Biological clock ticking at 25?

Question

I'm 25-years-old and have been happily married for four years. My husband and I are quite settled, have our own house, but we weren't planning on trying to get pregnant for another two years. At that time our vehicles would be paid four, students loans would be paid off, etc... so it would be a perfect time. However, my biological clock is saying NOW!!!!!! I can't get through an HOUR without thinking of having a baby and I swear my uterus starts vibrating whenever I see a baby. I've even started having nightmares where it turns out we can't have kids or my husband dies before we can have a baby together.

Is this normal? Scratch that, I know it's not normal, but is there anyone else out there who has experienced the same sort of thing? Is this something I should talk to my doctor about or is it a phase that passes? By the way, I grew up as number 3 in a home of 10 children and have 12 nieces and nephews so I know exactly what I'm in for if we choose to have a baby :). Thoughts?

Okay, should be "for" and not "four."

If I listened to my husband, we'd already have two or three little ones running around. He wants a baby too and has been told the same thing by other people: there is never a perfect time. I guess I'm torn because it's such a life-altering choice but I've been reading so many articles too that women my age are finding out they can't have children. Maybe it's just anxiety and I should stop reading :).

Answer 1

Have a baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

First I commend you on getting your 'life in order' and all your 'bills paid off' before beginning your family, that way you can spend time at home with your children without having to work.

Second, having a baby is life changing and must be agreed on by BOTH the father and mother before conception. I would suggest you sit down and discuss the pros and cons with having a child now as to when the 'bills are all paid off'. If you BOTH feel this is OK then 'go for it' and be happy.

Third, stop worrying about your biological clock, many women are having children into their 40's without complications, if you are concerned ask your Dr and be sure to tell your Dr ALL your concerns including your nightmares.

I wish you the best ever, you sound like a reasonable young woman with a wonderful future.

God Bless!

Answer 3

Its authentic you do boost your probabilities of having a newborn with start defects, which includes Downs Syndrome, as you age. usually that's worrysome over the age of 35, from what I actual have heard. the reason being each and every era you have your physique selects the excellent, maximum healthful, chromasomaly appropriate egg you have, ignoring the eggs with greater chromasomes (Downs Syndrome) or different genetic matters. in spite of the shown fact that, having little ones at 30 is excellent, and human beings are having little ones later and later at present. Many woman are having little ones previous due 30 s and into their 40's. additionally, while you're comfortable with aborting a being pregnant which you recognize there is an anomaly of a few type they might exhibit screen for such matters once you're nevertheless in the criminal time perameters for scientific abortion (i.e. abortion through fact of scientific sickness/retardation/sickness of the toddler, or wellness danger posed to mom). maximum Dr's propose you having this manner of screening while you're over 30, until you tell your Dr. which you does no longer have an abortion despite the fact that if something replaced into strange with the toddler. despite the fact that while you're below 30 they frequently continuously grant this screening besides. They asked me if i wanted the screening and that i replaced into basically 25 as quickly as I had my son. i in my view could by no skill have an abortion the two way so I opted out of the screening. I beleive each and every woman has to the surprising to chosen to have an abortion if it is sweet for them even with the undeniable fact that, I merely could no longer do it myself. base line, while you at the instant are not waiting to have little ones yet do no longer do it to make somebody else chuffed! that may no longer a reason to convey slightly one into the worldwide. you will be waiting! and there is not any reason you may no longer have little ones once you're 30! desire it is useful! :)

Answer 4

Believe me, there's no "perfect " time to have a baby. In those couple years that your loans are paid off, there will always be somwthing else. If I were you, I'd talk to hubby about it. Chances are, he's been thinking about it too!

Answer 5

there is never a perfect time to have a baby. have you talked to your husband about your feelings? if not do so. i say if you are wanting a little one that badly go for it! i have 2 and they werent perfect timing, but it all worked out

Answer 6

I think it is normal, lots of women have this happen. It's partially an anxiety issue which might be controllable if you contact your doctor. Don't flip out and think your going nuts or anything, you are not alone.

Answer 7

Normal baby fever. If you can afford it why wait. No time like the present. Go do it now!!

Answer 8

If you both want one,why wait..Sure there are worries,everyone has them...I would sit down and talk to your hubby and make a decision together.Good luck!!

Answer 9

It's not unusual, but if you want you can always get a fertility test done.