You're at home on an average night, doing nothing much... How do you get things going?
2007-09-26 04:17:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not asking because I don't know how to. I am just curious as to how other people initiate in different / original ways.
2007-09-26 04:42:32 · update #1
It depends. Sometimes flares....sometimes by using a semaphore system we've set up. Other times through the use of morse code.
Naturally these are all formal methods of initiation. If I prefer to be less formal I just ask "Wanna get laid?"
Hasn't failed yet.
2007-09-26 04:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Easy. He walks in and I wrap my arms around him and kiss him. After that he's putty in my hands--except when he's in a teasing mood and wants to make me wait. Then we sit on the sofa and have some foreplay for the next few hours so that by the time we get to bed we are both so hot we can't stand it much longer. It's very erotic to prolong the sensations, but kids never seem to understand this. Only us old folks! Try it some time or other. You'll see.
2007-09-26 13:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I get somewhere where I can rub her shoulders and after a minute or so, I ask if she'd like a massage...(i give a pretty good massage) if she takes her shirt off, I grab the baby oil and off we go...in about 15 to 20 minutes (with articles of clothing being discarded every couple of minutes so as to 'properly' rub those areas) everyone is all worked up....LOL
2007-09-26 11:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married for 20 years and I start hugging and playing around and when we go to bed she gives me a good night kiss and I end up sitting in bed with my eyes like an owl,that would be my average night and when something does happened it would be a miracle.
Take care
2007-09-26 11:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sorry deleted 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's easy! You just sit on his lap facing him and start kissing him or start giving him a back rub...or do a striptease! Or start going down on him. I love initiating things!!! HAHA : D
2007-09-26 11:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she's sexy, just a wink and a smile, or for the fun of it I'll walk through the house with nothin' but a tool belt on!
2007-09-26 11:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by Steve H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know how to get things started with a person you're supposed to love, you have a lot more to be concerned about!
2007-09-26 11:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I walk up to him, straddle his legs (if he's sitting down), give him a long kiss, get up and pull him by the hand to the bedroom, or wherever I feel like doing it.
2007-09-26 11:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
doesnt take much, starts off with a few kisses on the neck, next thing you know (poof) lol
2007-09-26 11:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by teri is ambience 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Will get next to her and start to play with her body, if she is in the mood, she will return the favor and start to play with mine.
2007-09-26 11:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋