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Family & Relationships - 26 September 2007

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Ok, so I'm at work and for the second time this month the school calls me to tell me my daughter has head lice and she can't ride the bus home so someone has to come and get her. The first time she was sent home, we were told that her best friend was sent home as well with it. Nobody had ever had it at our home. None of our family members had had it either. The school year had just started up and the kids hadn't been to anyone else's house in a couple of months. So we pretty much ruled everything else out - it has to be coming from this little girl. She's really poor and I guess her parents don't give a crap about her. I cannot afford to take off any more work to deal with this. I'll spend all night combing thru my daughters hair again. She is only 7. How can I teach her to make better friends. Sighs. I know, I'm not being mature, but I'm so incredibly frustrated with this!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-26 08:14:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I said that I didn't have a girlfriend when I did. She found out later about my girlfriend and met with her and told her everything. My girlfriend quit me after that. What can I do to get back together with my girlfriend??

2007-09-26 08:12:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 08:10:04 · 14 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I am 14 years old and my parents are divorced. I've been living with my mom for my entire life and I've decided that I want to move to my dad's because I think I'll become a happier(because all of my best friends live in the same town as my dad) and more successful(because over there I'll join some extra-curricular activity because my friends are there). My mom, I think, has anger issues because she always yells at me for dumb things (like entering the room when she's on the computer and leaving stuff on the floor). By yelling, I MEAN yelling, not talking loudly, YELLING. So I ask my dad to talk to my mom about it and he did. She freaked out and said I'll become like my dad(lazy) and become unsuccessful. She also thinks my friends will change me into a bad person(but she doesn't care about my brother's friends, and HE GOT CAUGHT SMOKING POT WITH THEM). So yeah, I told her that I won't change and she wouldn't listen and she continued to yell. So i wrote her a 2 page letter(contd)

2007-09-26 08:09:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mom and sister live together, along with my sister's 3 kids. I love them very dearly and they mean the world to me. They are very poor, and they are always asking me & my husband for money. We paid over $1500 last month to rent them a house in a new state because they hated where they were living. We also paid their car payment and sent them money for food. Now the 1st is almost here and they dont have any money for the rent. My mom cant keep a waitress job and my sister for some reason wont get a job. I am the only one they can count on. What am I supposed to do? I am only 23 and have been married less than a year. I am a full time college student and my husband and I dont have very much money. But I dont want to refuse them because I care about my neices and nephew so much. Does anyone have any advice? Has anyone else gone through this?

2007-09-26 07:59:08 · 26 answers · asked by Crystal O 1 in Family

I am helping my sister pick out songs for her wedding and she said she wants a duet for the first dance (bride and groom). She wants a duet, because she said that most songs are either from the man's or the woman's point of view, and she wants BOTH for her first dance. Thanks for the help!

2007-09-26 07:58:20 · 14 answers · asked by Amber L 2 in Weddings

One of my best friends is getting married in 9 days. Her fiancees bachelor party was a week ago. My fiancee stopped at their house before hand and saw that like last time we were there he punched several holes in the wall. He is an alcoholic and spent time in jail after being kicked out of the service after being found with cocaine twice. She has already lost 2 bridesmaids in the past for them saying that he may not be right 4 her 4 other reasons. Her family doesnt really care for him either. I don't thnk he is the type to ever hit her but he is someone completley different when he drinks. He was doing okay for a while by smoking pot to deal with not drinking. Now hes back to drinking. This is not a good situation at all. It's getting down 2 the wire just 9 days away but I feel horrible that she hasen't said anything like the other times I was there 2 witness, so she knows I know how he gets. I don't want 2 see her get divorced but I think I'm too late to say anything. Am I?

2007-09-26 07:55:43 · 3 answers · asked by lovemykids 1 in Friends

and i'm not talking flowers and candle lit dinners all the time, i'm talking about a simple compliment, or i dunno, not farting in my direction!!

it seems like all i ever see is "how to please your man" or "how to keep him interested" or some crap like that. why is it never the other way?!

2007-09-26 07:53:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 07:52:04 · 18 answers · asked by Billy B 1 in Singles & Dating

To make my story short husband of 13 y cheated on me 2 y ago, i have never been over it but stayed for my 3 children.I got a job overnight and believe me it's my safe haven because i get to leave the house and have my mind on something else.I have made many friends witch i did not have at all b4,and one day someone told him i speak with guy co-workers and flipped.We had an argument that turned violent and he went to jail for a month but still is on trial on top of that he lost his job.He lives with his sister now . He calls me almost every other day 3 or more times a day asking for forgiveness and that he does not want to loose his family.He has lost weight ,does not sleep and is constanly seeking a way to see me.I remind him every time of what he did to me and my sleepless nights also, that killed every deep emotion i had for him.He cries constantly and begs for my forgivness but i have set my foot down.I care for him but love is not in me anymore.

2007-09-26 07:51:03 · 23 answers · asked by flaca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i was his first girlfriend. I always think that we end up together. but we lose communications and he called me. we have a nice talk, remembering the past life we shared. He told me he's still single but after few months of sharing love thoughts he told me he was married, deny it at first because he don't want to hurt me for i'm still special. I told him that i can't let him go, i don't want to give him up. it's very hard, it made me sick just thinking of him and the memories we have. help!!!

2007-09-26 07:48:25 · 51 answers · asked by rhodz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he's the prefect guy for me! BUT im too shy to talk to him. what if im not the perfect girl for him! what should i say? he prolly doesnt even know i exist and hes not in any of my classes.
i know, im babbling but i need tips on how to talk to a guy whom ive never met....

2007-09-26 07:47:40 · 6 answers · asked by ♡ angel from your nightmare ♡ 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this rellay good guy friend! he has done so much for all of the other friends. drives us around, is always there for us. we were pretty ungreatful. now hes in a stress fase...hates everythin around him, is irritated by everyone around him. and all this because we take him for granted. i noticed this quite recently. and i want to do somethin for him. no party(he has enough of those). something that he sees how much we care for him, and how much he means to us! because he is really a great guy! im greatful for every idea!

2007-09-26 07:44:56 · 1 answers · asked by sabinaauchi 2 in Friends

I have been married what will be 5 yrs soon and I am 25 yrs old going on 26 ; my husband is 35 yrs old.I have a daughter who is 5 yrs old from a previous relationship and a son who will be turning 2 yrs old(not my hubbys).My hubby cheated we seperated 5-6 months and i cheated in retaliation 2 weeks later I got back together with my husband unaware i was pregnant with my son.I informed my hubby that we might need a paternity test but when the doctor placed conception in time line we had gotten back together hubby said dna test was not needed.When my son was 1.5 we had a medical emergency a dna test was done it turned out my hubby was not the dad.My hubby got extremley harsh since then spanking the kids over small things and being very controling with me.I told him last night that we needed to talk today over dinner and this morning i left for 4 hrs to babysit for a friend.To come home to a almost vacant and vandalized house and no clothing?Police came said all i could do is file report?

2007-09-26 07:44:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this year im in eight grade and ive never got below a b in any class in my life and i dont understand how im doing so badly any suggestions

2007-09-26 07:42:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my best friends is kind of screwed up. She's had a really hard life, she's dark, and she's fallen in with the wrong crowd this year, and she's dragging me down with her. Well, I've never been known as a "good girl" and most people at school expect me to drink and do drugs and stuff, but I don't and I don't want to.
Well, she tells a lot of stories about all her weird hangovers and stuff, and recently she's invited me unofficially to go with her to a party where there's probably alcohol. (she said they were having a hard time getting it) I don't want to stop being her friend because she really needs me, and I don't want to lose my other friends (most of them drink and stuff and if I outright refuse I'll lose my rep... yeah I'm a bit concieted like that), but I don't want to get all drunk and jacked up, either.

So what's a good excuse or a way to avoid her?

Oh, by the way, we're in eighth grade. Kinda sad, I know. :(

2007-09-26 07:40:12 · 6 answers · asked by Echo 5 in Friends

I have a 12 year old son from a previous marriage, and my husband has a 13 year old son from a previous marriage, both boys live in our home.

We are running into problems with competition and jealousy which is normal between siblings, but this situation is a little different since there are so many other parents and grandparents involved.

One set of grandparents will buy one child something, so the other one feels left out and is upset. Then a few weeks later, the other child may come home with something better that his dad has bought and allowed him to bring to my house. (We are talking laptops, cell phones, video games, etc.)

Now they are talking about what each other's parents and grandparents outside of our home are going to buy them for Christmas and their birthdays that they will be bringing here. It has already started bad feelings and fights between my husband and I.

Should we tell them they can't bring anything into our house unless we buy it?

2007-09-26 07:39:11 · 4 answers · asked by MO 2 in Family

Okay, here is the cycle:

I date and date and date. Usually 3-5 guys at one time. I do this because one just never seem sto be enough and because I don't really have a "type". Now don't get me wrong: I don't sleep with 3-5 guys...just date.

During the dating process, I love it. I think it's fun, exciting, interesting and on and on. But then, wham! I get sick of it. I want to settle down. So, the next guy that comes around that I am somewhat interested in that wants to get serious, it happes. But after about a year or so, it fizzles out and 2 weeks after the break-up I've got 4 guys calling me again.

This has been going on for about 3 years now. My last relationship ended in late July and already I couldn't even tell you how many dates I have been on, and there's a constant 3 that I go out with regularly.

I am very happy with myself, I have GREAT girlfriends, I love my life...so why do I do this? How do I stop? Not sure if I want to stop, though...Its fun!

2007-09-26 07:38:08 · 11 answers · asked by meggybucks1 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I live in the NE and are planning to move to San Diego in 2 years because of the pleasant weather there (both of us hate the snow and cold).

We're both very close with our parents and siblings, and both our families currently live within an hour of where we currently live.

I know they would be heartbroken if we move, especially when we have kids and they would not get to see them that often. Is it bad of us to want to get away and start a new life together across the country? If we could take them all with us, we would.

Please answer without consideration for money, jobs, cost of living, etc. I'm mainly just dealing with guilt issues and whether or not this is all right to do.

2007-09-26 07:37:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Or is it true that time is the only healer!

2007-09-26 07:36:51 · 24 answers · asked by Nadine 2 in Singles & Dating

how many women actually buy porn and enjoy it?what about about romantic porn or porn designed to be appealing at women...i can't seem to find it anywhere though i'm sure there must be some out there.any suggestions?

2007-09-26 07:36:17 · 19 answers · asked by luckyi_iducky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend has a female cousin who has bought him subscription to porn. i was told that this was no big deal. recently, i have learned that she also shares with him that "her friend" bleaches her, uh, privates...

he says they're just like close friends, and she's no different from his buddies. i involuntarily got sick to my stomach, and he's offended by my disgust. was i overreacting?

2007-09-26 07:36:14 · 5 answers · asked by Toni 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 07:34:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is my first time having a yard sale and I would like some hints on what I should do or don't do? Should I price things right off the bat or should I let them ask me??? I want to sell everything????

2007-09-26 07:34:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Most of my friends do. What I mean is, they no longer keep in touch with you, they could care less now that they are married if they even have any friends. They do the same with their family almost.

Is that going to happen to me too when I get married in this upcoming February? Does it happen to all couples? Does this happen just to young couples?

2007-09-26 07:33:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Getting ready to propose and I want it to be really special, but not too over the top - not my style. I know my girlfriend would like something romantic, but not cheesy. I am hoping to pop the question late October, Early/Mid November. We are located in Southeastern PA, USA. Any suggestions? ? ?

2007-09-26 07:32:57 · 17 answers · asked by CA241 1 in Weddings

What honest advice would you give someone planning to wed (not me - my advice would be: don't lol), and has your marriage turned out as you would have hoped?

2007-09-26 07:32:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

whats the best way to confront someone about their drug abuse? Someone very close to you.

2007-09-26 07:30:44 · 12 answers · asked by kakeydec 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Latin women and the way they talk is so sexy to me, but lately that orbit gum lady that is in the commercials (i think its a british accent) has me wrapped around her finger! (she sounds so sexy....goodness)hahaha.

2007-09-26 07:30:40 · 16 answers · asked by MrRyan 3 in Singles & Dating

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