my best friend will date my bf's almost istantly after i break up with them. how can i tell her that i dont think that shes being a good friend to me when this has happened with every guy i have dated in the past 3 or so years.
thanks for your help!!
2007-09-28 03:09:57 · 12 answers · asked by nickerz305 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How about a reality check 4 you? She's NOT your BF!!!!! No friend would do that. Wake up and stop letting her do that to you.
2007-09-28 03:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Blond3 BombShell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I have dealt with this a lot.... you should tell her you do not think you approve of her dating every man you date... tell her to find her special someone or (be kind of mean) show her off data man that she will not like and maybe she will not date any men that you date again
2007-09-28 03:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Gabby :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you would prefer that she not date your ex-boyfriends, tell her to at least wait for six months or so to give you a chance to fully move on from them before she starts going for them. Tell her you feel like she's a boyfriend vulture and it leaves you questioning how true of a friend she is to you.
2007-09-28 03:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not stealing them from you, I think you might just want to mention it casually - "As often as you date the guys I have dated I feel like you kind of don't respect me." If she is or might be taking them from you I would flat out, aggressively confront her about it and demand she stop.
2007-09-28 03:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by ledbetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rite this all depend son your age, if your 16 and aboove then this is rong im sorry u just dnt date youre best freinds ex its jqust way to creepy, if i was u i would just tell her that u dnt like it and hoew would she feel if u did it to her.
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2007-09-28 03:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by katieloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had this problem too.
i just talked to them about it.
i told them that i didnt feel comfortable with them dating my ex's and that they can find someone else that i havent dated, i told them that friends dont date eachothers ex's.
but thats what i did.
hope this helps.
2007-09-28 03:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by rootbeerrox2121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have her date them first, that way you'll never be hurt or disappointed...she can deal with the garbage and weed them all out.
2007-09-28 03:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by REENIE29906 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flat out tell her....you are sick of her wanting to knaw on your left over bones!!! Tell her to go get some fresh meat!
2007-09-28 03:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by pam f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally, it's against unspoken rules of dating for friends to date each other's ex boyfriends.
maybe she's not a friend?
2007-09-28 03:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply tell her. let her know your true feelings. if she is a true friend she will respect your feelings and back off.
2007-09-28 03:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by SRH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋