One of my best friends is getting married in 9 days. Her fiancees bachelor party was a week ago. My fiancee stopped at their house before hand and saw that like last time we were there he punched several holes in the wall. He is an alcoholic and spent time in jail after being kicked out of the service after being found with cocaine twice. She has already lost 2 bridesmaids in the past for them saying that he may not be right 4 her 4 other reasons. Her family doesnt really care for him either. I don't thnk he is the type to ever hit her but he is someone completley different when he drinks. He was doing okay for a while by smoking pot to deal with not drinking. Now hes back to drinking. This is not a good situation at all. It's getting down 2 the wire just 9 days away but I feel horrible that she hasen't said anything like the other times I was there 2 witness, so she knows I know how he gets. I don't want 2 see her get divorced but I think I'm too late to say anything. Am I?
2007-09-26 07:55:43 · 3 answers · asked by lovemykids 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she can't see him for what he is, then she can plan on having nothing but problems in the future. And to think that out of all the guys in the world, this is the one she chooses to marry.
2007-09-26 08:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control your friend, and if she's stupid enough to marry an alcoholic, it's her life.
I'd say your friend lacks self-esteem and good judgment... and he will probably hit her. It's only a matter of time. And the guy will get worse after marriage, not better.
Some women are so desparate to get married, they will hook up with anyone.
2007-09-26 08:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i think u should say something to her if she gets mad at u she will one day relize that she should have listiened to you
2007-09-26 08:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by ╚»ღ{§tεph 11.21.08}ღ«╝ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋