Why do we always hurt when we fall in love?

Question

The deeper the hurt...the deeper the love......the longer the relationship...the longer the time to forget......

Answer 1

If it hurts it is NOT love.

Answer 2

It is more so in our day and time than at any other time in history. Why? We are not brought up to think about others and to serve more than we are to consider self and what we want. One proof is the fact that schools have been teaching that most anything WE may do is ok, if it does not hurt another. Amazing fact is that most things we do will affect others, no matter what it is! One Chief Justice of the Supreme Court suggested, in a ruling, that the 10 Commandments were evil in that some, seeing them in public would try to do them? But, then, if we look at them, what is bad about trying to do them? Should we kill, commit adultery, disrespect our parents on a regular basis, etc. Amazing, our times and amazing who we allow on the Supreme Court! God bless, Earl

Answer 3

The problem these days is that people have unrealistic expectations about other people and relationships. People that go into relationships and/or fall in love have to expect to get hurt one or more times its just going to happen. People make mistakes, and that should be understood so long as the person that makes that mistake doesnt make a habit of it.

Answer 4

If she tells you to move on that means she is not interested. The fact that you said that you can't and wont as long as she is single is not cool. Technically this could be considered stalking. Do you really think its worth going to court? If you think this is love, you know nothing about love. Yes you can love someone you have never met in person, but what you have here is not love.

Answer 5

The emotional pain section of our brain is very near the physical pain section. In turn, the emotional hurt can sort of "leak" into the physical pain section causing pain. The deeper in love, the more pain as there is more emotional turmoil when it is ended

Answer 6

This is all a test in life in which we travel to find out the Doe's and the dont's of love. We start off dumb as can be, but we go through the different levels till we get to that one level that means more to us then all the rest. IN so many words you find that right guy,he will be the one.

Answer 7

Because a majority of the time... we love the person so much that we are blinded by things until it's too late... Just know that you'll know the person is worth loving if you DONT hurt... I love my man dearly and i'm not hurting in any way...

Answer 8

Hurt is an ordinary thing when you are in love. it depends on what kind of hurt it is.
Hurt like " i hurt when we aren't together" or
"i hurt because i just hurt"
1 means that you really love this person but you seem to be dedicating your whole heart towards this person.
2 you have to figure that out your self!!!!

Answer 9

The reason it always hurts when we fall in love is because we have someone else to care about and if they hurt you hurt, you can't say love doesnt hurt coz everyone hurts and everyone loves simple as that :)

Answer 10

I think it hurts very much when we love another, and the strengh of that feeling turns against us if something goes wrong. Still it is far better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

Answer 11

Hurt is another word for disappointment. Love should be unconditional. When we love someone, we instinctively put a condition that says "I will love you if you love me back". another word for hurt is jealousy.