I really like my high school math teacher because he listens to me and helps me when I need it. Not just about math obviously but even when my best friend of 7 years past away he was there to help me get through it. A part of me knows I will never have a chance with him, but another part of me keeps trying.
2007-09-28 06:06:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry girl. You can have a crush, but no more. He's your teacher.
2007-09-28 06:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has a crush on their teacher at some point. I totally had a thing for my Spanish teacher, LOL. But I was like 15 and he was like 28, not to mention married with a baby, so all I did was look and daydream, and that is all you can do, too. If you make advances to this guy, if he is a respectable teacher he will gently tell you that he thinks you're a great kid but that's it...and then you will just be embarrassed and your feelings will be hurt, so it's not worth it. On the other hand, if he is the kind of teacher who actually would take advantage of your advances, you could wind up getting yourselves in major trouble. It would end his career and you could get pregnant, violated somehow, etc. Instead, try to find a guy your age who possesses some of the qualities you find attractive in your teacher, and go out with him instead.
2007-09-28 06:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly. take a second and think about what you are saying. he is a teacher, a mentor. He is your teacher and cares about you but there is a limit. Just think of the complications this could cause. I dont know how old you are..if you are in High School..CEGEP or University but in all it is wrong. He could and probably would lose his job if anyhting ever happened. Since it is against policy to date a student. This could ruin his proffesion and it could ruin your reputation. It is normal to have a crush, but you should just let it be as a crush and nothing more. Wether you have a chance or not is not the problem. Wait until you are no longer a student and then think about it. Until then. Look dont touch.
2007-09-28 06:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by shawnablackburn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what teachers are there for.When you need someone to talk to ...talk to your teachers.That's fine.But when you start liking him...that raises red flags.We've all had crushes on our teachers ..at some point in time.As long as they stay crushes and do not go beyond that.But I think you need to find someone you own age.Plus getting involved could get him into a lot of trouble.
2007-09-28 06:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by Ashlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you.. I wouldn't get into it like... more than friends.
You can jepordize your future and his. But.. He does sound like an awesome teacher. I used to have a teacher like that...
I understand where you're coming from.. but just try to stick with people your age. You'll get in ALOT of trouble. But do stay close with him.. he sounds like he helps you alot.
Sorry if my advice didn't help you, but i try...
♥ Raven
2007-09-28 06:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh thats wierd but he seems like a great teacher.i dont think u'll get achance cuz hes a teacher but u could try.is he cute?LOLif hes not den uh dont try.jk
2007-09-28 06:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by Doris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can have crush and thats it, but all I know is that it will make whatever class you have with the teacher alot more awkward.
2007-09-28 06:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by SirLucious♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. You'll end up getting both of you into a lot of trouble if anything comes of it.
2007-09-28 06:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by ouch84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't you watch the NEWS?...& if you do something; you'll only jeopardize his career & his life...its just a crush!...yeh but after you graduate & still have these feelings then you can do something about them but right now focus on your studies...
2007-09-28 06:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by crazykiaray23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I know I don't have any issue's nor problems..
But you? A bundle of confusion holds you back..
2007-09-28 06:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by Unbreakable Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋