What do you do when you feel that somebody that you love dearly want to "crucify" YOU for some other things in their life? Do you let them do that and stop loving them because of it or you leave them before they "crucify" you and stop loving them because of their attempt? Old proverb says: A good teacher would always leave you in a belief that he/she left the student than to finish the lesson himself and show the student that it is he/she who actually left the teacher.
2007-09-26 05:09:22 · 5 answers · asked by radharani 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You mean like when they blame you for things that happened in their past that didn't even involve you? That's their issue, not yours. That's something they are going to have to deal with. You can either communicate with this person and remind them that you aren't the one who caused their pain or you can say, "I am not responsible for your insecurities and I'm leaving because I am not going to be blamed for it." The choice is yours.
2007-09-26 05:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, you think your smart by using the bible as a pull to get your point across. I also think your quote on the teacher is quit fascinating , but, it doesn't fool me.
What do you mean be "crucify" in terms of human being, rather then god himself?
Well, let me put it to you this way. I am going to be a total judgmental person right now and say, you are one of those
manipulators...To make matters that much better, or really, to make you feel better, I give you permission to call me a persecutor=0.....
2007-09-26 12:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever happened to, I only have the power to change myself and noone else??
are you responcible for something you did not do? may be the other person needs a good look at their own problems.throwing blame takes the focus off of you. you dont have to stop loving, but you do need to remember, you dont have the power to change someone else.
2007-09-26 12:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by PENNY S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will leave him/her without delay or remorse, once I am sure that I am going to be crucified.
2007-09-26 12:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what
2007-09-30 02:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋