as possible. If I decide I like the story idea I'll write it for you. I can be contacted via my profile if there is additional info that you don't feel comfortable putting up in answers (but please start your answer here, so I have the option of giving you the best answer). There are no limits on the types of acts/fetish/kinks that you can submit. I am interested in hearing what you would like to read about/star in.

2007-09-28 02:56:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Or because we're too corky for our own good?

2007-09-28 02:54:44 · 22 answers · asked by Kerrie 3 in Singles & Dating

Black today..... he is 2 years old ,,we live in a realy nice village in Lincolnshire....But my son went " Crazy" when some Huge black looked at him..!!! ( most in the Bank also stoped talking... 4 old ladys walked out )...there's not many around here...what can i do ..?......Blacks are part of my village now , any ideas..?????

2007-09-28 02:53:53 · 32 answers · asked by Pinhead 2 in Family

Well, about a week and a half ago this girl that I didnt really know to well ask me on a date. We went on this date and since then we spent every minute that we could together. It was really all her doing at first but then i started to open up a bit and really started to like where this was going. She was telling me how lucky was to find me and how I have made her the happiest she has ever been. Kinda intense for only a week or so I know, but it felt right. Well a couple of days ago she send me this e-mail saying that she still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend and that she dosent know if she can pursue anything more with me. This was a shock, she never seemed distant or like she was thinking of someone else. Im supposed to talk to her tonight about the whole thing. How could she let me get that close to her while she is thinking of some one else? Is there anything i can do to snap her out of it or should i just let her go and hope she comes back?

2007-09-28 02:53:53 · 7 answers · asked by Big Volk 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this one girl, nice personality and body, but people have been spreading rumors, gossiping that I'm gay just because I think Michael Jackson is good.(In Music!) So what do I do? Since she thinks I'm gay too.

2007-09-28 02:53:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im supposed to go to the movies with a boy i like tonight, but i lost my voice.. like i can sorta talk but i dont sound normal lol. && im not sure when i'll be able to hang out with him next if i dont hang out with him tonight cause we have busy schedules.

even though im sick , i can still look cute & everything lol. so i wont just look crappy


should i still go ?!

2007-09-28 02:52:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is there really any romantic men in this world or have they died with old age. if there is where are you and what would you class as being romantic. or what does your loved one do that makes you smile with love.
have standards changed because of equal rights.

2007-09-28 02:52:34 · 20 answers · asked by bummble bee 2 in Singles & Dating

slow, his paycheck really reflects that. When he takes a vacation day, his paycheck is about cut in half. I write the bills and can see that there just isn't enough to go around. I try to just deal with it and not mention it to him, because he gets mean to me. I would love to work, but don't know what to do with my kids. I am a stay at home Mom and there is no after school care or bus service for my children. My kids start at 8a.m. and finish at 2PM. The two oldest are in one outside activity each and the youngest isn't in any activities. I am pretty frugal, yet there just arn't enough funds to go around. I write the bills and try not to mention it to my husband, but I did the other day because he wants to take some vacation days to work around the house. He is being so mean to me. When I say that I will get a job at night, he complains because he would make almost 3 times what I would earn per hour. He works 6:30-5pm and 2 days a week works 2nd job until 10:30 pm. HELP

2007-09-28 02:50:25 · 24 answers · asked by chatter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-28 02:48:47 · 1 answers · asked by Kyler .M. 1 in Singles & Dating

She loves me so much and i do the same also.. But I can't marry her cuz of the differences between me and her in the culture... We both agree about this tragic fact.. We tried to move on and forget each other but we couldn't... we still communicate by YM... cuz we are a bit far from each other... she is asking me to keep contacting her cuz she will feel bad without me. our relation is getting deeper and deeper everyday.. what we have to do?? should we permanently stop communicating?? or we stay as ordinary friends ? and how often we should communicate?? should we put rules for our friendship??? plz advice.. thank a million for ur help....

2007-09-28 02:47:33 · 9 answers · asked by Broken_Heart 1 in Friends

i didnt find out from him i had already fell for him and now im having a hard time getting over him what can i do to get over him

2007-09-28 02:45:33 · 32 answers · asked by "T"Bird 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i really want to know the basics of proper sitting for a lady how to set my table in my dining room what stuff to use etc..

2007-09-28 02:44:37 · 2 answers · asked by Lusicous 84 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright, a couple hours ago I was just working on some things on the computer and a friend of mine sent me a link to a certain website. Not aware of what the website actually was, I clicked the link. To my suprise a pornography site opened, at first glance I felt sick. I only was on the site for less then a minute but the way the women were displayed on the front page doing all sorts of acts and several pictures of women and men having sexual intercourse, to say the least I felt physically ill. Now onto the question, how could any normal person enjoy this filth? Thank you in advance for your answers.

2007-09-28 02:44:10 · 23 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Friends

My dad, 70, was just diagnosed with Liver cancer and is given 3 months more. He enjoyed life (perhaps too much) and I always dreaded this day, and now it is here. I am the eldest and he is always looking for me now, though my sibs have made the travel home. I have finally organized the trip ( I just had a beautiful daughter born 2 weeks ago) and I am expected to tell him that he has not much time left. We all love dad, inspite of his stubborness and unhealthy lifestyle ("those who are not prepared to die are not fit to live" is a favorite saying of his) Im sure dad seeing my newborn daughter would make him so happy. Another question, I am looking forward... is would he welcome hospice care (if available?)

2007-09-28 02:42:25 · 6 answers · asked by Francis D 1 in Family

if you're married for less than a year, do you still have to get a divorce when things end?
someone told me 'no, you would just go your seperate ways' but that doesn't seem right, because it's been a proper marraige for 8 months, living together and sharing bills and bank accounts..

2007-09-28 02:39:55 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-28 02:39:48 · 10 answers · asked by amanda e 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 32 and she is 36. Her clock is ticking. She wants a baby, but I don't. The reason is that I suffer from depression and don't feel stable enough to take on the responsibility.

She is Catholic and doesn't want to use birth control. I "hide" as much as possible. Problem is, I am perfectly fertile (I have a 10 year old from a previous marriage), so I can't hide forever.

I want to get my depression under control before trying to have another baby, but I don't want to deny her life's greatest gift either.

2007-09-28 02:38:17 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I never had to much luck with women.
In my whole teenage years I only dated
2 chicks, and they were not high quality
good looking. Since my 20s I only dated
one chick. I'm 23 and been single for a
whole year. I been trying to get a date
with hot chicks but I always get turn down,
or they make up an excuse to prevent from
see me, and I'm tired of all that.
I need to learn tips. I need to know what
women want, even if I'm ugly or pretty.
I'm lonely and I want a female companion (girlfriend)
so she can be with me so I don't have to feel
lonely. I want to learn how to make women wish
to see me again after we first met. Please!!!!!!!!
Please help me!!!!!!!!!!
Tell me what you know that would help me with women!!!

2007-09-28 02:37:22 · 6 answers · asked by Enrique 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-28 02:33:00 · 23 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Our background in short form we have been together for 2 1/2 years we have an 8 month old baby and we have lived together for about 10 months. He hasn't worked for about 4 out of those 10 months and has been out of work for the last 3 weeks. My credit has ended up messed up and we are pretty far behind on bills. I work full time and take all financial responsibility for our child since he was born. I am also the primary caretaker. He is good to me but he isn't responsible which didn't show until we already had a child so please don't even lecture me on that one. What's done is done.

This morning I unloaded on him. It has been building up in one big ball of resentment and it spilled over the top earlier. I told him that for the last months I have come to the realization that I would probably be better off on my own as I pretty much do it all anyways. I came down on him for not getting ANY job he could get bc every bit helps. I also told him he doesn't even offer...

2007-09-28 02:30:50 · 18 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here it is. I was dating this guy well kinda well. I didn't know he had a girlfriend until we had already moved to the next level so you know i felt bad. and i felt even worse when she didnt know because i am a christian and well yea. you know that is adultury and well yea and then i told her last night right well i was thinking i should have just kept my mouth shut. But i dont know did i do the right thing or not? Because I feel good but bad that I told his girlfriend me and him had something going on!!!!!!

2007-09-28 02:29:28 · 31 answers · asked by ¤мαяînзz Gîяℓ¤ 2 in Singles & Dating

and is jealous, bossy ? i know a woman who is , and i told her
to leave him, because it is not healty, there is no future ! he
doesn't have sh! t .... well she will not listen... what do you
think ?

2007-09-28 02:29:27 · 39 answers · asked by rodriguez m 3 in Marriage & Divorce