2007-09-28 02:39:48 · 10 answers · asked by amanda e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Coming out of a relationship, we will always be upset and what makes us stronger is learning how to cope with what is and what will be. The only way to get him back is express yourself to him whole hearted.
2007-09-28 02:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by heathermichelle9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain! DOnt worry ok? I am going through the same thing right now. What you need to do is think about how many other guys who are out there for you
A really good way to over him, is think about why you broke up, something had to be not right about the relationship right? Think of all the bad things you guys were in, it will open your eyes to see that it isnt a good thing in a relationship and think to yourself. idont want a guy like that i want a guywho treats me right!!!
Time will heal this, just give it some time, you are going to be upset for a while but live each day and you will feel better once you start meeting new guys and seeing what else is out there!
If you think he was a great guy and did NOTHING wrong at all, then you need to talk to him if you want toget back together, but if he doesnt then hey, another reason you dont need someone like that!
2007-09-28 09:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi hon... sorry to hear that you are having a rough time.. It's really difficult when we break up.
I think there are some things you could think about... why did you break up? If there were problems, well, they won't change.. it seems people repeat the same mistakes, and we can't change personalities.
Yes breaking up hurts, but sometimes it's best for us. You can do a yahoo seach for SURVIVING A BREAKUP. there are a lot of resources on line which might help, if only a little?
We go through a grieving process after a break up, and it's normal.. Remember, think about what would be best for YOU. sometimes loving someone isn't enough, when we can't see eye-to-eye or get along well.
hugs
2007-09-28 09:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to move on. Try not to dwell on it too much, it's gonna hurt yes, but it will pass in time. Keep yourself busy, and around people most of the time. The hardest parts are when you're alone with your thoughts, so keep that to a minimum. Stay away from the love songs or anything that will remind you of him. After a while either he'll try to get back with you after he realizes what he's missing or you will have found someone else. Good luck to you.
2007-09-28 09:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why you broke up, but generally if you break up, trying to get him back is a waste of time and youre only causing yourself more pain. Cope with it, time heals all, you'll be surprised at how soon you find someone new.
2007-09-28 09:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Heaven L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way is to cope. but if your really want him back go over his house in a fur coat and nothing on under neath it.
have sex then give him his freedom he will admire your for allowing him his space and want you more. also never nag guys hate that. one way to cope is go out get drunk with your friends have meaningless sex with some guy and then move on. the problem is no one knows the true definition of love?
When you care more about someone else than you do yourself. thats why we love are kids. we care more about them then are selfs. thats true love. good luck and hang in there. time does heal all wounds it may sound lame but it is true.
2007-09-28 09:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what the reason was for the breakup if you feel it's worth it to be together , yes both of you should try to get together, however if you feel the reasons were justified for the breakup then no, what happened the first time will happen again and more hurt will ensue. To cope with the breakup is usually to try to immerse yourself more in your studies/work and keep close friends closer, their shoulders will help.
2007-09-28 09:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by sword_maker_samurai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, I'm sorry hun. It usually helps to surround yourself with as many supportive friends as possible. Go out and do something fun for yourself and try not to let yourself think about him. Have a good cry if you need to, but don't let it keep you down for too long. No longer than a couple days.
2007-09-28 09:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by }).Jessi.({ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i stand with u on that one.
love can hurt.sorry babe!
u can email me anytime.
my name i Hannah by the way,ask me any questions,we will get past this.
2007-09-28 09:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes a cheater no
2007-09-28 09:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by msblack23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋