Family & Relationships - 26 September 2007

n my boyfriend is 19 i noe that its wrong what im doin but even my boyfrind said im doing wron but i cant take it any more my boyfriend says to open ur heart to god n god would help u i believe that b ut i just wanna get out my house

2007-09-26 05:11:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

But I don't think its mine. How can I trust her? She
is calling my house and telling people its mine. What should I do?

2007-09-26 05:09:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you feel that somebody that you love dearly want to "crucify" YOU for some other things in their life? Do you let them do that and stop loving them because of it or you leave them before they "crucify" you and stop loving them because of their attempt? Old proverb says: A good teacher would always leave you in a belief that he/she left the student than to finish the lesson himself and show the student that it is he/she who actually left the teacher.

2007-09-26 05:09:22 · 5 answers · asked by radharani 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

....what should i do?..He said" every Thursday when he is off from work,"and her husband is @ work,working 2 jobs from 6am til 7pm..They live in the same apartment complex,and their apartments are next door....What should I do?,because I also know the Husband and Wife

2007-09-26 05:07:37 · 30 answers · asked by KingHenry ll 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have never engage in another relationship after a break up, so I have no idea what a rebound is, need examples and clear explations..

2007-09-26 05:03:52 · 22 answers · asked by Worried 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
My husband of 2 years and I went on a holiday to Bangkok. We visited a dance bar. My hubby fell for a topless dancer and divorced me. This was 2 years ago. I developed a fear of any relationship since.
For the last 10 months, I have been going out with a nice guy. He wants us to hit the sack but I have been asking for more time. He will jump at the first chance but has been okay so far.
He was very active sexually but has been sober for a while. I hope he continues that way.
We live in London. We spend evenings together.
His company is asking him to go to Bangkok for a month. I am now afraid. If he sleeps with any girl, our relationship will be finished. I know how tough it is for men to control themselves in Bangkok. My BF promises to be a good boy but I am getting nervous. I lost a hubby (good riddance). A second loss, I won't be able to take. How do I save my love from the Thai beauties?

2007-09-26 05:03:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We come hope wiped out, eat some food, and fall asleep. We were thinking about throwing a party, but I don't think either of us could really muster up the energy to plan anything. What should we do to mark the occasion?

2007-09-26 04:59:13 · 8 answers · asked by micahcf 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We've only been married for a little over a year and my husband can't seem to get enough of hanging out with his friends. The worst part is that his friends are losers, one which left his wife recently with 2 year old twins because all he did and still does is go out and party at clubs and car races and car club meetings. My husband is always with them now and doesn't go a week without going to a club at least one time. I yell at him, I've begged him to stay home and its's like he doesn't even care b/c he goes out anyways. He is also always constantly talking on the phone to this girl. I've told him that he can have friends but that it's not right for him to always be on the phone with someone I don't even know, b/c I know he wouldn't it like it if it was me talking to a random guy. He goes out every Wednesday and Fridays and I really want to get these bad influences off of him. They smoke and drink and even last month, my husband got drunk which never happened and its all influence.

2007-09-26 04:57:27 · 38 answers · asked by Jessy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In the state of Iowa,
I am trying to find out so I can get my child, In my house as her mother claims "I never do nothin for her" and was trying to put her out last week but when she found out she was with me demanded that she come home,

Long story short, Its time for a change and I will do what ever i can to make it,

so please even if you can just point me in the right direction That would help as well

2007-09-26 04:57:23 · 5 answers · asked by nimisisprime 3 in Family

why would my boyfriend since I was 16 (he was 18) cheat on me with this trashy girl (she has no education at 24 yrs old, no license to drive, no car, shes a fast food worker, an alcoholic and a hoe) repeatedly ending up having a TWO kids with her and when I left him, he went to stay with her but he wouldnt leave me alone and always telling me he loved me and so on and trying to be at my house every day-while she is getting mad that he isnt there with her and her kids. To this day he acts as if it was a mistake from him having problems and not having himself together, and that he NEVER wanted to be around her let alone have kids with her and so on? If that is the case why can he have kept cheating on me with her. He goes overboard to try and make this up to me and tell me he wants to get married and settle down with me-I DONT understand at all. PLEASE dont tell em to leave him b/c thats not my issue or question-I want to know why he did it if he says she is SO awful and a loser!

2007-09-26 04:55:06 · 14 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Singles & Dating

i am going to get married in 1 and a half years time. (in 2009). the problem is my boyfriend. he is a really fan of cars. he likes cars and he spend a fortune on his car. when we proposed, everyone taught that he was going to change but he haven't changed yet. he haven't begin to save yet. i have a lot more money than he have. but he really loves me and he is a good guy. he has a good job. his mum is worried for me that in the future we couldn't cope because of his hobbies. this is very series now. i don't know how to tell him to stop spending on his car. i am going to try but i know if he stops, he is going to be very very sad. once he said that if he finds a girlfriend that begins to judge him what to buy and not, he will dump her. i know you can tell me to dump him but its not easy now after 2 years. what is your opinions about this? btw he is 22 years old and i am 21 years old

2007-09-26 04:51:18 · 14 answers · asked by angelzz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have been together close to a year. I just found out we are pregnant. he was sooo excited, then a month later starts giving me this "i love you too much, i am scared you will wake up one day and decide you dont want me so i have to leave first". The first time he just needed a few hours. Next time was overnight at a friends where he ran back swearing he will be with me forever. This time it has be 2 days and he is still thinking it thru, still telling me he still loves me but cant be with me because of his fear. Do i just accept this and raise his child alone? I am going back and forth on what i should do and it is making me physically sick.

2007-09-26 04:49:16 · 10 answers · asked by jerk magnet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we make time for each other about once a week.I don't want to stray.
I just feel like something different.
what should I do

2007-09-26 04:47:08 · 14 answers · asked by me1234529 1 in Marriage & Divorce

every time i try to develop an understanding with the opposite sex- where i'm o'k with just being freinds, they don't appreciate that and want more
now i need to cut him loose and he's not taking me seriously
i don't want it anymore and now our freindship is going to be ruinned over this

easy let down suggestions pleaz

2007-09-26 04:46:03 · 14 answers · asked by wonder 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-09-26 04:43:13 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

if you know they do things there not suposed to then how can you trust them with your personal stuff without blurting it out to someone else....

2007-09-26 04:43:00 · 1 answers · asked by shorty101 1 in Friends

I know that I please my wife in more ways than one. Sometimes I last a long time, but sometimes I can c*m pretty fast because its so good. What can you do to last longer and have an get erect again after your c*m.

2007-09-26 04:41:50 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a big arguement with my boyfriend and i got so angry that I punched him in the face. i didnt think he would do anything back but then he swung his arm round and struck me on the top of my arm and now its starting to bruise. do u think he shouldnt have retaliated because he is the man or did i deserve it??

2007-09-26 04:41:28 · 78 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend that i thought i could trust then she set me up with a girl i dont like and she heard every thing i said. I dont want to lose our friendship but then i want to tell her i dont want to be friends anymore. plz help

2007-09-26 04:41:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does he refuse to clean up after himself, whine when he doesn't get his way, etc.?
And mine won't help me with our kids when we are both home. I was busy doing something, and he was sitting watching TV. Our youngest wanted a bowl of cereal, so I had to stop what I was doing to get it for her. Curious, I asked her why she didn't ask her dad to get it for her, and she said, "I did....he told me to ask mommy." Why should I be the only one doing stuff for the kids?? I was busy, he wasn't.

2007-09-26 04:40:29 · 26 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-26 04:30:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had a huge arguement with my partner the other day and when I lost my temper I lashed out and punched him in the face. I just assumed he would take it but in retaliation he swung round with his arm and punched me on my arm, and now its starting to bruise badly. what should i do?

2007-09-26 04:27:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know people say that if you're married young than you'll have more problems because you're both still figuring out who you are. But, what if you're just mature? What if you believe you found that person, it's just your age that makes it seem juvenile? The age I'm talking about is 19-20.

2007-09-26 04:24:55 · 16 answers · asked by ~)~) 3 in Singles & Dating

A divorce or dissolution without a lawyer? we have been separated for 4 yrs., no kids, and no possesions to split up. I have had a hard time coming up with money to pay for it and even legal aid wanted $375. I heard there was a way you could do it yourself and only pay filing fees. does anyone know anything about this or who I could talk to to find out?

2007-09-26 04:24:48 · 6 answers · asked by Connie D 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it is right that my husband got writen up at work because he missed a day to take me to my fathers funeral? One of his bosses got fired for stealing hours from other workers and now they are getting mad at everybody and writing people up for things they did like a 2 weeks to 2 months back. 5 people quit, Do you think my husband should quit? They are really mean there, He works at coca cola. He doesn't want to but i can see he is stressed and always complains about work. The only reason he stays is because of the money.

2007-09-26 04:22:20 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You're at home on an average night, doing nothing much... How do you get things going?

2007-09-26 04:17:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

was in the same room together on vacation together we had sex when my wife was in the other bed

2007-09-26 04:16:33 · 30 answers · asked by hotchocolate2472003 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Texts and calls constantly and then out of the blue stops. Won't talk to me for a day or two and then starts back up. Is it a game? Does he have someone else? Dementia?

2007-09-26 04:11:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been fighting alot lately, mostly because i want to get out and do things and he doesn't want me to. I just had a baby 6 weeks ago and i have a 2 year old also. He seems to think that my life and everything that i do should revolve around them. He would not let me go out with a friend and just recently my sister ask me to go out with her and got all and started treating my like crap. He later told me the reason was that he did not trust me fully, because i had told him that i wondered what it was like to be intimate with someone else, because i was a virgin when him and i got together. he thinks that someday i will wonder to much and want to find out and will cheat on him. Now i don't know what to do because i don't want to be with someone that does not trust me. Can you please give me some insight on this.

2007-09-26 04:09:39 · 20 answers · asked by racerchick8785 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Being a psychologist, people expect us to be able to deal with our problems easily, but applying our own advice to our problems is sometimes hard. My long time friends (since elementary) have never accepted my husband. Since I met him, they have not done the slightest effort to get to know him. He is from a different country and that seemed to set them back from the get go. He is compassionate, funny, outgoing, wealthy and you can tell he really loves me. Shouldn't they be happy for me? I feel like I can't count on them for anything. Now I never attend any events where they might be because I feel like I'm exposing myself to get hurt again and again, but they think I'm just not interested in them. I have tried for over 1 year to keep them close and to have them as friends but they have disappointed me again and again. I already tried telling them about my disappointment, and they have done nothing. Should I sit down with them and let them know that I am still hurt and disappointed?

2007-09-26 04:09:35 · 12 answers · asked by onlinetherapist.com 2 in Marriage & Divorce