Family & Relationships - 26 September 2007

I really dont know what sould i do??
He comes home late and he is sleeping in a diferent room from me, im so confused.????
I find out throug his bank account that he got a hotel room over the weekend... I asked him and he said he got it for his friend, but idont believe him.......

2007-09-26 04:09:00 · 8 answers · asked by shelly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies a lot of guys these days are sporting the single-straight line goatee (chin hair), do you all like that look?

2007-09-26 04:08:05 · 5 answers · asked by Margaritavillian 6 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone acted on a taboo fantasy? I am curious to hear about your experiences. What was the fantasy? Did actually going through with it live up to your expectations?

2007-09-26 04:07:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you husband/boyfriend cheated on you would you do it back?
I love my husband and I'm with him because I still feel like if his the one for me,but I can't stand the fact that he cheated on me,
he has been the best guy ever seens then

2007-09-26 04:06:54 · 21 answers · asked by smiley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we live in ma.my guy 's x remarried in june to a docter and she threatens him to keep her on his policy or she will make him pay for new insurance,i say her dr. husband must pay for her health insuranse

2007-09-26 04:06:05 · 14 answers · asked by d-mass. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't understand why some women deny their husbands? sex is fun! even if i'm not turned i would still never say no to my husband because sex makes me feel loved and its nice to be close to him in that way. its a wife duty to satisfy her husband. when a man marries he promises to be faithful so its up to the wife to make her husband happy. i think all women should have sex with their husbands when and where he wants to.

2007-09-26 04:04:09 · 65 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

People always say, be nice, be honest especially when it comes to girls. Sometimes, i just feel that being straightforward and honest has a price to be paid. Does being too honest and nice cost dearly? Where do we draw the line, when it comes to relationships? It really hurts..

2007-09-26 04:02:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Based on the stuff I have seen here, I would say about 60% of these people have some serious psych issues. The worst part is that they come here asking for other sick people to help them instead of seeking PROFESSIONAL help.

2007-09-26 04:01:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-26 04:00:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My guy and I are planning to get engaged in January and have our wedding in late March/early April. We are not engaged now b/c he is in Iraq until January but we he already said he will "pop the question" when he gets back. We are both ok with eloping, but my sister did that and my family would be heartbroken for me to not have a wedding. So I guess we will be having a wedding, but want to keep it small. I would like some advice on how to keep it small, cheap, and unstressful in such short time. All the planning will happen between Jan-March. What are good refreshments to have? I dont want to plan a whole meal. Any ideas are helpful on things I can be preparing for now! thanks!

2007-09-26 03:59:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

because it doesn't seem the 'kiss on the hand' does the trick anymore...i've had my mates to me its the neck and others say its the forehead. only woman answer please! need to know for my new girlfriend :o)

2007-09-26 03:57:59 · 48 answers · asked by Thank Me Later... 4 in Singles & Dating

I saw this girl the other night at a restaurant. She saw me when I came in but I was seated where her back was to me. She went to the restroom and looked at me and smiled when she came back to her table. As I was leaving I passed by her table and she turned and looked at me with the biggest smile and said hi. Was she attracted to me and was she flirting with me? What did she want me to do?

2007-09-26 03:57:17 · 34 answers · asked by Blue-Eyed Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

In a relationship, do you tend to move wayy to fast, too slow, or just right for your significant other?

2007-09-26 03:55:00 · 14 answers · asked by rcds23 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 03:54:17 · 5 answers · asked by lattu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What would you do? We had 2 miscarriages 8 years ago and kind of have put off trying again. I'm 30 now and and ready to try. He says he's not sure if he wants kids then says okay lets have one. Five minutes later he's saying how all a kid will do is make him have to work longer and have less money. He's also made remarks about childcare cost and then says but let's have one after he has made all these excuses not to! Okay, I'm not stupid, so I'm not going to just have one with him feeling this way. I'm just crushed b/c I thought we would have at least one some day. I really didn't think he would feel this way and am kind of confused since we have been married so long. When I am around him now I feel different?? Does this make sense? Anyone have any advise?

2007-09-26 03:54:06 · 16 answers · asked by I got answers! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I always had exotic fantasies of me having sex with my 3rd grade teacher, and also my 5th grade teacher. Of course I am a male so that is to be expected. Any hot teachers I have I will fantasize about. Does anyone else do this?

2007-09-26 03:51:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One year and half ago i had to have a ft and a half removed from my small intestine. They do not know why this happened or what causes it. Since then i've been on medication for my digestive system and chronic fatigue syndrome. It took me 4 months to recover enough to get out of bed and be more active. I currently enrolled in a dental program and hope to gain more energy to eventually lose the weight and more importantly gain my self esteem back. All of my friends give me compliments all the time, but are they just being nice cause they don't want to hurt my feelings?

2007-09-26 03:51:26 · 11 answers · asked by PicaSSo of Parta PlnN 2 in Singles & Dating

Or one who was beautiful but was kinda.....ya know.

2007-09-26 03:50:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

One year and half ago i had to have a ft and a half removed from my small intestines. They do not know why this happened or what causes it. Since then i've been on medication for my digestive system. It took me 4 months to recover enought to get out of bed and be more active. I currently enrolled in a dental program and hope to gain more energy to eventually lose the weight and more importantly gain my self esteem back. All of my friends give me compliments all the time, but are they just being nice cause they don't want to hurt my feelings?

2007-09-26 03:49:18 · 39 answers · asked by PicaSSo of Parta PlnN 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 03:49:06 · 12 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

she likes mean but shes very unattractive what do i say

2007-09-26 03:48:24 · 23 answers · asked by trinidadboy0313 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband seemed to get bore with me after a couple of weeks since we were toghther..and seeing he looks at other woman i fell in love with other man...

i never cheated....but i wanted..later i realised it would have been better if i would have divorced..instead of letting him cheat me so many times..

2007-09-26 03:47:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

His ex wife married him sometime while she was in high school and divorced him in the 1980's.
I want to know when they were married. Are these records public? Can I call the courthouse and ask when their marriage was registered and when they were divorced?

2007-09-26 03:46:00 · 13 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex has not been paying child support so I took him to court. He is now married, and she is paying all the bills. We have court Friday, and I need to know if he shows nothing earned on his past two W2's, will her income come into play. Also they own five homes, two in both their names, and three under just his wifes. Four are vacation homes that they rent out, and one is their residence. They have asked me to settle before court, I don't want to make a decision to settle, then regret it. Any input asap would be greatly appreciated!! Thank you!

2007-09-26 03:45:33 · 16 answers · asked by Angel333... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

please do answer seriously..oh my God, I know this sounds so pathetic but I really need to hear from you guys..He's been with me for almost a year now..but I've caught him several times..texting other girls..ok..he has this habit of getting interested with other girls..dating, texting them out..and when I find out (God, I check his phone without him knowing it!),he would discard them..i know men are men but isn't there any chance that he would just stick with me..just me!..whenever i bring the issue out, he would actually put the blame on me..i was supposed to be the one angry because he's kinda flirting with other women but he turns the table on me..and he gets mad because I check his phone..Oh God, I know, I should be dumping him..but i just couldn't..he could easily talk things out smoothly and makes it appear like it was my fault..he actually doesn't think that he's doing something bad..what am i supposed to do..is he really right? am i just overreacting?..

2007-09-26 03:44:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I split up because he drank too much, was using drugs and was abusive. He started an affair with a girl half his age. He was doing it with her in my house while I was at work. And threatened our children if they told me. I got a restraining order against him. He keeps violating it and the police won't do anything because we live in two different states. How can I stop him. He gets my number off those "search for anyone" sites.

2007-09-26 03:43:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

During the chinese mid autumn day, my friend who is work in overseas projec, she called the moon is blue moon.

2007-09-26 03:42:57 · 2 answers · asked by beckygao923 1 in Friends

I know it is somewhat important for a relationship to have intimacy...however, sex is not something I have any interest in...in fact, i am scared of it. It is painful and just not worth it. I actually think that unless you want a child, it is dumb. I dont enjoy it and I am starting to think that it is because my mom made sex look unappealing my whole life. I feel dirty and unhappy....even if my boyfriend and I make out...We are planning on getting married soon...in life six months, but I dread our honeymoon. I dont know why I have this hatred for it. My boyfriend is very understanding...but I feel awful because I do get turned on, but I never want to act on it. Its very frusterating when I cant even enjoy a long kiss. I am scared to death of a gynecologist...I tried to go, but I cried so hard that I just drove home. Maybe someone out there can tell me why I am so strange? Do women actually enjoy sex? It doesnt seem like I will ever warm up to my sexual side!!!

2007-09-26 03:40:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 2 years, have a beautiful child with my stunning wife. We have very healthy sex life, and very happy marriage. Even though I'm sitting here in an office with 20 of the finest hotties, all I'm doing is fantasizing about my wife at home. is this normal?

2007-09-26 03:39:20 · 14 answers · asked by James 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When my boyfriend and I have sex he always comes in 5 mins or less?

Do that mean it's bad or good?

He has sex before mean?

or he just don't like my sex?

and please don't reply as a 5 min man because I don't need the jokes.

I will like to here from the men.

2007-09-26 03:38:16 · 7 answers · asked by msgris2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce