2007-09-26 04:30:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm pretty firm on this:
Maybe
Some people will be friends and then end up "lovers" again
Many times, 1 person wants to be friends, the other wants to got back
Some times, people can handle being geniune friends. Some people divorce but keep working together or stay real friends.
be careful.
2007-09-26 05:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by www.AllGuides.com Publisher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it would work and I truly believe chances are slim. I don't associate my self with anybody I was involved with intimate physically/mentally/emotionally. Chances are when you have a new person it will cause all kinds of drama and I hate drama. So my opinion is that it's a bad idea. but if you aren't interested in going back into the dating scene yeah go for it talk but it might stap you down to moving forward and hey that's what life is all about. Platonic ...I think not theres always temptation for one or the other to re light the candlewick.
2007-09-26 11:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by *Ms. V.B * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've tried, but after a while, some one has butted out. Once you strat in a new relationship, things become complicated or the other person may build a resentment towards you and elect to butt out after a while. Some would refuse to accept the break up and try the best to get you back or ruin your new relationship on purpose.
I've always ended relationships in good terms, but have not kept contact with any of them, or may for a little bit and then it faded away.
Good luck
2007-09-26 11:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can - but then, I talk to my ex-BF on a regular basis.
The fact that it's been 15 years since we broke up is one factor. Before we were dating we were friends, and he is still a nice guy with a good sense of humor, so we're friends again. =) My husband knows that I talk to him, and I've told my husband that if he has any issues with it, to let me know.
The fact that he lives four states away also helps.
2007-09-26 12:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Once you've been physically intimate, it's pretty close to impossible to be "just friends." The mind has a habit of recalling past events, especially pleasant ones.
2007-09-26 16:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by smt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course. I have to ex's i am friends with and never went back to them as lovers or sex buddies either. Just keep your priorities straight and it can work out fine.
2007-09-26 11:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by MOM OF ONE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive got that going on with my ex right now. You dont always have to end relationships violently you know lol
2007-09-26 11:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by cardinals_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can!!!
if you want to and he wants to then you guys can make a normal friendship work...
it depends on the couple, but most people i know have been able to make it ok between themselves and their ex's
it started of really awkward for me, my ex hated me but then he realized he was being and ***. he got over it and now things are going back to normal. it takes time but the most important thing is to be happy, right?
2007-09-26 11:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can always be friends if u want, it might not work out, cuz it didnt for me, buts because he cheated on me and still wanted to be friends after i broke up with him. but if u two dont mind being friends then u can be friends
2007-09-26 11:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Why not?
Im bestest friends with all my Ex's. So it didn't work out, life goes on, and then i go have a cigarette. lol.
2007-09-26 11:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋