in my old school there were 2 girls who i used to hang out with. they always used ro say that we three were best friends, but then i noticed that they started going off to the cafeteria or the library without me. i even heard them making fun of me once.i really wanted to shove their so-called friendship into their faces and make new friends, but i don't know why i still tagged along with them. I've moved to a new country, and all of my classmates except those two send me emails and chat online. all my classmates tell me how those 2 talk about me in a rude way and make fun of me.can someone plz tell me what i should have done at the time, in case the same thing happens in my new school?
2007-09-28 04:03:28 · 13 answers · asked by confuzzled 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well you should have probably talked with them and let them know that you what was up...since you didn't do it at the time...simply forget them and realize that you dont need them...
2007-09-28 04:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look back, sweetie. Those two were friends, and then became turncoats and became rude, insensitive, arrogant jerks. The only thing I can suggest for future is that if people start acting like that, that they aren't your friends-- and you answered you own question-- find new ones.
You are worth more than that! Forget them and move on with a better sense of your worth.
2007-10-05 11:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by LJG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you done nothing wrong to them, so you don't have to feel sorry or be worry. forget about them. you cannot change the situation. all others (your classmates), were nice to you. and sure you will get more new friends new school. Actually, that two girls are jealous with you.
2007-10-05 22:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by LadyAnis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. There is nothing you can do about it now. Just walk away with your held held high. Teenagers are mean. They always will be. You will have true friends one day, and be so very grateful for them!
2007-10-05 16:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by kiki72404 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens alot even best friends fight if they leave you behind or spead rumors adout you that are not true you should make new friends and if they have a change of heart or something you should become their friends again and keep your new friends if they cant get alone with you then i dont think you should
2007-09-28 04:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by dangerous_beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real friends come far an few! Don't waste time looking back, work on your bright future!
2007-09-28 04:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by fox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen it happens with everyone even adults. i had a best friend we did everything to gether at work. then one day i retired. well i had firends there aat work but guess who i hear from. friends i hardly hung with and from her my best firend its like I am notthere nomore and to this day its been 2 years its like we're not even acquantances any more.
2007-10-05 15:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at that time u shud've left them... n u shud've made them feel that they r NOT d best..! u shud;ve shown ur importance to them sum how..
but now its k...now try identifying ppl wid thr nature in ur new skool... jus see how they treat u... n then choose...
well.. if sum1 is really interested to be frnds wid u then he/she shall approach u himself/herself... :)
all d best baby!
2007-09-28 04:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Tw!NkLe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dis should b dealt wif by a grown up.
or if not, y not ask dem urself.
1st ask urself, r dey worth still being friends wif. n wat is dere dat make u fink dey talk behind ur bak, other dan ppl from ur old scool.
2007-10-05 20:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by cheekychic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can just tell them to kiss ur......... becz no one can make fun of somebody else sooooooooooooooo be carefuleeeeeee
byeeeeeee
2007-09-28 04:10:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋