Seriously, they tend to lie about anything that has to do with relationships...
I mean if they want to dump someone they lie...
If they want to get someone they lie...
If they want to tell someone, "Sorry I don't like you", they lie...
The only time that seems to be truth it's when they say yes I want to be with you... but even then they'll say it as a lie... and dump you after with an even worst lie...
Don't you realize that it's the worst thing to do?... I mean it only hurts us more in the end...
I'm asking this because you end up telling the worst excuses, and after that you end up doing the exact same thing you said as excuse...
Why you girls do that?...
Why you lie so much?...
2007-09-28 03:28:03 · 19 answers · asked by Jarb2104 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok.. I'm kinda noticing some agression here... I didn't want to be mean... and yeah... not only girls... also woman do lie...
They say it's because they don't want to hurt us... but they do it in the end...
And I know most of you don't mean to do so... but you end up doing it cause you "Don't want to hurt him"... or stuff like that...
So don't be agressive... just calm down.. I just wanna find out why I know every excuse ever made...
2007-09-28 03:42:37 · update #1
Unfortunately that's how society is in general, not us women as well but men in the same are liars. People are generally immature and like to play dumb mind games. Its all about power and manipulation in order to get what they want. In us, good people who have to put with people's nonsense.
I'm sorry if you feel this way... Just gonna have to pray for more good people to come into your path.
2007-09-28 03:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do men lie? Do I look fat in this dress: No
Are you Cheating on me: No
What you made was a generalization about females YOU have dealt with. Just like I cant say all men are the same you cant say all women are the same. Have you met every woman planted on God's green earth?? Negative. People who lie some are just habitual liars, some think they're sparing others feelings. I concur lying does hurt more because you feel lied to and deceived. But try and figure out if your dating the same women without realizing, we all have a pattern sometimes its obvious sometimes its not. People cant handle the truth also is another issue. Sometimes people say they want to hear it but when they do its a whole nother story. Perfect example is yahoo answers. Oh I slept with my baby daddy mommas dad and yet they write at the bottom of that *please no ignorant answers etc* Um yeah What that reads to me is a disclosure that reads I want to read what I want to read.
Be true to yourself and tell everyone else to kick rocks
2007-09-28 03:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by Queen of the Scene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAby aint nobody lieing maybe you just pick the wrong type of females that like to lie to your face!You need to get a gurl from the hood to tell you how it is!Cuz apparently with those sweet little innocent gurls that only lie to you for your own good aint helpin you none!so yeah there you have it...Dont start labeling all of us when you guys arent so good your self!You are only saying this cuz you've been hurt a couple of times!Get over it...life goes on! Two tears in a bucket so fudge it!aight?!
2007-09-28 03:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Liars come inall shapes, sizes and genders. Just because you've run into a few girls who lie, doesn't mean all girls are liars. You probably lie yourself, come on, honestly now...
Grow up. There are a billion other people out there and I'm sure you can find at least one girl who will be brutally honest with you.
2007-09-28 03:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, you make it sound like every word that we say is lieing. you are definently finding the worng girls. I dont ever lie like that i dont have a reason to, maybe your giving the girls a reason or they dont like you. Just look for better girls and if they still lie, dont stress it, just walk away from it and keep looking.
2007-09-28 03:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by amanda b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you the lying isn't gender specific.
my ex boyfriend lied about everything when i met him, so the person i met wasn't the person i ended up with a year later... he presented himself as someone completly different than who he actually is...
maybe you gravitate toward people who lie all the time for some reason?
2007-09-28 03:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls do. You are picking the wrong girls. You need to change your habits and start looking elsewhere. There are better women out there. Just keep looking and you'll find some. Good luck.
2007-09-28 03:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by Die S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not only GIRLS who do this MEN do it as much. I recently divorced a man after 3 years... a total liar. then admited to lying to make the marriage work , he only made things worse.. a liar will always be a liar and cheater...they work it to their benefit....i wonder if u can trust anyone anymore...they will end up alone and misriable one day... if not already. ....
2007-09-28 03:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by blueyed1980 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its all relating to the nonverbal ques that accompany the lie. women, learn have shown, are unfavourable at interpeting nonvberbal verbal replace from others whilst the different individual is lieing to them! they won't be able to study the signs and warning signs... for this reason, they could no longer transmit to nonverbal signs and warning signs. besides... can we rather want our mothers to be liars? they are those that covet us permitting toddler attachment which finally ends up interior the survival of our species
2016-10-09 23:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut up. Men lie just as much. It is probably just the women you know, cause you probably attract the scum bags.
2007-09-28 03:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋