Is there a way to punish an Emotionally Abusive Man?
This is my personal experience. One day I am going to tell in detail.
This man played a safe legal game with me. He abused me so much so that I must refuse to marry him and then he will marry another woman ( which he did).So he can blame me for saying NO and he will come out as an honest man.
2007-09-28 03:10:35 · 13 answers · asked by Amina L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The best way to punish an emotional abusive man is to be happy, show that you have great self esteem and do not ever, ever let them see you hurt by their abuse. They abuse for power and control over you and by showing them they have no effect on you, then they will feel punished. Feel sorry for the poor woman that did marry him, because if he was abusive with you, then he's abusing her too. Thank him for showing you his true colors before you entered into a marriage with him because now you are free to find someone that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated, someone much better than him.
2007-09-28 03:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but this makes no sense. What is a safe legal game that would abuse you? Why can't you marry him? Why has he become an honest man?
2007-09-28 10:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by Alissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You punish that man by never talking to him again. Good riddance.By not losing any sleep over him. Thanking GOD he found someone else and you don't have to deal with him anymore. You punish him by going on with your life and trying to put him as far out of your mind as possible.
2007-09-28 10:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by shellshell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The very best revenge is to LIVE WELL.... be happy, successful and take great care of yourself.
I know you don't get that immediate gratification... but it truly is the very best.
I was in your shoes... and SO HURT... I bored ALL of my friends talking about it for a year... I began to heal... better and better... met a wonderful man, married.. ... Sure enough.. He called, wished he had not done what he did.. cried.. blah blah blah.. mutual friends told me he was confused and sad....
Of course, darling, by then... I did not give a damn.
2007-09-28 10:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by Bentley 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really bizarre. If this man is abusive, don't spend time thinking about punishing him. Get a restraining order, get some counseling, and get on with your life.
2007-09-28 10:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by dontdoubtit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to therapy or counseling if you cannot let go of the anger this man has provoked inside you.
In order for you to let go of him and your past with him, you need to aknowledge your feelings and learn how to deal with them in a way they do not hurt you. You cannot change what happened; but you can learn how to deal with the facts so your future is not tainted anymore.
Perhaps a trained professional can give you insight and tips so you can help yourself to heal and to forget him. GOOD LUCK.
2007-09-28 12:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by saying "no".
Never marry someone who abuses you. i'm glad you did not marry him...
take care of YOU first.
2007-09-28 10:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you continue to seek revenge you to will be in jail
you have the key to release yourself
revenge is not it
do you want to continue the abuse?
or do you want to move on?
2007-09-28 10:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anything that you do will change the loser he is. The best thing to do is to leave and never see him again...at least for your own sanity.
2007-09-28 10:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it already.
He married someone else and he's not your problem anymore.
Move on
2007-09-28 10:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋