my boyfriend has a female cousin who has bought him subscription to porn. i was told that this was no big deal. recently, i have learned that she also shares with him that "her friend" bleaches her, uh, privates...
he says they're just like close friends, and she's no different from his buddies. i involuntarily got sick to my stomach, and he's offended by my disgust. was i overreacting?
2007-09-26 07:36:14 · 5 answers · asked by Toni 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me it would be unheard of for any of my female cousins to even discuss porn with me, much less for them to buy me a subscription to it. It seems like an odd gift - it indicates that she wants to turn him on sexually - but she's his cousin.
The privates bleaching thing I've never heard of. But that's probably because even if someone I knew was having someone bleach them, why would they tell me? Again, it sounds like this cousin is being too sexually oriented.
However, I am definitely more reserved and conservative than a lot of people.
2007-09-26 07:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by dkarlsenyh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him be offended. Thats nasty. Now I have a male cousin who's like a brother to me and I would rather sh*t and fall back in than tell him about my private parts. Who the hell buys a cousin porn!?!? I'm mean it one thing if they go out to movies or whatever but that the rest is nasty. Sorry.
2007-09-26 07:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 01:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the big deal she is only a Friend of his cousin
2007-09-26 07:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by modeerhntr2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not worrry about it...unless he admires her. Then that could be a problem. You might have very different value systems which poses a long-term problem.
2007-09-26 07:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋