Family & Relationships - 26 September 2007

I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 and a half years. I thought we had a pretty good relationship (i.e. he trusts me with things and wouldn't go and tell other people our personal stuff)

Well anyway, my boyfriend is friends with some of my friends that I've known for about 13 years. He talks to them on MSN, which I'm fine with.

He just tells me now that he told one of my friends about what we've done sexually and she's told him things she's done sexually.

I thought I could trust him not to tell anyone, as I don't believe it's anyone elses business. She told him things that were really personal.

When I asked him what she had told him, he wouldn't tell me. He did eventually though, it wasn't anything overly special.

Do I have a right to feel hurt?

I'm not dumping my boyfriend, he's the only true friend and family I have and he's stuck with me. There is no way he's cheating on me with her, we're in a long distance relationship.

2007-09-26 22:33:20 · 13 answers · asked by ★☆✿❀ 7 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 and live in a joint family with my uncles. Last week, my cousin (15) and I went for our weekly swim in our neighbouring pool.

I have 36 C breasts and was wearing a two piece bikini which is quite decent. During the swim, I suddenly noticed that my cousin was looking at my breasts in a funny way.
My nipples were erect (due to the cold water) and thats what he was checking out... and as I looked down at his briefs - he had an raging erection. It was making a funny tent in his briefs...!

I tried to cover myself & look away and I could see that he was trying to sheild his condition with his hand....but since then I feel wierd talking to him.

Did he have that because he was looking at me in that way?
How should I punish him?
Is it right for him to look at my breasts?
Is he a perv or are all boys as bad?
What should I do? Should I tell his parents?
Should I continue to go swimming with him in future?

2007-09-26 22:27:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well.. I like this girl and we have been texting and chatting. she knows that i'm interested on her cuz i told her and she was like. why me? stuff like that. And I ask a silly question like Do u think is possible for us to be together and she said not now, maybe in the future when i like you. Went out with her once (just the school library =.=).. but things are just getting bored now.. what does this mean? Any suggestion on what should I do next?

2007-09-26 22:18:13 · 9 answers · asked by Dude 2 in Singles & Dating

How can you tell if you have grown out of your crush?, how long after would you label this crush as an ex crush? and can crushes change as you get older?

2007-09-26 22:13:57 · 5 answers · asked by lil1 2 in Singles & Dating

Í want to be social and I want to know how to approach a person ,how to talk and avoid taking things personally

2007-09-26 22:12:16 · 7 answers · asked by Rohini N 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 22:12:16 · 5 answers · asked by sodiumpressure 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-26 22:03:14 · 10 answers · asked by Noemi M 1 in Friends

my husband and i were offered good jobs overseas on the same day. i have a higher offer and better total package and i get to start immediately. my husband only starts in 2 months. we have 2 kids, ages 5 and 8. hubby wants me to stay with the kids because i'm the mommy, i wanted to be the one to go for practical reasons (we've got immediate bills to pay and the job would help).

Also, we have a business, if either one of us goes, of course the other would manage it. But if both of us accepts the offer, we sell the business, take the risk abroad, in-laws would take care of the kids for a few months up to a year, then whatever happens, we will get the kids when everything's settled. what do you suggest?

2007-09-26 22:02:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am not handsome, i know that, but doesnt it irks you when ppl who you dont know calls you darling or babe ?

I tell you the reason why i dont like it,

1) I work at a shop and when a women calls me darling its demeaning to me because they think i will get them a better price if they call me that, im not deseprate

2) They dont know me close enough to call me that,

3) I am not sure if she really means it or if she is a MILF,

Well i know i sound a little snobbish here but what if i were to come up to you and call you babe the very first time i met you ? would you be ok with it ? its not a question of gender here, its a question of being a little sensible of what you call ppl, I dont mind an elderly ppl call me that, but ppl of my same age and maybe a little over my age calling me that is really demeaning and a little sexist

I dont mind women calling me that actually but shouldnt it be done after knowing you a few times at least ?

2007-09-26 21:54:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 21:51:20 · 4 answers · asked by .. . 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think its ok to live with your boyfriend?

I know that sounds like an immature question, but this is our second time around for both of us, and I have 2 children from my first marriage.

The kids get along well with him etc ....there are no problems ....but I just wonder if Im setting the 'right' example by living with him.....and not being married or at least engaged?

2007-09-26 21:50:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Met a lady around a year ago, we liked each other a lot but I kind of messed her around in the process as I wasn’t sure if I want a relationship and lead her on slightly. She did a lot for me in the process by even putting a TV on credit for me worth 1,500 and was there for me through alot of things. I ended things for good as I really liked her but didn’t want a relationship at that time. I started to loose respect throught he year and started treatin her like crap. telling her things like go and get a man and stop callin and texin me!! I said I was going to give her back her money no doubt about that! and was ignoring any calls she would make to me. since then she has stopped calling and her number that I did have has been switched off since june as this was in june sometime! I have also heard from a mate that they saw her recently few times driving in a new BMW car. Do you think she has moved on then and over me maybe met someone else, or is she just trying to not call?

2007-09-26 21:41:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The other night we were on the bed, making out, and he put my hand on his penis.... I dont know what to do... I'm not uncomfortable or anything, I just dont know what to do!!!
Please help me!!!

2007-09-26 21:26:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I and my friends slept at friend house i slept with friend sister she did not say anything and in morning i came to know that she lost her virginity and now she is force me having intercourse again and again

2007-09-26 21:26:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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2007-09-26 21:25:20 · 4 answers · asked by Bambi 2 in Singles & Dating

any ways like i was saying severly attractive great personality and legal. how do i get a sugar daddy? all these guys out here just trickin off money and i want some. im not tryin to be shallow so dont be mean. im serious

2007-09-26 21:16:05 · 10 answers · asked by chitowns_jewel 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 21:14:37 · 20 answers · asked by Sophie Jeter 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This would be right thing to say? Would to attend the funeral?
Would the help the family or give them space?

2007-09-26 21:12:22 · 6 answers · asked by byee77777 2 in Friends

2007-09-26 21:04:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She married my friend last year. Before marriage she had told him and his family that she is longing for love and her parents are after her money. Before marriage they both had decided to go abroad away from her parents and live happily after they got married.

After marriage the tables turned, suddenly. She left my friend hardly 15 days of marriage and didnt inform about her whereabouts to her husband or his family. And her parents also deny their knowledge about her contacts.

Recently, my friend had come to know the place where she is living and she is living in a single bedroom apartment with a male colleague. And her parents also visit her quite often.

When she knew that my friend had found out her, she started to mail him and blamed him for what et al happened. And she is claiming that the colleague is brother (kindof) person to her.

My friend is confused what to do? Kindly suggest.

2007-09-26 21:00:34 · 11 answers · asked by A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

WHAT IS the silliest thing you ever did or was told you did while being drunk or -uh getting it on? COME ON, DO NOT BE SHY.??

2007-09-26 20:57:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 20:44:03 · 10 answers · asked by ben t 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married for three years, no kids. We are currently living in a three bedroom house given to us by his family. Our marriage has been pretty normal with its ups and downs. My husband has recently been diagnosed with depression, and we are doing better on this matter now.Marriage is supposed to be in sickness and health and thats what I have been doing taking care of him like I'm supposed to, thats my job. I have a pretty dysfuntional family, but he comes from a functional one. My mother doesn't have a thing to her name and lives with my sister and her family, my step-dad takes care of my other 4 siblings, while my other 2 brothers are in a bind. One brother 19yrs has been recently diagnosed schizophrenic and is in hospital , but will need a place to stay for medicine monitoring purposes.The 19yr old has always been independent and working until this occured and was living with a roomate. So he isn't a bum, just needs a little support for managing his life.

2007-09-26 20:40:27 · 13 answers · asked by Muslimah S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Making a list would be great [even expected]. However if you make a list like for instance, (1)money etc.,, then can you PRETTY PLEASE tell me a specific situation in which you argued about money. What was the argument about? Did you want to buy fishing gear and she wanted to buy italian pumps?
Use all the details needed because I reward details.

2007-09-26 20:38:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok theres this girl whose in my math class, sometimes I see her sitting on a bench using her laptop. I haven't spoken to her once yet and sometimes I catch her looking at me and once I catch her eyes I look away as tho I didn't catch her. So I feel like approaching her and become friends but I'm just afraid she'll think I'm creepy or we might get off at a bad start. What should I do? She seems like a smart and nice person. Thanks for reading.

2007-09-26 20:22:01 · 7 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Friends

I had an affair at the time 11 year old found me at it and told his father!
His father through me out onto the streets literally and divorced me, took almost everything we owned.
I married the O/man who at the time I thought I was in love with, I know it was a fantasy!

My now 13 year old son when his father made him visit me drove our car through our home, and because it was considered ownership vandalism, would not pay the policy over 800K, we went bankrupt last week. My 2nd husband and I am getting divorced!

I don't have a job now I hit my son and was arrested and plead guilty, so I can't be bonded, and broke now.

I want to know why so many people tell you who never had a child or felt it grow in your belly or the day you gave birth to it,Why everyone says cut your losses, walk away!

I'm 51, he's my only child how can I without hurting or going crazy?
He was a good boy until I screwed up so why should he suffer for my mistakes, why do I blame him and not myself?

2007-09-26 20:13:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so there is this guy i really like but hes well, umn, SHORT.. so i dont really want to be seen in public with him.. however, thats not my question, my question is, when i was talkin to him, he made mention of wanting to have children one day, and i told him i would never give him children, because what if i had a son, i wouldnt want my song to have no chance at all to be tall.... was that wrong to say? could i have hurt his self-esteem?

2007-09-26 20:12:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever had what I call a "married crush" on someone? What I mean is, you meet someone and get to know them and you like them alot and maybe think "if I weren't married maybe something could happen here" but still have no sexual feelings toward that person.

2007-09-26 20:12:14 · 9 answers · asked by Tiffany 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Like my name says, i'm a virgin.
Just want to know if the older you get, the tougher or stronger the hymen gets?? What I mean is, will it hurt more my first time, since i'm 22 yrs old?and if I wait more to lose my virginity, for instace when i'm like 24 yrs old, will I suffer more from the pain compared to if I had sex when I was 17 ?

Need help here, thanks

2007-09-26 20:02:49 · 3 answers · asked by Gwen 3 in Singles & Dating

Some girls say it hurt like hell, others say it was alrite, I guess it depends on each person.
But I really want to know what you felt...a pinch? a stab? or not a big deal??
Please let me know...bc i'm freakin out
i'm still a virgin

thanks

2007-09-26 19:58:11 · 9 answers · asked by Gwen 3 in Singles & Dating