we make time for each other about once a week.I don't want to stray.
I just feel like something different.
what should I do
2007-09-26 04:47:08 · 14 answers · asked by me1234529 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have more communcation. Its sounds like your in a routined marriage. Routine gets boring, so talk too her about it. The only thing you should do. Maybe you guys can do somethings to spice up the marriage. Either with sex or just in the normal. Good luck!
2007-09-26 04:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww.. you sound like a great guy.
Okay... here is what you do....
Take her to a day spa.... and you go with her. Both of you get pampered and massaged and all that good stuff.
Sign up for a yoga class together.... you will get limber, reduce stress, and be able to relax.
Sex is always easier to ease into once a woman is relaxed.
Learn to give each other massages with soothing oils and lotions. The more you touch each other the better.
Buy her some fun vibrating sex toys to get her warmed up. Spend at least thirty minutes warming her up before you ever get um.... down to business.
When your just sitting around relaxing... play with her hair (if she doesnt mind this). Most women like to have their hair played with ... it relaxes them and puts them in the mood.
Lots and lots of foreplay. On every body part. The more time you invest here... the more she will want you to touch her ALL THE TIME.
Foreplay is often more gratifying to a woman than the actual 'O'. Remember that and you will do well.
2007-09-26 11:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by pink 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your wife and something exciting or a change... you make time for each other once a week and that's great, but it sounds like you need some spontinaity.
Surprise her with dinner on the table when she gets home or tickets to a concert she'd love - make sure to line up the sitter if you have kids so she doesn't have to worry.
Sometimes, we like to stay in a cheap local hotel, meeting up in seperate cars after work... it sounds silly but it's like having an affair with your spouse. LOL!
Most importantly - if one thing doesn't help, don't give up...
2007-09-26 12:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very immature and boring person yourself. If you're bored, then you can immagine how your wife feels.
It is impossible for any relationship to sustain the sexual intensity that it once did in the beginning. This is called life and the natural course of a normal relationship. But many immature and self-centered people can't handle the feeling of the relationship become routine and so they opt to resort to cheating, as if the cheating will being satisfaction to their lives. Perhaps you need to find some ways to become more exciting yourself. Usually when people are bored, it's because they lack mental capacity for creativity. That means they are boring themselves.
2007-09-26 13:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you marriage is boring because you have taken on the roles of husband and wife only. Try being girlfriend and boyfriend, lovers and best friends to each other. Trust me you will find a lot of exciting things to do in life together and never have to stray.
2007-09-26 13:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not discuss this with your wife?? communication is key to resolving this issues. Your bored, then find creative solutions to intice your love life. Why does the cheating option always become the alternative??
If you are not invested in your marriage (well, you should not have gotten married), then let her know and go your seperate ways.
2007-09-26 12:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by Celebrate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm boost the time up to two times a week because you need it but dont think anyone here will condone you getting any strange cause that isnt right so change up what you have turn on the lights do it in the living room stuff like that
2007-09-26 11:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by the_orc_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling this way you can bet your boots she is feeling the same way. Start treating her as a hot girlfriend instead of your wife.
2007-09-26 11:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Try building ships in a bottle. Far from boring and very rewarding too.
2007-09-26 11:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should try an affair to spice up ur love life!
2007-09-26 12:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋