There's this one girl, nice personality and body, but people have been spreading rumors, gossiping that I'm gay just because I think Michael Jackson is good.(In Music!) So what do I do? Since she thinks I'm gay too.
2007-09-28 02:53:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her out, maybe she will only accept because thinks it won't lead to anything. Maybe she'll say "I thought you were gay". Either way you will have the chance to tell her the rumors aren't true.
However she may say "No." because you like Michael Jackson, so don't get your hopes up.
2007-09-28 03:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dr_Speed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if she has only based her feelings on the rumors or if she actually believes you are gay on her on. If SHE thinks you are gay she's probably not interested in you. But you could try to explain to her that you are not gay and would really like to take her out. Sorry but she probably won't because she isn't going to want her friends to think her boyfriend is gay.
2007-09-28 02:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by shellshell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you gay? If not I don't see the problem. Go up to her and show her you're not by talking to her and asking her out. That will put the rumors aside. Also tell her that MJ's dance moves and pelvic thrusts translate well in the bedroom haha.
2007-09-28 02:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change perception, change reality.
The worst thing you can do to prove you are not gay is going around saying "I am not gay!!!!"
Play it cool, act like it does not bother you because you are so secure in your manhood that if little kids want to spread rumors let them have their little fun. You are too manly to even care about that.
Be playful about it, use it to your advantage. Ask her out, and if she makes a comment about you being gay just joke about how silly it is that people think that way. And you want to take her out and let her find out for herself.
2007-09-28 03:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth...if you look hot..most likely her and her girls are all like man to bad hes gay!!So just tell her up front that your not!Ask her out! There is no crime against like Michael Jackson and his "music" okay?..lol..
2007-09-28 02:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and let her know that you are not gay and that you are interested him going out with her! If she says no or thinks your lying she she just **** out of luck then she might of just lost the best thing that could of happened to her!
2007-09-28 03:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by My life is now complete PWK&RJC! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
99% of the time, if somebody assumes you're gay - you're gay. There are guys I know who are NOT gay, and others who I assume to be, and who are in the closet. Always the guys I assumed to be gay, came out a few years later.
Don't pretend to be straight, because when you're 40 you'll be in men's bathroom's playing footsty with other guys hoping to get a ********.
Just deal with who you are and move on with your life.
2007-09-28 02:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle 4 Ty (Sparkles can watch) 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
iv got the same problem because i like bryan adams but just be yoursel, she not worth it if she judges you like the rest of them, so you should jus ask her out and let her know u r not gay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but if u gay hellloooo brotherr frm another mother kiss kiss
2007-09-28 02:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by freefaller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her and prove you are not gay.
2007-09-28 02:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her friends and start talking to her to find out if she is or not
2007-09-28 02:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by kolan333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋